there are so many people with so many faults.i just think that people come along in your life at a certain time to make living life easier, and friends come and go.there won't ever be a friend that is neither backstabbing, annoying, concieted, stupid, selfish, inconsiderate, or rude.at least one of your own friends think you're many of these faults too, and you just have to surround yourself with who you think are the most tolerable people.there isn't going to be a perfect friend, but there might be someone that fits your imperfect personality too.

At school I don't like any of my friends. I think that none of them are trust worthy so I can never say anything to them. However, I skateboard. I have made alot of close friends that way..

Ahhh my God. I only have one close friend that I like, from outside of school. Everyone at my school sucks. Everyone is either a totally sheltered fruitcake, or the exact opposite. I'm just normal. I'm pretty much the only kid here that isnt religious, and doesnt curse and drink. With only 20 kids in my grade, I'm kinda limited.

He's not even my FRIEND. He just thinks we are.

He laughs too much, and too loud everytime. Like, why can't you just chuckle? He has no concept of personal space. He analyzes me, and incorrectly too. He STARES at me when I walk past him. He keeps on saying the same lame things, as if they were even extremely funny to begin with. He's insensitive, and has no social tact and is oblivious to anything anyone tells him in accordance to his behavior or otherwise, even if they just tell him outright.

I don't hate anyone. And I'm not friends with anyone I dislike. Is that... abnormal? that I love all my friends?

I don't like my "friends". I've known some of them for over 25 years. I've recently given up full time work to do a University degree. I'm hoping it will get me a much better job in 3 years time. None of them have shown the slightest bit of interest or have wished me luck. I've always been there for my mates. Any time they've been in trouble with the law, their parents, other guys who have tried bashing their brains in, girlfriend trouble....you name it, I've offered help, assistance or just someone to get drunk with and chat to about shitty things that have happened to them, I was always there for them. Not anymore. f**k them. No calls, no nothing...I decided I wasn't going to call any of them, delete their numbers of my mobile phone, delete them from facebook, delete them from hotmail!!! I thought maybe they would phone and ask where have I been? Why have I not called? Nothing for nearly 5 months. I know we're getting older and things change, I live with my girlfriend and they've all got their own lives. But I'm always the one who does the chasing. Just as an experiment I thought..we'll see how much they care? I don't think they do and that hurts....so I don't hate them....I just think they are selfish f**kers.

Okay, throwing a surprise birthday party hardly makes up for cheating with the guy I was dating (and then trying to trick me about it), constantly trying to make herself feel better by bragging and putting me down, and all the needy drama queen attitude tantrums.

they wouldn't be my friends if i hated them in the first place. there may be certain characteristics i hate about them but without them, where would i be?

who would join me in my crazed binge drinking stages & shenanigans? laugh or cry with me. get me through rough times. share memories that'd last a lifetime.

Jesus Christ, why was this bumped?

Exactly.

No matter how much I might complain about my friends, I still love them to death.

I don't know, Nicki, but please refer to me as Steven here.

Aww, do you not want people to know your true identity? :(

me!

I have some kind of crazy-anxiety disorder of some kind. (If you dont believe me, whatever. Most people DONT.) So, when I get around people whom I would like to be friends w/ I get really nervous and avoid them. So, yes I do hate most of my "friends" cause they dont really have the same interests as me and most annoy me. I only have ONE friend who I really like. It sucks.

sigh. i wish i could just get a whole new circle of friends sometimes. like there are a few people i will definitely keep since they have been there for me forever & i love them, but overall, i need new people. i wish i knew 'trendier' people, but not the let's get drunk & high all the time & party our lives away trendy- i want the trendy in terms of fashion.

I want that feeling back that you get when your surrounded by people you KNOW, you don't just know their names. You know their moms name, pets names, deep secrets, favorite foods, birthdays. I feel like I will never know anyone like that again.

You don't get people that just tell you things about their lives. Telling you things doesn't really even count, being there to experience them. Seeing your friend through a rough time, or a great accomplishment is what builds friendships.
It also seems as though the chances to see your friends through the good and bad times that matter (like graduation, breakups, college, growing pains) are dwindling. It's like after a certain age you can't make friends like you used to anymore 'cause you won't be there for anything that matters to the person, therefore halting the growth of your friendship.

With that said, I can't stand most of the people I know. I used to feel really blessed by all the amazing friends I had, but now I see that they are exactly what everyone tried to warn me they were. I feel really naive sometimes.

