Okay, here is the situation. My boyfriend is either extremely shy, or he just doesn't like me. We've been going out for over a month, and i hugged him once, and thats it. Am I just impatient or is there something that I should be thinking about?

I have no clue... Sorry I can't help, but maybe you should hug him more don't except him to always take the lead in hugging.

i think he's shy...girl, you've only been together for a lil over a month, maybe hes not ready to move on...haha, my bf was like that, it'll get better...guaranteed

Keep ON hugging him until he returns a hug

*nods* mhm mhm

yeah, maybe he's shy. with my first boyfriend, it was like that, we didn't really have that much physical contact. just hug him more i guess.

My boyfriend is the exact same way. Maybe he's just not ready. Don't be afraid, and don't leave him.. Tell him you want to get more physical and ask if he's alright with it.. Then he'll hug you and everything. Trust me I had to do it too.. It works!

GOOD LUCK!!!

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why don't you make tyhe moves....boys don't have to do everything

He's shy...but shy can be a very good thing. there are too many guys in the world that push girls into doing things they wouldn't want to do. He's taking it slow...so go with it..It's special what you've got. My last relationship the guy didn't even hold my hand until 6 months in the relationship. I got so impatient, lol..i thought he didn't like me. But when he DID take my hand and hug me, and kiss me..it was so special and i was glad i didn't rush it. Maybe you should try the same. But i dunno it's ur situation, i'm just givin yah my opinion

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agreed pretty much. he's probably just shy so you take the lead sometimes. besides, theres no rush.

exactly what she said

i agree....he might be shy like other ppl r saying...

first thing i do is give my girlfriend a hug and kiss when i see her.

Lol, reading all the replies were just so awww. :] Just wait and see what happens, but keep on huggin'. :P

me n my last bf used to be really shy too. that's until he complained about it to my friends and my friends told me.. then we started doing stuff. that was all in a week or 2.. soo... it's a bit late. i think u're just both shy and one of u should make the other realize what u're both doing.

my bf and i didn't hug until like 3 months into the relationship, we only held hands like twice?

he is probably shy, maybe he wants you to make the first move.

just hug him. its just a frkkn hug and you're his gf. you can hug him anytime you want.

go ahead.. you see i think differently... maybe hes not shy.... i mean how i am.... i like wont do anything until im sure shes confortable with it, so i wait for her.

He's shy be more AGGRESSIVE ^.- . But not to AGGRESSIVE you do have to respect him somewhat... But your a girl you can get away with it

Or perhaps he's just a prude.

He doesn't like you

^^meaney hehe...j/k

I think you should push him down and be like kiss me now effer...!!!

I agree.

Stop letting him take the lead & maybe you should make the moves since he's shy? if he didn't like you then he would have broken up with you or something. Talk to him about it.

i have a friend whos boyfriend is just like that, he is really shy so i geuss it just takes some time lol before he bcomes...unshy? haha lol you know i mean

woah!! okay i unno ive never been in a situation like that. talk to him ask him whats going on!