she left! oh no i didnt get to say what i wanted..u guys think that u may have scared her away??

personally, I thinks a large number of guys walk out when that have a kid at such a yound age. due to the fact that they know they are not going to be able to be responsible and take care of it. Also they might be afraid and not know what to do with the rest of there life

-jus a thought
(from a guys view)

o how sad though!!

I think it's best to put the baby up for adoption cuz if you're that young, you need to focus your life on school and all that important stuff. Taking care of a baby would hinder your goals for the future since you need to spend all that time caring for the child and you don't have time for other stuff...

shouldve used condomz... ^_^

this isn't real. people, stop commenting.

For real..i think i just noticed that.

you could always give your baby up for adoption....

i don't think abortions are right, with the exception of rape. you know what you are doing so you shouldn't kill a human being just to solve your problems.

anyway, if your parents don't help out you should get child support from your ex. that's a way to go. you could get help from welfare and there are places to help young mothers or something of that sort. you should look more into it. there are definitely services like that to help you. you just need to look into it.

my friend had a baby at 16. i don't even know how you cantake a care of a baby at that age, but you have to be grown now and deal with what comes. just look into those services. there should be tons of those around.

uhh...is this real?? well anyway..i am sorry you are a "teen mother". but. yeah. if youre gonna ask for help...the best thing to do is at least read and check back up..but yeah...

this could be true and all but i wont belive it at all. i have come across people who fake to be moms especially in kiwibox so ill just ignore it and close my mouth...

i'm 15...and i don't think i'll have to worry about that till i'm twice my age! ^_^

ask parents to help, pray, and he or his family, depending on his situation, or maybe both? im pretty sure have to pay child support so press that!

woaaaahhhhh amazing i didnt know none of that

uhh..sorry, but you cant get married when you're 15.

how can your be married when your 15.....? like legally married? so bs..

i was adopted, my birth mom had me when she was 16, personally, im VERY glad she did,(give me up for adoption)you should consider open adoption, then you can see your child from time to time and watch her grow, but you wont have to give up your life to raise her/him. my birth mom went to pharmacy school and shes really smart and im proud of her. I didn't know you could get married at 15?!? But anyway, consider it. You could call places mayb like planned parenthood or sumthin? hope this helps! email me if u need to kno ne thing else its dumblonde101@hotmail.com.

im sorry for what happened :( but r you in school? if not go back, maybe find a nicer man later, ask your parents for help if you can

i was looking around the old threads in the girls locker and i found this and youre pregnant and youre asian!?! you make us look bad. you just made the girls look like sluts

im sry... idk how to help but maybe u can go to ur family for help like ur mom dad grandparents any relatives!

Dude man seriously your pissing me off. dude i dont care if this thread real or not she might be pregnant or what so ever but you dont call a girl you dont know a slut. youre making asians look bad not her a-hole.

-Phil-

eeks. bad situtation! idunno how to help. sorry!

ur in the wrong situation in the wrong time.. never do stunts like those... go listen to Dr. Laura or even better... call her. she will give u advice. stay wit ur parents (if ur not right now) n just take care of the kid... let ur maternal instinct take over.. do wats right for they kid.

well note to all the gurls that are reading.. dont have sex before Marriage. if u do... use a stupid condom dam... if ur to afraid of buying one in the stores.. then ur not ready to have sex. so yea..

how do you know it isn't true.. i have a 13 year old friend who is pregnant 8 months already, and don't even ding dong tell me it isn't true... because i went to the doctors with her alright? and if she IS lying then that's just low.. but i think she's telling the truth..

i think u should like go tell someone about it. if u hav a whole future ahead of you , you could give the child to adoption, or soemthing.
i feel sry for you..

i would say you go straight down to welfare and they could help you out.

my bf's friend is older and he just lives in his parents house and has two kids. they're planning on a third even though they can't pay for them but the government can. you should get help from the government.

i think that you chose to have unprotected sex and the results were a baby, so if your looking for sympathy im all out when your pregnant unless you were raped then i can make an exception but u made the choice, now live with it....im sure theres welfare out there like foodstamps and thrift stores in your neighbor hood anyways im sorry for being harsh but its the truth

having a child at 15 is hard, cuz if u still have skool an all, ull need someone to care for ur child. not to mention responding to their needs

first off how old were you when you got married?! if you had a kid at 15 were you only married for 9 months or something? if you want to keep your baby, i can only say get help right away- if your parents are still behind you, then get a monetarily good job and ask your parents to pay for stuff if you pay for some too...my dad's girlfriend has a a 19 year old daughter with a 2 year old daughter- shes sort of in the same situation because she had her kid when she was 16- she dropped out of high school and now lives with her mom [and pays for nothing] so just dont follow in her path..thats all i can tell you... i hope you figure something out

FiRST OFF, i`M SORRY ABOUT YOUR SiTUATiON. SECONDLY, MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET YOUR PARENT'S HELP. THEN YOU CAN FiNiSH HiGH SCHOOL, GO TO COLLEGE N AT LEAST HAVE A DEGREE.

Wow.
This is OLD.
Jeez.
Sounds fake to me..

wow. sweetie if you want to help this baby have a great life, i think you need to get off of the computer and spend time with that baby. hopefully your parents will help you with the baby and you can continue to go to school and get an education becasue in the long run that will help both you and your child. i hope everything works out for you. you'll be in my thoughts.

...you can get married at 15?

HAHAHAHA yah where is the girl now. She hasnt commented. I totally agree

That's sad. I'm hoping that at least you have the support of your family.

go to ur parents or a shelter? or get a job and support urself and kid?

why is this oOOooOLD topic back? o.O'
hmm....people please read. :-/

isnt it illegal to be married before 18 ?

good luck w/ tht-- seems kinda out there to me, but if it really happened, then ya might wanna talk to a counciller or somethin ya know?? professional help~!!!!!

how did you marry someone at the age of 15? parents signed some paper? anyway.. im sorry to hear that. i think this is the part where you seek for your mom's help. i mean, she raised you didn't she? she can help, she's been in a baby situation before. if not then ask one of your best friends if she can help for a little. go to her place and stay there until you get a job or something. i dont know. i tried my best.

..had sex.... 15.. mom.. 3 months-old daughter.. married.. divorced.. wow so much at just 15.. ask ur parents for help......

You revived this topic.... because?