I hate my bestfriend. She's annoying as f**k and I wanna bash her head in.
And she smells really bad. =/

yay found a place where (i think) my complaining would fit.

I have some friends, known em for a while now, been good friends always, but lately they are.. becoming assholes? or something.

one guy is just an obvious story (he became kinda lame, so im like, screw you! not much of a prob, but still).he always was just a guy you could rely n an such, but he once made out with one girl, turned completely (not completly, but his hair) emo, and tries to play every single female thing he runs intO (which is annoying, knowing he is kinda small, not really very attractive (and im not saying that because im jealous :P).

another guy just instally became.. idk, doesnt talk anymore (he's into this girl, i know that, and spents a time going after her (which might be a reason for less friendship.... very long story, i'll tell if people want to hear it).

overall I have flushed lately, saying in my head how bad they are as friends 'n stuff. but still they were good friends, and friendships dont break all of a sudden. still i feel like the are leaving me outa lots of stuff (mostly also cuz they do some stuff we mostly did together, now they forget me).

I hope its just the age thats im a bit paranoid, but still the feelings are horrible.
either way, this post is good for me. any reply's will definetly help me, and the post itself was kinda a good vent.

At least you guys have friends.

i bii u pal beenly..

i hate my male friends. one of them always tries to get fresh with me.

I don't hate them at all. But sometimes we get to a point where we can't stand some personalities because we've changed / are more mature. Most of my friends are in relationships, and the single ones cause problems because all they think of is going out and getting men / women. We just drift apart ... some people mature quickly than others. I don't know. That's my case.

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Yes, I hate my so called friends as well and I use the term friend loosely here. Why do I hate them? many reasons. I hate the *leader, the most, I could take him easy in a fist fight but I don’t want blood on my hands. The reason why I hate him is because his a back stabber, he talks crap to me about all my other friends, like his better than them. Like friends will die without him, he calls one of my friends a f*g because he calls him up for a get together once a week, keep in mind this very same guy he calls a f*g got him a discount on his vacation *one that his taking his girlfriend on. I’m currently a loner now because I’ve broken ties with almost all of them. And don’t talk to some because don’t want to get them involved. I hate the others in the group out of pity more than anything. I hate their weakness, even though they know his a complete dick face they stay with him because they’re afraid of being alone, that or they want to be with his girl friend. After 2 year I realized why he held onto me so tightly as a friend, he wanted to use me as a platform to get his current girlfriend, it was a *look I’m so cool I’ve got a cool kid as a friend, thing. (Complete dick head) he didn’t even pay for her formal ticket when he invited her to our formal, instead he made the rest of the group cover for her seat, *dick head. His current girlfriend seems nice but not too bright. I’ll never know what she sees in him; it would seem that it is true; love is in the eyes of the beholder

I hate the people I associated myself with. I kicked everything off with getting the three of us together in 6th grade. 7th grade comes and I get popular as shit. We're still friends. 8th grade comes I kinda swelled back down, but my sister goes all apeshit and crap so I start to become sorta depressed towards the end of the year, so everyone just kinda avoids me. 9th grade comes and my (old) best friend and I got different lunches so I'm stuck with the kinda group reject. I decided to make more friend so it's not just me and him... We meet like 6 guys who become part of our group and they're cool, I didn't mind them. Sophomore year comes and everyone but me, this kid I met in summer school and one of my middle school friends, who was kinda distant, get the same lunch. Alright. I'm stuck in here for at least a semester. Alright. We just chill and shit and everything's fine, but I'd rather be with my "friend friends". I get switched at semester, which sucked because I was starting to like them, so I run (not literally) over to them. When I get there noone even f*ckin talks to me or shit and there's all these goddamn cliques and the guy that I got stuck with last year has become a conceited ass f*ck, who condescends to me, 'cause he gets better grades in class, 'cause he sick cheats off of every f*cker in the class. I f*ckin started the whole goddamn thing, I helped them when they were going through crap and then they all just decide to leave me the f*ck alone. God, I hate them.

It sucks, 'cause I started talking to new kids that I "sorta kinda" knew and they went out of their f*ckin ways to make fun of us. So they stopped hanging out with me...

They weren't friends, 'cause friends 'll back you up and help you out and you like you're friends... I guess, it's my fault 'cause started it...

Sorry for the bump.

I hate my friends. Thus, I have no friends. & I'm happy.

