someflipguy
Feb 18 2005, 01:42 PM
Its hard to say... I am having a difficult time deciding also... When its alright to do it... Ive been in love before but, love just came naturally so maybe thats what you have to do... Just wait till you feel it...
AngelicEyz00
Feb 18 2005, 01:50 PM
Hmm. Me and my ex didn't really say that til about one month, I didn't mean it til about 2 months, and I wasn't really "in love" til about 8 months.
Programmer
Feb 18 2005, 01:52 PM
meh...iunno...love is a strong word...takes time.....besides that....probabaly trust..
MusicalAngel
Feb 18 2005, 02:35 PM
Me and my boyfriend said it in a month... and we mean it from the bottom of our hearts. But we were also best friends for a year and a half before we started going out.... so maybe that's why.
x shootingstar x
Feb 18 2005, 05:06 PM
NO it's not too early if she meant it.
YES it is too early if she didnt' mean it.
i think she meant it.. how long have yall knew each other before dating? well that doesn't matter much.. maybe a lil.. but still.. she could be in love with you now.
i said it to my bf when i meant it, but it was kind of too early if you dont know about it.. but hey, i did meant it 100 percent, so afterall, it wasn't too early for me to say it.
Just_Dream
Feb 18 2005, 05:10 PM
I think it's okay... It took me about 2-3 weeks of dating my current boyfriend to realize that loved my boyfriend. Maybe it was early for me to say it, but I truly meant it. And to this day, I still mean it, with all my heart.
It's okay to say it.. as long as that person really means it.
malimars
Mar 11 2005, 11:48 PM
Everyone has there own opinion maybe she feels as if she really loves you No one knows whats going on thru her mind so its not that easy to say whether or not she really does love you ...Only u can help ur self on this one and decided if she really does or not Good luck
xx silhouetted
Mar 12 2005, 12:00 AM
i don't think early or age has anything to do with love. if your saying she/he's to young to fall in love that's bullshit. have long have you known each other? chances are if you've been friends for some time she's had feelings for you for a long time as well. you're liking of her may have just started but don't necessarily assume it's the same in her case. if you can accept it that's fine, and if you can't say it that's fine too. but if you guys have been friends for a considerably short time, too soon.
dani41790
Mar 12 2005, 04:30 AM
well it kinda depends. if you've known her for a long time then i guess 3 weeks is ok. my bf and i started saying i love you early in our relationship because we were bestfriends for a while and have grown to love eachother before we started dating. maybe similar like that happened to your gf but maybe not for you.
jordanriane
Mar 12 2005, 09:50 AM
QUOTE(RavedandConfused @ Jan 3 2005, 6:17 PM)
i'm 23. and like i said we've only been dating for about 6 weeks and 3 weeks ago she told me "i love you." When we first started dating it kinda started like "friends with benefits" to be honest. I know i like her but I haven't even committed, let alone goten to the point where i can say "i love you" to her. Those 3 words are pretty important to me and I don't just throw them around
Girls get attached to guys easier then guys.
Whatever you do, do not say I love you back. It will definitely complicant things further if you lead her on into believing you feel the same way as she does.
blowpops69
Mar 12 2005, 10:08 AM
its to early.
dont say it back unless you mean it
pinayprincess
Mar 12 2005, 11:34 AM
yes... w/ me nd my guy it took a while lyk a month or two but rite now im not sure if i love him as much as i used to
cHuNsAbAbIe012
Mar 12 2005, 01:40 PM
at least one month...three weeks...maybe not to early...but it might...it kinda depends on how the other person feels...
Dark Saga
Apr 10 2005, 05:37 PM
No.. Nothing is ever too early.. If you have feelings like that, then it's not too early.
shnuzzles
Apr 10 2005, 05:54 PM
ehh. i think its early
illuminessence
Apr 10 2005, 07:21 PM
It depends. How long have you known her and how close are you with her? Besides all that, possibly since you seem to be uncomfortable with it.
xhiddenemotion
Apr 10 2005, 07:22 PM
its never too early if you`re really feeling it.
sammi rules you
Apr 10 2005, 07:23 PM
heh my boyfriend said it last night to me. :P
doesn't matter about the time, just make sure you mean it.
mouse_3k
Apr 10 2005, 08:01 PM
I think its ok when they actually mean it. it doesnt mean like a week or somethin. maybe after a few months IF they wernt ur best friend for a while before going out I guess..
sadolakced acid
Apr 10 2005, 08:22 PM
two weeks.
and if after three weeks, you haven't said it, you're an evil person.
/ sarcasm.
BLEH. you say 'i love you ' when you love someone.
if you don't know whether or not, then don't say it.
Rachel
Apr 10 2005, 08:38 PM
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Apr 10 2005, 6:22 PM)
you say 'i love you ' when you love someone.
Exactly! There is not really a "good/right" time to say I love you. You say it when you truly mean it, now usually that means more than a week of dating
XaZnX07
Apr 10 2005, 10:25 PM
you can fall in love in any time period just depend on if it really is love
.:tony:.
LittleLulu
Apr 10 2005, 10:32 PM
i dont know..i've been with my bf..for..1 month...as of today..and we've said "i luv u" or "luv ya" or "love you lots" or "i heart you"...
but not the totaly
I LOVE YOU
like that...so its a bit different...but i actually really want to say it to him i dont know why.
i just..love him =S
cHuNsAbAbIe012
Apr 10 2005, 10:48 PM
wen u feel it u say it. there's no such thing as to early or too late. if u feel it then u can say it. i know someone who said it in less than a month too n they felt the same about each other.
bravodancer04
Apr 11 2005, 11:48 AM
I say I love you when I feel it..
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