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lovescream
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this might be a little confusing.. so read closely.

I feel like I've ruined it all for my friend because she likes my ex so I tried to set them up, but I wasn't at the dance. I told my ex that my friend likes him so now he's ignoring her and I feel like I've ruined it all.

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Did that happen to you before?
Chii
i don't think that you ruined it, it's better that she knows how he feels because if she never knew she'd be chasing after something that doesn't exist...it may not seem like it but you did her a favor _smile.gif
topsyturvy
blink.gif *reads post again*

ok so basically you were supposed to get your friend with your ex but you scared the ex off instead.

well, i guess you did somehow blow it by giving the guy such sudden notice.. he might have been able to get used to the idea if you let it rest and let your friend go after him herself.

or maybe he just doesn't like her.

at least you're confessing to cb.. _smile.gif
kellyannie
yeah I think you did her a favor because if he's ignoring her that probably means he doesn't like her right? well you saved her from getting hurt in the future. you can't force someone to like someone.
miss barnes
u should have found out if he was feelin her before busting her out to him
sammehmyst
uh.. what did you say?
kyuubi319
welps, your right! you did ruin it (:
hope I made ya feel better =D
pinayprincess
pinch.gif yahh [im actually in ur ex boyfriends point of view] this kid liked me nd one of my friends tried to set me up with him, of course they told me he liked me..i was just disgusted..[i kno thats mean] but i was like why?!!? so i juz ignored him...

no one ever ignored me for liking them...the person would be cool wit me if they didnt like me bak..they juz act regualqr...
stephinika
hmm yeah that probably wasnt the best idea for you to do...its sometimes best to not try to help. _unsure.gif
to-devastate
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 21 2005, 11:06 PM)
i don't think that you ruined it, it's better that she knows how he feels because if she never knew she'd be chasing after something that doesn't exist...it may not seem like it but you did her a favor _smile.gif
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that's true. hrm. maybe you did do her a favor pinch.gif
bad_girl
u didnt ruin it. they didnt have a chance anyway if u're ex didnt like ur friend.
yukichan
QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jan 21 2005, 8:03 PM)
pinch.gif yahh [im actually in ur ex boyfriends point of view] this kid liked me nd one of my friends tried to set me up with him, of course they told me he liked me..i was just disgusted..[i kno thats mean] but i was like why?!!? so i juz ignored him...

no one ever ignored me for liking them...the person would be cool wit me if they didnt like me bak..they juz act regualqr...
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same thing happened to me...
HelloSunshine
that's horrible pinch.gif though, it's never happened to me...hope you all can work it out flowers.gif
_sarcastic_
well you kinda did ruin it, you should've just asked him how he felt about her.
lidoaznboi89
does everyone do that now, doesnt anyone go up to the person and tell them theirself, wow... look waht the world has gone too.. best of luck to your friends
sweetdreamsx3
Next time don't butt into your friends business.
xxtangoisnotfor3
whistling.gif u shouldve just let them figure it out themselves whistling.gif
RUN_away123
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Jan 21 2005, 10:03 PM)
>_<
this might be a little confusing.. so read closely.

I feel like I've ruined it all for my friend because she likes my ex so I tried to set them up, but I wasn't at the dance. I told my ex that my friend likes him so now he's ignoring her and I feel like I've ruined it all.

sad.gif
Did that happen to you before?
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yea i felt it be4....i think i did..[[mickey if ur readi this its jon so yea...]]
lilJdawg
no, you didn't ruin it. you just did you friend a favor, so now she knows that your ex' doesn't like her & she won't have to know, if he does or not.
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