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xj_liana_tx
do you change the degree of attraction toward anyone when they change their appearances?
For example, my crush, he cut his hair, and i am not as attracted to him anymore.
Or, this acquaintance at school who got his hair highlighted, i find him more attractive but i don't like him because i still have the image of his old self in my brain.
(yes this topic contains extreme shallowness, but go look through all the topics in girls/boy's locker)
Do you change your degree of attraction in similar situations?
heyyfrankie
sometimes. but if i like someone, i am usually drawn into them because of their looks but then i get to know them and figure out that looks don't matter. because we don't want to go out with someone that we think are is ugly. but after a while, you begin to like them for them, not looks. wink.gif
pinayprincess
of course...its our reaction that just makes us either hate the person, disklike them ina way, or like them...[[like if a geek turn into a hot guy..never happened]]
177emories
depends on who and what
silver-rain
sometimes, i guess. but yeah, it depends on who
dahding
yeah, i guess. depends really. cause like, if its some drastic change, its a big shift in appearance in ur mind. cause appearance is usually the first thing someone remembers when they meet someone.
stephinika
yeah it really depends... ermm.gif
lilJdawg
I'm like that sometimes. it really depends who i'm with & such.
carmen77198


i cannot say that it's never happened to me
Shattered_Hope
sometimes...depends on the person though. happy.gif
SandRAWRz
wow..that is the longest question i have seen in CB...3 lines used
wind&fire
yes im extremely shallow
istolearock
i think it depends on how he changed.. was it for the better? or for the worse. and i admit, looks are important to me but not above other factors like intelligence and how much he cares about me...
blah1234567
yeah... i change the way i like someone by their apperance with a crush...
blowpops69
im gona go with what everyone said. depends.
MrElsewhere
My girlfriend, of a little over 10 months, recently got her braces off(yay!). My feelings didnt reallly change either way. i still felt the same, but that's after 10 months..
misoshiru
possibly...it hasnt happened to me yet.
laugh2much
the two guys i really like is because of their personality, they're really not that hot but umm sometimes it depends.
Skyline Drive
Yes, depends.
blah1234567
it also depends coz what if they have a really nice personality...
you suck
now that i think about it i kinda do, when a guy gets a haircut and looks better i like him more, if he looks worse then i like him less. shallow, i know.
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