My one best friend just recently had a kid (at age 18) with her unbearable boyfriend/weekday baby daddy. And I say weekday because she actually lets this bastard off the hook every weekend to not call her or check up on his son for an entire weekend and he has also never actually spent the night or babysat with his own son. oh and yes he has a daughter he gave up to foster care just barely a YEAR before this bundle of joy came along.

Needless to say shes in love and feels its forever, yet he still has yet to get a job, her mother has to drive him to his little video game design school, and she keeps hinting towards marriage and he keeps pushing back further and further from her yet shes too dumb to notice this.

I hate her so much at this point because she will only crawl back to me and my other best friend only to bitch about this idiot manchild (hes 25) or look for a babysitter so that her and her precious hubby to be can be together alone, shes also not willing to hang out with us unless her man is present with her to cuddle and make her feel i guess have a purpose?!? idk.

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^ Kind of reminds of a problem one of my friends is having with her younger sister. Her sister is 19 and getting married to man who constantly cheats on her. She will call up my friend (her sister) and complain about everything he does and how he treats her. He will go weeks before he says her and she makes excuses for him and actually believes that he's being faithful to her during his absences. I'm not really surprised, based on her past, because she had a son when she was 16 and gave him up for adoption and claims that now she's ready to start a family. Sorry, but, 19 and marrying and a guy who cheats on you does not seem like you're ready to have a family.

So i deleted her off facebook and myspace and also blocked her phone number after getting fed up with her flippy floppy bubble head bullshit.

she promised me and my male best friend we would be her sons godparents for the last 2 years but as of 2 days ago decided to go with her lovely baby daddy/boyfriend/daytime father's crackhead sister and her boyfriend who is currently in jail and actually went as far as not inviting any of her close friends to the baptism and it seems only his family and friends are going to be there.

so me and my group of friends just decided to kick her ass to the curb at this point.

I am 31 year old guy writing this message aimed at my boring, using, deceitful, "friends." To give you a little background information the friends in reference are a group of 5 or 6 guys I have been friends with since high school. We where the kind of friends who went on holidays together, went to concerts together, and went out on friday and saturday night together. For the past few years they have neglected to ask me along to night outs, concerts, etc. I have been guilty of not facing up to the truth until recently and have made an effort to start socialising with other people. Instead of phoning or texting my old mates to see if they had any plans for the weekend etc, I am now making an effort to go out with new people and have a proper laugh instead of being ignored, lied to, sneared at when Im in their company, listening to them indulge themselves in their boring pretentious conversations. being ignored by them when Im in their company, the list goes on....
Ok, you must be thinking "what took you so long to catch yourself on you bloody doormat." Well, I know and I cant quite believe it and I am ashamed. But I have started to change this and this feels like a very cathartic thing to do so please let me indulge myself.Just before I begin my rant I would just like to add their has been a sudden interest in me from my old friends, it seems the less I have been trying to socialise with them the more they want to invite me along to for a night out or a drink at their house. The thing is I just want to ignore them now, I feel as if they are pestering me and are nothing but an irritation,I cant stand them now. So I just want to get it off my chest.
I feel this is a good point to start my rant in proper. WARNING! THE LANGUAGE I AM ABOUT TO USE IS ABSOLUTLEY FOUL.

Here goes - f*ck OFF!I f*ckIN HATE YOU c**ts!I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU FANNIES. I HATE YOU LOT AND YOUR f*ckING CHARMLESS AS f*ck BINTS YOU CALL GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES OR WHATEVER. I HATE YOU c**ts AND YOUR SHITTY LITTLE MIDDLECLASS WANNA BE LIVES, WITH YOUR TWEE AS f*ck "LETS ACT SOPHISTICATED AND MIDDLE CLASS DINNER PARTIES" THAT YOU PURPOSEFULLY EXCLUDE ME FROM AND THEN INVITE ME ALONG TO ONE OF YOUR WEDDINGS LIKE YOUR THROWING A DOG A f*ckING BONE. I HATE YOU AND YOUR SHITEY BORING AND PREDICTABLE AS f*ck US SKY 1 SERIES THAT YOU WATCH AND THEN MAKE UNFUNNY AS f*ck REFERENCES TO. YOU ARE JUST FANNIES AND I DONT WANT TO WAISTE MY TIME AND MONEY ON YOU.
f*ck YOU! f*ck YOU ALL!

wow oddly enough I am going through the same thing right now.

