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Melissa
dammit. i hate it when i like a guy, and when i can tell some other girl likes him too. she's all making eyes and body-flirting w/ him across the room and i feel like freaking slapping the sh!t out of her dammit. i'm sorry with some of the language but i'm... frustrated right now. b/c i'm noticing more and more his body language towards her and i'm not liking it. im not sure if i'm just "magnifying" it b/c i'm practically heads over heels for this guy...or if he really does like her. ughhh. i hate that feeling

dont you?

ok... its not that i'm exactly upset that she's flirting. its just that i'm getting this nagging feeling inside like i hate it so freakin much that he's open. and i want him so bad.
CEP
Awww that's so cute. That guy must be a really good person to deserve that kind of uhmmm.. thing.
Yes, I hate that feeling also. Though, guys tend to do that sort of thing less.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
xjjajeengx
hahah dass so sweeet of you to feel like that towards him. but does this guy have the same feelings toward you? because if he doesnt, you shouldnt get all mad at that gurl ( yes, i noe, its soo hard i feel hypocritical saying this) cause what if he's... *gulp* enjoying it? *gasp ohmy.gif yea... and besides, if some guy that liked you kept interferring with you flirting with guys you like, wouldnt you get extremely angry? sad.gif maybe you should just ask the guy who the f*ck he likes and make a damn decision. cause flirtin aint gunna get him NO WHERE. and if he likes you, or if that gurl just wont stop after he tells you that he doesnt like her, maybe you should b!tchslap the day lights outta her. body-flirting? blink.gif

dude... or maybe you should expose her to some guy that pretends to like her. then if she flirts with him, tell her to just like him instead, or stop being a hoe ermm.gif i ono? a suggestion i guess...
Dr3aMeR
two options


1. hurt the other girl and make it clear no girl is suppose to mess with ur guy

2. tell him already



this should even be an option if your "head over heals" (that gave me a good laugh btw)

guess this is option number 3

3. just let the other girl have him cause apparently you don;t got the balls, (and i use that term in no sexist connection but rather a methaphor or whatever that is) to work for something you want
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
well if you have strong feelings for him be brave and make a move too =] .. he might end up liking you .. unfortunately there's nothing you can do about the other girl's flirting with him .. but you can step in and see if you'll catch his attention more ;]
Just_Dream
yea, you've got to risk a lil something to get something back! Because if he doesnt' flirt with you also, then he doesn't like you. period. Then you'll know he isn't the one. Don't be so shy =P
Melissa
i know i should try flirting w/ him or whatever

but it doesn't come naturally...for me.

i'm just NOT a flirt



...hmm and its not like i really am getting mad at this girl... i guess i'm just getting insanely jealous of her. its like this thing nagging at you inside
Just_Dream
well, if you can't flirt, try to talk to him more and you know, do it the "no-scandelous" way =) That way you'll be sure to catch his heart, more than his.. um.. yea... lol
AngelicEyz00
why are you complaining, it's not like he's your bf or he belongs to you... if she's flirting, then theres no reason why you can't flirt either... If you want his attention then get it... like she's doing
ThePrincessofTKD
i say slap dat bia fer tryna take yur ground!!!

thats what i would do of course..

tell everyone what a "ho" she is..

i hate when some gurls do that!!!

it`s jus a friggin b----!!!
dani41790
yea i hate that feeling. its lyke ur competin against another person.
conster
lol i had a lot of those and i jus got over it.. cuz if u think of it in another way.. shes jus following what ur doing.. imitating you, maybe she admires u happy.gif
aud_chua
it really sucks if you have feelings for a person it isn't reciprocated..
but life is that way i guess.. there's bound to be something like that....
well, if you know that guy, try talking to him or something.. that way, you'll know if he has feelings for you, or if you're just wasting your time...
i think that's better because that way, you won't have to feel the agony of knowing that your feelings have been wasted.... (did i make sense???)
a very cynical look on things.. but still.. time is not on our side and it's better to do things quickly.
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