There's this guy I like in my class, and I'm pretty sure he 'likes' me 'cause he tries to talk to me, he plays with my hair etc. -when he normally acts like he doesn't care 'bout girls-like NOTHING.

I've told a couple of people that aren't in my school about this and they told me to get a mate and...ask him who he likes and sorta do the trick- get him ask me out, but I REALLY can't do this 'cause in my school it's just...almost like a crime to tell people who you like. It spreads to the whole school in less than a day and it's just embarassing...if I do that it'll probably be dead end 'cause he'll freak out- and I don't know if I can deal with all that pressure of people teasing and shyt.

The problem though, is we're both shy...and I just hope he could...y'know ask me out or something.

Sorry ithis sounds so confusing -but I really dunno wat to do

maybe you should write him a note...or call him. this is hard, cuz i'm not shy.


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Well, yeah. Write a note. Or talk to him on AIM?
I'm shy, too. But when it comes to the guys I really REALLY like.. I flirt.. a lot. And basically he lets me bother him and draw on his stuff.

yeah, it goes around our school in less than a day too. so i never told .

hehe.. u guys have really got to get over ur shyness. maybe yeah.. get a friend to ask him who he likes. but dont tell the friend that u like him, maybe ask ur friends if any of them knows?

agreed. a note or poem would be cute stick it in his desk or locker

Is it really lame if I ask him out? I mean is there like a rule or anything that say it's embarassing for a girl to ask a guy out? *shudders*

like the above said, write him a note. no it is not lame if a girl asks a guy out, it's perfectly normal, most guys prefer taht

Thanks loads for the advice, guys. I'll try...to write him a note, buh what should I write on it? :satisfied:

agree!!!

lf your shy, just give him a call. You can make sure that no will know about it, just the two of you. l feel uneasy if my crush was near

no..girls asking guys out is NOT lame...ahhaah that's probably cuz i've asked guys out.

call him or something..aim him..theres lots of stuff you can do

i agree...well except for the shy part...

tell him...face to face..

yeah, i'm really shy too. but when i'm with a guy i like, i flirt a lot. i agree- write a note or call, or tell him on AIM.

Write to him that you like him.. so what if the other people laugh; it's not like they're brave.

shyness really sucks, like you lose great opportunies and such and yeah it seems like girls always have to make the first move nowadays. but yeah a note is cool.

Why don't you just ask him, or call him up? I hate boys that are really shy, then the girl would have to make all the moves.

Thanks for y'all replies.

It's never lame to ask someone out. It just shows supreme courage :D

I am shy too, but try to go over your shyness like have a moment that you two would just have a LOT of fun, and that is where you make your move

yeah i used to be shy, but not so much anymore. if you really like him just try to call him or talk to him or something. just go for it

I said I'd try what you guys said, hey. Thanks but I'm sorry I didn't...i'm just that pathetic you know. It's so hard 'cause after the holidays we had he seems..a little different to what he used to be. Not that I mean it in a bad way, but he seemed to act a little different around me.

Today he talked, flirted a little with me, and for the 3rd time I've known him he's told me my hair is beautiful. I mean, who the hell would say things like that to a girl? I dunno if I'm taking this personally but I just don't know if i should let go or not...

It seems like he's more in love with my hair than actually liking me myself.

well maybe he really likes u but he duznt really no what to say cuz hes getting nervous so he compliments u about ur hair ya know? :)

u!

yep i agree too

if the guy seems clueless about girls usually, then write a note or something =]

ya there's this guy i like at the school im at. i just moved down here about 3 months ago and i had a class w/ him last sem and he sat next to me. he was funny and really nice n stuff. and i think if i wasnt so shy i couldve been friends w/ him by now . but um anyways, he'll walk by in the halls and he'll glance at me usually...it's sort of wierd. but we're too shy to say hey or anything. and i dont know if hed want to be friends with me or not so im scared on what to do and that my chance is almost gone...got any ideas?

Wow thanks for all replies. =D
They were great, seriously, and now I've gotten to know this guy a lot better I think he really does like me. It's getting a step further and hopefully he'll ask me out........

awz.. dun be afraid to ask him PERSONALLY... dun ask his friends if ur really afraid its gonna spread but go ask him if u can... or else... give him lyk... HINTS haha lyk spending some hang out tym with him (with ur friends or with his) =]

ditto.

OMFG guys...he just went online (once and only time) and he asked me who I like. I told him I like him. I dunno what happened but I asked him who he likes and he said "actually nobody". I feel SO bad, sooo lame. I am dying :( And after that he said bye.

That's all I got. I think he hates me now. :(

PLEASE someone please help me =(

You guys must be in grade school still, sounds really immature but yah, I'm really really shy, and if a guy liked me I wish he'd just tlk to me, because if you talk I will answer but I won't talk to a person about senitive subjects, i'm too scared..

When it comes to these mushy stuff, I'm pathetic

Bad thing is that once a guy becomes my friend, I will never like him more than just a friend. So consquently, I always have crushes for guys I don't know. Not good either, especially from someone who's way too shy to go up to a guy and talk to him.

I swear, I'm one of the most shyest person you will ever come across. - Let's just say that once back in grade 7, people made me try to dance with this guy I liked (he knew and he liked me back. but i found out he was a player later). I wouldn't, so this big guy I knew, he dragged me across the gym. But I fell, and he still dragged me by the legs, but I still wouldn't dance. Fortunately (?), a teacher saw and told him off for pulling me.

Referring to my previous reply, that's why I try not to like guys I know already. Since whenever that happened, it never worked out. Then again, I always try to get to know them through MSN or something first. So yea. But it always ruin our friendship I seriously don't have a clue about guys.

My friends are ALWAYS coming me for advice about relationships, & usually whatever I say, it turns out for the better. But for me, I'm clueless in this area and have never been in a relationship whatsoever before