well....yst my gf told me that she kinda loved her bestfrend, but she sed that wen she realized she loved him she thot about how much she loved me and how much we've gone through together. she sed she wont leave me but jus knowing she has feelings for him is yea....any opinions? =\

you should talk to her about it, maybe she just loves her bestfriend as a friend

Uh. Break up with her.
Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings.
But sorry man, looks like her hearts to someone else.

Oh, btw, it doesn't really sound like love.

then maybe she doesn't love you.
she can't hold her heart on one person, and you wouldn't want to share her.
so.. in time, break up with her if she can't sort out her feelings.

yeah i agree u should have a break with her so she knows whos she really does love.







and btw Uchiha Sasuke-kun will own Naruto's ass

ditto. go on a 'break' until she sorts her feelings out.

Break up with her.
You can't love 2 people.
Tell her she has to choose one.

if she says she loves another dude, i don't think she loves either of you. So like everyone else said, break up with her till she can sort her feelings out.

At least talk to her and see how she truly feels about the other guy in her life. Then, if she obviously loves him more, then, I'm sorry to say, but I think you should break up. There'll be other girls for you in the future.

Unless you kill yourself. Death solves almost all of life's problems.

hmm. do you really think she means it when she uses the word love. damn peopel using the word love for granted. ugh sickens me.

She can't love two people at once. Give her time to choose, and think it over yourself.

Maybe she's a flip-flopper.

yeah even IF its a best friends she shouldn't be loving the best friend AND you... and if it NOT a diff kind of love thats is very strange... she'll have to talk to the best friend less... you should be the priority...

dump her... if she felt that into ou she wouldnt have told you

I agree with that. If she's in love with you then she should be sure of those feelings. Take a break, let her figure it out.

Well I don't think you should dump her just yet, you should probably talk to her about it and see how much feelings she has for him and if it would affect anything. Maybe she just loves him as a best friend? I dont know.. my best friend is a guy and he has a girlfriend but he still tells me he loves me and I tell him i love him too as really good friends, but nothing more.

You should break up with her.
This is the start of cheating (well atleast I think.)
She loves her bestfriend too. But she has to choose. If she loves her bestfriend more, break up with her before she breaks your heart even more. Don't let her continue to confuse you. If she really loved you; she wouldnt have had these feelings for her bestfriend.

yeah.. maybe that. she doesnt seem too sure. if u ask me, she's nice enough to have told u and i think she thought about it alot before telling u. although, no offense, doesnt she seem like a bit of a player?

Yeah great idea.
Try to get the facts down before you say ne thing

I second that.... If she tells you she loves her bestfriend and you at the same time, then she doesnt love both of you. She could. But it will be hard to have both. Take some time off to figure both sides of the story and decide whats the truth.

she probably loves her best friend as a friend u shudnt mind it if u do ur jus pushing her away... n tass even worse kus she does love u

There's a thing called "space"..and I think it's time you two had a little space apart from each other till she can sort her confusion out.