xj_liana_tx
Jan 24 2005, 06:29 PM
do you change the degree of attraction toward anyone when they change their appearances?
For example, my crush, he cut his hair, and i am not as attracted to him anymore.
Or, this acquaintance at school who got his hair highlighted, i find him more attractive but i don't like him because i still have the image of his old self in my brain.
(yes this topic contains extreme shallowness, but go look through all the topics in girls/boy's locker)
Do you change your degree of attraction in similar situations?
heyyfrankie
Jan 24 2005, 07:02 PM
sometimes. but if i like someone, i am usually drawn into them because of their looks but then i get to know them and figure out that looks don't matter. because we don't want to go out with someone that we think are is ugly. but after a while, you begin to like them for them, not looks.
pinayprincess
Jan 24 2005, 07:20 PM
of course...its our reaction that just makes us either hate the person, disklike them ina way, or like them...[[like if a geek turn into a hot guy..never happened]]
177emories
Jan 24 2005, 07:23 PM
depends on who and what
silver-rain
Jan 24 2005, 07:30 PM
sometimes, i guess. but yeah, it depends on who
dahding
Jan 24 2005, 07:55 PM
yeah, i guess. depends really. cause like, if its some drastic change, its a big shift in appearance in ur mind. cause appearance is usually the first thing someone remembers when they meet someone.
stephinika
Jan 24 2005, 08:05 PM
yeah it really depends...
lilJdawg
Jan 24 2005, 08:28 PM
I'm like that sometimes. it really depends who i'm with & such.
carmen77198
Jan 24 2005, 08:38 PM

i cannot say that it's never happened to me
Shattered_Hope
Jan 24 2005, 09:51 PM
sometimes...depends on the person though.
SandRAWRz
Jan 24 2005, 09:53 PM
wow..that is the longest question i have seen in CB...3 lines used
wind&fire
Jan 24 2005, 10:55 PM
yes im extremely shallow
istolearock
Jan 25 2005, 12:36 AM
i think it depends on how he changed.. was it for the better? or for the worse. and i admit, looks are important to me but not above other factors like intelligence and how much he cares about me...
blah1234567
Jan 28 2005, 07:54 PM
yeah... i change the way i like someone by their apperance with a crush...
blowpops69
Jan 29 2005, 12:31 AM
im gona go with what everyone said. depends.
MrElsewhere
Jan 29 2005, 01:31 AM
My girlfriend, of a little over 10 months, recently got her braces off(yay!). My feelings didnt reallly change either way. i still felt the same, but that's after 10 months..
misoshiru
Jan 29 2005, 10:14 AM
possibly...it hasnt happened to me yet.
laugh2much
Jan 29 2005, 10:22 AM
the two guys i really like is because of their personality, they're really not that hot but umm sometimes it depends.
Skyline Drive
Jan 29 2005, 06:16 PM
Yes, depends.
blah1234567
Jan 29 2005, 08:50 PM
it also depends coz what if they have a really nice personality...
you suck
Jan 30 2005, 06:53 PM
now that i think about it i kinda do, when a guy gets a haircut and looks better i like him more, if he looks worse then i like him less. shallow, i know.
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