I just started dating a senior and i learned that he isn't a virgin... i like him, but ever since i was told this... i'm not sure anymore....

should i trust that he won't take advantage?
can he be trusted?
what do i do?

Does he respect you? If he does respect you, he'll know his limits and won't try to do anything to you. If so, he can be trusted.

Good luck!

Eh. Just tell him you don't want to go that far.
If he gets aggressive, dump his arse.

so what if he's not a virgin????
maybe he was raped?

well personally i don't think you should be dating someone if you don't trust them in the first place.

anyways, i think that if he respects you and if you let him know in the beginning that you have no intentions of ever going that far, then he won't pursue to go further. if he does, then break up with him.

just cause he had sex before doesn't mean he'll take advantage of you, not all guys are like that

Just because he's a virging shouldn't make you concerned. When he takes actions that you're not ready, well that's when you should be worried. I don't know if you're a freshman?? but remember he's probably more mature and may want to do stuff like that, so remember if you're not ready, tell him.

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abstinence is key.

thxz all... i was just alittle nervous because i had just heard this... and well he said that the girl he did it with was a friend so i was in awe... I'lll just get over the fact.. i think i can trust him enough.. he noes i'm waiting until i'm married

well, if he is pressuring you to have sex and you dont want to, then he might not be the best. but if he respects your decision on staying a virgin for now, he's probably a great guy. dont give into him if he pressures you though.

I have to agree with everyone! If he respects you and your morals he will not try to push you to do anything that you do not

well, it's not like you can trust people automatically, people need to gain your trust


i've dated a guy 5 years older than me (he was 21) he never pressured me into sex and he knew i was a virgin, make sure he understands and respects the fact that you don't believe in premarital sex, it's all good after that

lmao "arse" thats hawt...

so what if he isnt a virgin. it didnt kill anybody did it? so ya, but if your not ready tell him and if he doesnt take the time out to listen to you

exactly. if you are dating someone you should have gotten to know them long enough to know that you trust them. they should have gained your trust by the time you date them. of course it doesn't come automatically.

I don't you should be dating somebody you don't trust.

See what he does. I mean, you'd never know at start.