I need help. There was this guy, i really liked him. He liked me too. All of my and his friends thought so. He would flirt with me, treat me nicely, hold my hand...then today. He asked one of my close friends out. and it hurt. She said yes by the way. *sniffle*what should i do...?

Wow. This looks like that other post... I didnt even see that...sorry...

there's nothing much you can do about it .. i'm sorry it didn't turn out the way you wanted it to .. especially the fact that it's your close friend out .. i guess all you can do it be happy for them if she's happy with him .. and if things were meant to be maybe you guys will be together in the future .. there's plenty of fish in the sea .. feel better =]

Thanks...*sniffle*

thats messed up, i think you should ask your freind why she said yes, when you had liked the boy. Did your freind know that you had liked the boy she is with now? Because if she did, that was a sleezy move she pulled on you.

gOsh that is pretty fkk`d up ... Just go up to your friend and say, You know i liked him, why'd you say yes ?" or maybe have a talk with the guy you like .. but if all goes bad, time will heal

I think it's so stupid that guys would lead girls on, and then just ditch them for someone they know. What if he USED you to get with your friend? that's BS right there. If only they KNEW how much others truly cared about them =(

That's tru (no offence guys) but were bastards really. But in this case i would ask your friend y she said yes, cuz if she was ur friend most of them would kno to say no and have a limit cuz they kno there friend likes the same guy

Yeah...okay I'll ask her...Because normally she's not like that. Sorta what pissed me off. Another one of my friends said that guys are always like that and she gave up on them months ago. And i should too. I'm cosidering it.

hahah! yes~ i have seriously given up on em'. most guyz are ass's. *shrugz* ... but whatever~ be confident that sooner or later {hopefullie sooner ;)} a non-assical guy will come along. LOL! cheer up =] and forget about the guy. if he did that tooh yooh, then he's not worth bein with. =]

i agree...nv really been in this situation... but ask ur friend why she said yes cuz she knew u liked him ... and if it doesnt get better...there are better guys...thats all

AHCK! it makes me sad when i read stuff about how gurls get all sad after a guy leads them on and then does sh!T. i suggest that you consider him a damned bastard hoo will one day live on the streets of midnight new york while sleeping around with customers for money. maybe you should yell at him for being a stupid sh!tty guy... and while ur at it, rip all of ur frend's hair off. she needs to realize what truble she has made.

Will do...xD

He's pretty unavoidble though...we're in drama together 3 days a week 2 hours after school...eh.

just be glad that it happned now and not like a year later when y'all were really attatched..I had the same bf for 4 years and he broke up with me and still ahsnt told me why...it hurts///I know....but it is good to be around ppl who care about u in time like these

Get over it... it's not like you guys were really together... and plus, he's a guy! What do you expect?? Move on, it aint worth it...

dont be depressed...thats how girls are most vulnerable..

there are 3 ways to handle this..

1>>get yur girls to beat up dat guy and b*tch slap dat gurl
2>>ferget da guy and move on..and ferget da that so called friend of yurs.
3>>steal him back

there could be more but i personally like b*tch slappin da gurl...LOL

im jus like dat..

its okay alright?

some guys arent worth it..

and there will always be someone better..

go watch "under the tuskan sun"...itll make you feel better..

wow. thats really aweful...did ur friend know u liked him? because thats really blechy on her part if she agreed to go out with him, even tho u like him

there are more fishes in the sea

Have him killed.

omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thats so messed up...well to tell u let know... guys are somtimes stupid and they are sometimes stuP1D~ lol... as soon as u tell him "i like u"..he'll go shy...but then he will treat u nice... even tho he doesnt like u...he jus want someone to like him and care for him.... and thats wat i hate wen guys do that....lols... i said this to my friends too and they agreed... heh, so to be honest thought.... i dont think he liked u at all...he was lying cus all guys lies... they jus wana be nice...but they actin like s_h1_3t...lols... haha... cus it's true^^ well not all guys~ lols some

i dont want to be the bearer of bad news, and maybe im wrong. but this sounds to me like the "Through a Friend" method. its a very crappy method. a guy will befriend his crush's closest friend in order to be in her circle of friends. usually, after becoming real comfortable with his crush, he will ask her out, and drop her friend. - its so meeeaaan.

I agreeee!!!!

guys... they are juss majorly slow in the head to realize they could've had it great with you.

Then when you find another guy... the other guy that COULD've had you... thinks " gee why didn't i date her? "

I know most of you guys on here HAVE said that to yourself once in your lifetime.

Advice... when it's going good, don't expect it to get better with somebody new. everything takes time... so be patient.

duRRRR...

aww sry this happened. but yano what. he's gonna realize that he picked the wrong girl. dont worry you'll find someone BETTER

mayb u should tell ur fren how u feel. does ur fren even noe u lyked hym? cuz if she did then thats kinda wrong how she said yes to hym

damn. that's harsh. go for someone else... cos he doesn't deserve you :) you deserve better.

ouch. *wince* i personaly don't think there is too much to do, unfortunatly. i think your friend should have talked to you about it first and asked if it was alright with you. i mean the same thing happened to me last year (except he didn't give any hints or anything that he liked me) but she called me up and asked me if it's okay with me. i said it was, but i got really hurt, but i didn't want to stand in the way of their relationship if they really liked each other. well, good luck!