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jimmyjackiechan
I'm single, WOO HOO~! Feels great to be independent. but, every one misses out on them warm hugs. But I don't want to be with a G/F cause it's stressful, and kinda hard to maintaine while in college.

What do u guys do? Stay single, get a temp g/f for college, be a playa? What do EVERY one thinks about this subject?

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PLaYa
Im single but not lonely... I like to be single because then I dont have worry about making them mad sad ect, or buying them the wrong gift or missing anything special(anniversary's) and such.
jimmyjackiechan
^^^

Lol, exactly. That's Exactly why I am not with a stressful relationship. I have mad cool female friends for now
xjjajeengx
haha... erm... just get a gurl as ur best frend? you can get hugs? _smile.gif or just hug a guyfrend? LMAO i noe we gurls usually hug each other as a greeting... _smile.gif maybe guys should do that too...? i noe some guys that do... pinch.gif haha ^^
Dr3aMeR
your lonely but don't want a girlfriend?

you can get a boyfriend i guess but thats just wrong and i don't think you should do that.

gf's don't get stressful...its more relazing i think to have someone that'll always be there for you, however you might think its stressful IF you haven't had a lot of girlfriends and don't really know what to do yet

but you have the wrong idea for not wanting a gf in college cause its hard to maintaine a relation???
HECK NO
if you don't want one its that there are so many girls to choose from...you can hook up with a different girl each day and never be with the same girl twice all 4 years... unless you go to a small college
xquizit
meet people and go on dates.
Tal_Dara
wow man i can totally relate to you. i too am also single and sassy, but i dontno if i want a G/F at the moment. i mean I would like to get one but i am broke as all hell. with college eating away at my money its hard to maintain a good balance in cash. if i were to go out with a girl she would have to liek for who i am and not for my money.

now don't get me wrong, i would still treat a girl and buy her gifts every now and then but its not like i will take you out to eat every night we see each other. its not like i wouldn't get a gift for a girl on her birthday. there are certain circmstances that i would go ahead and spend my money on that special someone. its just that i don't have a ton of money at the moment and that is the point i am trying to convey. but um yea...i do want to have someone to have and to hold. i would lvoe to have that special someone to cuddle with by the fire while watching a good movie. so yea...your not alone on this subject my friend.
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
well if you don't want a bf or gf but you like the hugging, etc.. just find a cuddle buddy :D .. no need for anything serious .. college makes it very difficult to keep a good relationship going at times, depending on circumstances, so settle for second best .. i'm not saying that it's okay to sleep around though .. that's a NO NO in my book =X
AngelicEyz00
Go party with your friends...
conster
get a gf that makes u feel comfy about the gifts/anniversaries and stuff happy.gif
jimmyjackiechan
oh my gosh. Lol

No no, I am single, and I WANT to be single. It's not like I am lonely or watever. I got friends. Man, u guys makin me sound like I live in a cell. Lol. Naw, I was just curious on what others thought about the issue~ The only thing I said up there was having a g/f was stressful for me. i didn't say I was lonely. u guys putting words in my mouth~! Lol

Oh, and about hugging guys... Umm, no....... _dry.gif
Just_Dream
lol hahas well, cuddle buddies are cool, but I never had one when I was lonely =T But then again, I'm in a relationship, so I'm not lonely anymore. I USEd to know how those peopel felt, who were lonely but didn't want a gf/bf. The thing was, when I once felt like that, I just didn't care about love anymore. I was ready to throw it all away. But then I met my bf =)

Loneliness is a scary thing for me..
CJ1
You could hug yourself for fun... Or get a girl and hug her... Even if you don't her... But yeah...
jooleeah
ahaha hug urself? noo....i really don't think that's a way to go. but just go out with some friends?
inn0centmarianne
hmm, haha well, hugs, girls like to give hugs, if u have alot of friends, then I'n sure u can get hugs from them! single is fun, but u don't need a girlfriend to be UNLONELY..
Mireh
QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Mar 24 2004, 12:48 AM)
haha... erm... just get a gurl as ur best frend? you can get hugs? _smile.gif or just hug a guyfrend? LMAO i noe we gurls usually hug each other as a greeting... _smile.gif maybe guys should do that too...? i noe some guys that do... pinch.gif haha ^^

Guys hugging each other....are...er...kinda wierd huh.gif
01-supergirl
Have a girl that's your friend and maybe its someone you know that treats you like that. Cares for you, is there when you need. Somewhat a sister but a great close friend?
dani41790
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lookitskim
QUOTE(dani41790 @ Mar 31 2004, 12:56 PM)
uhhhh

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