ok so one of the girls i've been dating has told me she loves me after only 3 weeks......is this to early? what are your experiences?

Yes.

its early if you they just say it to say it but dont mean it.

i think thats kina early...but then again if she really does mean it, its the right time!

Personally, I think it's a bit early.. but I don't know.

too early i'd say. how old are you guys?

too early i'd say. how old are you guys?

eh, i guess it is a bit early, unless she really means it.

i'm 23. and like i said we've only been dating for about 6 weeks and 3 weeks ago she told me "i love you." When we first started dating it kinda started like "friends with benefits" to be honest. I know i like her but I haven't even committed, let alone goten to the point where i can say "i love you" to her. Those 3 words are pretty important to me and I don't just throw them around

it's too early... because your... 23

Umm.. Yeah. It might be. Plus you might be sending her the signs that you feel the same way, you might want to change that.

3 weeks and already saying i love you. damn thats heckkkaaa earlly. sometimes peopel just say those words, cuz they cant find another word to use. curious. what is a word for more than like but less than love. =\

by the way: she's 22 if you were wondering

i personally think it's way too soon. Then again that's just me ..

the question is.. do you think its too soon?

It might be too early, but if she really means it then don't think so

the thing is i really do think she loves me......she's amazing but like i said i haven't even decided if i want anything more than dating yet.....

the practical part of me says she rushed into saying it

but another part of me is amazed she can open up her heart to me

either way i'm a little scared and excited at the same time at the way things are going

i'd wait another month or two

Saying I love you

Is not the words I want to hear from you

It's not that I want you

Not to say, but if you only knew

How easy it would be to show me how you feel

More than words is all you have to do to make it real

Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me

Cos I'd already know

mmmmm I like that song.

- Solipsist

well...
i guess loving someone doesn't base on time...
but 3 weeks is pretty quick...
good luck.

What song is that?

anyways, like what mireh said, you should wait a couple more months
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Well.. It depends on the people.. But if she really does love you then its never too early. Though.. some people just overuse the phrase. Or think they're in love but aren't...

If you really think she loves you, then she probably does. All you have to do is decide wether or not you love her too.

yes.

agree with you. If u love her too, this is ur chance.

its called 'more than words'. nice song.

yeah it seems kinda early and with that kinda situation...but yeah i agree with you. i'd wait to say it until i really, really meant it.

Well, i don't really think that just because he is 23 is a good excuse for it to be "too early". When you are in LOVE, age really doesn't mean anything. Most likely, you love your mom right? Probly since you were born. So who's to say you can't love someone else just as quickly?

... think about it.

What does it matter? People say "I love you" all the time without meaning it.

Notice what she says and how she acts. As in, she loves you, but does her actions show her love for you?

i think partly i'm a little scared because she had broken up w/ her ex of 3 years late last summer (about 5 months ago). god, love can be confusing

within a week or two weeks of the relationship

it's not really too early if she really means it. i mean, cant u be loving someone in 3 weeks? yess, yes u can.

Like I said, if she wants to tell you that she loves you, that's great and all, but what's more important is how she shows her love. Remember the saying "you talk the talk but you can't walk the walk"?

If she says she loves you and her feelings for you are projected through her actions, then live for the moment. Why take into consideration of all the past when it can hinder your happiness with her? If you doubt her, question her, then it's going to hurt her and she'll break up with you eventually.

It also shows how insecure you are. Though it is okay to be insecure sometimes, don't let it rule your life and destroy this chance of love for you.

Only if she means it, it's not to early at all.

f**king this girl met my bf for less then a week and says she loves him! WTF? get a life. Hate it when ppl use the word LOVE freely when they don't know what it means.

i dunno .. depends i guess

Highly doubt she meant it. She barley knows you after 3 weeks.. That is way too early.

I think it's too early but if she says it & means it, then it's okay. I think you should wait 'bout another month or so.

haha everybody with their early boyfriends and girlfriends usually, say "i love you" and don't really understand the true meaning of the words. Umm. I think your friend is a little too early for saying that. True love is hard to find and it takes a long ass time to find your "soul mate" or "the one"

well it really depends. how long have you known her b4 you guys went out? and how well do you?
you see my bf; we knew each other for.. a long time. so we like said it like yeah.. :]
do YOU love her?

does she REALLY mean it? how old are you 2?

yes.

the word for that would be "lust". and yea, thats way to friggin early.

Yep that's early. I had my friend's friend come over, and in an hour he just confessed he like me. O___OT

I think if any of this relates to your situation...its never too early

i think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. she could possibly love you after only three weeks but i don't really know if she could be IN LOVE with you! i personally think it is too early.

one day is 2 early.

Asking you out and then saying I love you is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too early.

after a day or two, thats just gonna be scary for me when they say i love you already. most of the time, it's mostly not.

i guess its too early to say it before ou feel it.

after you have falen in love, why not let it out.

FREE LOVE FOR ALL!

WOOT!