i like this guy.......my fren keeps tellin me to tell him i like him.....but i don't think i can handle him avoding me if he doesn't feel the same way.....*sniff sniff* i wish this was all easier...

i think u should find out how he feels via his friends or something....or u can just tell him straight up, but the results could b good or the results may be bad

It would be lots easier if the guy told you, instead of you telling him . . . just give him the impression you like him and see what happenz!

ur title is y is love so hard? well how do you noe you love him? i mean, if you truly love that person, you should have courage!! ask him, cmon the worst he could do is reject. i mean, ask him beofre you get too into him... that way you wont have to be heartbroken IF he says no. and if he sys yes, then YAY for you!! good luck dear!

unfortunately things like that aren't easy .. the worst that could happen is he turns you down .. but you have so much more to gain if he feels the same way .. don't be shy .. go for it =]

just tell him and see what happens the worst thing that could happen is say i dont like u back then u can move on and find a new guy. no big deal

tell him =) support u all the way

To answer your question (your title question thinger), love is hard because you fall in love. That's why it hurts... And if you give your heart to someone and they don't give it back, don't worry. There's other people who will give a piece of their heart back, you know?

i would see how he feels and den tell him how u feel

hehe thanks for all of ur guyz advice ^^ i'll try tellin him i guess...i was gonna neway....i think

i'm tired...

dont tell him!!!

jus give him da *julia roberts* smile!!!

dont like FLIRT wit him..

jus be all smiles...give yur best smile!!!

then if he smiles back...thats a very good thing!

then get someone to ask him if he likes anyone..

lol

or you can tell him if you feel comfortable..

love isnt that hard...

as long as you know how you feel and are willing to give unconditional love..its all good.

if there is doubt...theres no love..

but thats jus me..

don't feel heart broken yet... u haven't even told him yet!

for every feeling in a person, there's always a blogring to come from it :D haha sorry.. i'm in a heartbroken blogring. and yeah..i know how you feel =)

i havn't told him yet....mainly because i havn't seen him in a while cause of spring break, but that smiling thing is a good idea

a proven fact: LUV SUX

=

just go and ask him...most of the time the guy will get flattered even if he right away dosent feel that way for you it could grow on him after he knows how you feel...

(tomorrow_nvr_comes Posted on Mar 30 2004, 5:47 PM)


omg!!!how depressing!!!

that`s not really helping you know...

be positive!!!

and love does not "SUCK"

love conquers ALL!!!haha..

like i said...unconditional love...got to give!

i think u should tell hym. u neva noe cuz he mite lyke u too.

now that is interesting.. hehe

thats a nice thought

As a friend of mine said...finding love sucks but yeah ive been single like my whole life so yeah... hit me up
lol

Right serious advise time .
Go to him and say to him that you like him and ask him to go out with you. You have NO clue how great you will feel.. even if he says no. Itll take alot off your mind and if he does say no jus say, o ok... and says can we still be friendz tho? course he'll say yes so just lighten up. If you give up this chance you will regret it forever. I mean You might have avoided rejection... but what if he was gonna say yes?

I told a guy once that I liked him and he explained that he didn't feel the same way.

I got over it pretty quickly, though. I think it was becuase he didn' try to avoid me and we went on as friends.

But then there was this one time at prom where I went w/a guy that liked me and I didn't like him back. He asked if he could kiss me and I almost died! So...if you plan to let someone know...don't do it in that way because that is just humiliating.

Just tell him what you feel about him. Don't ask him out, just tell him. Write him a note. And if you both are friends he will respect you enough to just tell you nicely if he doesn't like you, and then you can both go on with living your lives.

But...what if he likes you back also? That is why you need to tell him.

Yea, it's better to find out as soon as possible. Cause if you keep liking him without knowing, then later you'll start to possibly (not for sure tho) LOVE him, and then what if he says that he doesn't like you? Then you'll end up totally heartbroken. It's better to find out as soon as possible. Just tell him straight out. If he doesn't, move on. It's not the end of the world because you don't like him enough to love him yet or anything like that...

a note is good. especially for a shy gurl like me

yea i guess i should just tell him.....i don't love him yet so yea...

p.s. u have da same name as meeeeee ( i think)

well of course is hard to go for it and tell him~~ cus u can feel like u gona be rejected or feel stupid~ cus thats wat i thot too...but u kno...hehe if ur shy or not....jus go to him~ and tell him...hehe cus thats wat i alwais do~ y keeping the secrets? hehe