sigh... im seriously so depressed now....... hers originally why...
well, everything is going so... crazy.... you see, i was talking to a friend (of both of me and "her") and i asked what "she" told her.... apparently.. she said that she broke up w/ me...
i just feel so depressed to have to hear it froma friend whereas she told me that we would be friends and see how it goes in a week. and prob get together..... but shes been purposely avoiding me today...... life sucks....

Theres not much you can do. I'm sorry you are feeling depressed but it's certainly not the end of the world. Don't give up.. you can always find someone new. She probably wasn't the one for you. Just give her some time, I'm sure you can still be friends.

1) You aren't in love.
2) Just leave her.
3) Yes, easier said than done.
4) Just leave her.

god th5418 thx for being soo sympathetic.....
i still want to be friends with her...... we both knew we liked eachother... i just guess it didnt work out...

Oh, you want em to agree with you. Yes, you should stay with her. She should soon learn to get along with you. In time, it should happen.. someday. Don't leave her. Be with her. Stay with her. Love her. Cherish her. For she is sacred. And you should always remember that. She is sacred. Now get your butt off the chair and go love her. Cherish her. For she is sacred.

thats not what i mean... i want to be "closer" as a friend, but im just saying... ack...

Just let her go! Time will soothe it. I hope. Unless you are a pansy. You aren't a pansy are you?

this is turning very odd... ok.. um...... i dont see what there is to let go seeing she officially "broke up" with me.... and as i said many times b4 i want to be friends with her..... the way u speak of letting her go sound rather... rash i think....

don't act like this, it'll probably scare her and she won't take you back, get back to your normal life and act a little bit carefree, girls don't like it when you are obsessed.

I'm saying that being friends will hurt you more than now. You walk your way. She walks her way...

th, you're a girl?!

Um, yeah.

thx for the inpuit but let me try to restate this.... i know the relationship is over... it might work outn some other time but i doubt it... wha ti wnat now is to restore our friendship. we were always friends, but it seems to be getting very.. awkward........ i just dont want to end up like every other broken up couple and never speak to eachother again...

Well, okay but prepare to enter a world of pain and awkwardness. Its pretyt obvious she hurt you pretty badly. I mean, she didnt even tell YOu that she broke up with you did she? Just keep talking to her or something then. Don't bring up the relationship. It will work out..... somehow.

i actually think the reason she didnt tell me straightfoward was because of my friends... tehy made a joke once and kind of overexaggerated (saying id probably kill myself if we broke up.... which she probably took that i'dreally get seriously depressed whereas im trying to take a positive approach now....) and she took it seriously..... but hey, im not sure..

hm yeah theres nothing much you can do right now just try to get by and its obviously gonna be awkward and weird at first but you will become friends again later on.

you have to talk to her if you want things to be better.. because she the only one that can answer the questions.. shouldnt joke about commiting suicide, beucase that is a reallly a big step.. just be friends for now and see what can happen in the future.. if shes not the one then shes not the one. but you have to wait it out.. and remember that love is patience

just move on, there is nothing you can do about it. many girls come in & out of your life. obviously, she isn't the one. don't do anything stupid because it ain't worth it.

thx everoyne.. "shouldnt joke about commiting suicide"
uhh i dont believe i said that.... i wasnt even there. when the person said that.... smooene else told me.

Drop her all together-.-. trust me you don't want a ex for a friend. unless the break up was for a wierd reason.^.-

move on. there's nothing u can do..