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Actorofdrama
I Secretly Have A Crush On My Best Friend...What Should I Do? I Mean We Have Known Each Other Since Like Kindergarden..... _unsure.gif throb.gif
Azarel
... tell him you're gay, that way your friendship won't be ruined.

Um, wrong forum. Moved to relationships.
Actorofdrama
IM A BOY!
mishyerr
^ nicee haha..

hmm.. i think that you should SO stay best friends. dating your best friends DESTROY the work that you two created since.. whenever you began. i mean.. dating isn't the same as being best friends. BEING BEST FRIENDS IS WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY BETTERR ;D
Azarel
.. FINE. BE THAT WAY. Tell her you're gay. stubborn.gif
mishyerr
^ lol that works outt. ;D
Actorofdrama
Oh, Thanxxxxx

That Helps.....NOT! Accept For Mishe's Adice! shifty.gif
stephinika
haha well its up to you really...you can decide to remain friends with her or take the risk of asking her out or something.
xkiller_muffiinx
well find out if she likes you first :] if not then dont say anything lols
xXirockhardXx
yeah i agree with xkiller_muffiinx you should find out if she likes you and if not dont get all sad just try to 4get about it...
to-devastate
QUOTE(stephinika @ Jan 23 2005, 3:54 PM)
haha well its up to you really...you can decide to remain friends with her or take the risk of asking her out or something.
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Agreed & well said. happy.gif
_sarcastic_
QUOTE(stephinika @ Jan 23 2005, 2:54 PM)
haha well its up to you really...you can decide to remain friends with her or take the risk of asking her out or something.
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agreed. or you can ask a friend to ask her if she'll go out with you and go from there
misoshiru
you know, there's basically only 2 things you can do. ask her out or not. as simple as that.
bad_girl
tell him/her. wait, u only have a crush. u can have crushes on gazillions of people. so um.. stay friends.

(sori.. cant tell if u're a guy or a gurl..)
miss_phenomenal_82
awh! how cute. if u like the person, go for it. hehe
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SilverPorsche05
uh.... just tell her that u like her n chances r she might like u 2 biggrin.gif
vickiwang123
Tell her...because dat's what I did before to my exbest friend aka my ex boyfriend. It's a big chance because you guyz were good friendz for allll along, so why not risk the chance and tell her, uve been waiting 4 all these years
ilauqh
u cud jus keep a crush on her until u stop and jus stay best friends how u are... or if u really like her and want to become her boyfriend u shud seriously tell her how u feel, u never know she might feel the same way but is too scared to admit it too... or she might not like that you like her and she dont like you and she'll tell you that she just wants to be friends how u are now
xj_liana_tx
see if she is interested in you, duh. does she tell you anyone she is interested in right now?
heyyfrankie
get alone with them and kiss them! ohmy.gif if they like you, they will kiss you back. but i don't know, things might get...weird! _unsure.gif
sweetdreamsx3
QUOTE(Actorofdrama @ Jan 23 2005, 2:48 PM)
IM A BOY!
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Lmao, for some reason, that shiet cracked me up. Anyway, like many others said, find out if she likes you too. :] If she does, make your move and good luck with it. If not, you'll still be friends. flowers.gif
istolearock
QUOTE(xkiller_muffiinx @ Jan 23 2005, 12:55 PM)
well find out if she likes you first :] if not then dont say anything lols
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haa haa. i agree...
dani41790
well maybe u should first find out if he likes u. if u get any signals that he likes u then u should tell him.
MeanBastard
...Tell him/her. Then pretend nothing everh appened.
espionage
And if they mention it, pretend to have a temporary ear infection?

Better stay best friends. Best friends are cooler, no offense. =D I'd hang out with my best friend than my crush anyday.
Shattered_Hope
ask her out or just move on...
blah1234567
well if he has been your best friend since kindagarden you should be able to trust him right? well tell him. the worst thing that could happen is if he says no..
ZiggY
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jan 24 2005, 6:47 AM)
you know, there's basically only 2 things you can do.  ask her out or not.  as simple as that.
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^^ thats true yo
lilJdawg
I don't think you should tell him about it. Since you have knowned him since kindergarten, it might ruin your friendship then everything will be lost.
HelloSunshine
QUOTE(mishyerr @ Jan 23 2005, 11:48 AM)
^ nicee haha..

hmm.. i think that  you should SO stay best friends. dating your best friends DESTROY the work that you two created since.. whenever you began. i mean.. dating isn't the same as being best friends. BEING BEST FRIENDS IS WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY BETTERR ;D
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heh agreed. flowers.gif good luck!
laugh2much
ask your other friends to find out if she likes you and if she does then ask her out if you break up then i guess your screwed.
chaoticchrissy
lol that was like me in liek grade 6, it runied the friendship horribly because he became to attached, and overprotective!... if you want to keep a realtionship with him eff the relationship!
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