I am 31 year old guy writing this message aimed at my boring, using, deceitful, "friends." To give you a little background information the friends in reference are a group of 5 or 6 guys I have been friends with since high school. We where the kind of friends who went on holidays together, went to concerts together, and went out on friday and saturday night together. For the past few years they have neglected to ask me along to night outs, concerts, etc. I have been guilty of not facing up to the truth until recently and have made an effort to start socialising with other people. Instead of phoning or texting my old mates to see if they had any plans for the weekend etc, I am now making an effort to go out with new people and have a proper laugh instead of being ignored, lied to, sneared at when Im in their company, listening to them indulge themselves in their boring pretentious conversations. being ignored by them when Im in their company, the list goes on....
Ok, you must be thinking "what took you so long to catch yourself on you bloody doormat." Well, I know and I cant quite believe it and I am ashamed. But I have started to change this and this feels like a very cathartic thing to do so please let me indulge myself.Just before I begin my rant I would just like to add their has been a sudden interest in me from my old friends, it seems the less I have been trying to socialise with them the more they want to invite me along to for a night out or a drink at their house. The thing is I just want to ignore them now, I feel as if they are pestering me and are nothing but an irritation,I cant stand them now. So I just want to get it off my chest.
I feel this is a good point to start my rant in proper. WARNING! THE LANGUAGE I AM ABOUT TO USE IS ABSOLUTLEY FOUL.

Here goes - f*ck OFF!I f*ckIN HATE YOU c**ts!I DONT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU FANNIES. I HATE YOU LOT AND YOUR f*ckING CHARMLESS AS f*ck BINTS YOU CALL GIRLFRIENDS OR WIVES OR WHATEVER. I HATE YOU c**ts AND YOUR SHITTY LITTLE MIDDLECLASS WANNA BE LIVES, WITH YOUR TWEE AS f*ck "LETS ACT SOPHISTICATED AND MIDDLE CLASS DINNER PARTIES" THAT YOU PURPOSEFULLY EXCLUDE ME FROM AND THEN INVITE ME ALONG TO ONE OF YOUR WEDDINGS LIKE YOUR THROWING A DOG A f*ckING BONE. I HATE YOU AND YOUR SHITEY BORING AND PREDICTABLE AS f*ck US SKY 1 SERIES THAT YOU WATCH AND THEN MAKE UNFUNNY AS f*ck REFERENCES TO. YOU ARE JUST FANNIES AND I DONT WANT TO WAISTE MY TIME AND MONEY ON YOU.
f*ck YOU! f*ck YOU ALL!

Ok. You're clearly mad.

Ok. You're clearly mad.

and your point is?

You are clearly scordid.

You are wrong. fix your attitude. Your focusing your life on the wrong things. I hope you find what you really need in life.

scordid ? you have lost me with one.

your mother obviously wasnt enough of a harridan. Shame.

The only thing I can say is cut off your connections with them and move on, if you are not doing that already. Good luck man, thanks for replying.


Yep, but I feel this was a good thing.

I hate most of my friends.. they f*ckin piss me off. I would do away with them but then I would be lonely. I have major problems with hypocritical people and my "best friend" is a major hypocrite. I wont be mean and tell her to her face because I know that not everyone is perfect, but it just f*ckin tears me up inside.

I hate humans in general. Love yourself every night man.

Can't you like associate with other ppl?
If you cut them off you shouldn't be lonely. Find some other ppl.
out of all the ppl in the world, u just can't limit urself to
a select few...

That's easier said than done...

Merged with "i hate my friends: a testimonial thread."

i hate how one of my best friends just gets so pissed or shes been getting pissed off at me lately because she feels as if shes doing the planning for a lot of things and etc and i usually say no...WHY? because im dead flat broke, being laid off isnt fun and i just barely started my new job..and she knows this but she f*cking doesnt it get it stimes! its not that im doing it on purpose...its either you want to pay for me or i cant go. its just pissed me off to the pt to where she needs to put herself into my shoes..im not made outta gold.

my friends didn't want to spend $500 to have someone make their reception invites, so they asked me. they didn't tell me that it would have cost them that much until i was done making them. i did it to be nice, but now i feel used. asses

I wouldn't say i hate my friends, but i do strongly dislike some
of the things they do when it comes to me. They both help and hurt.

Quote: "easier said then done" Yeah, i was kind of thinking that
when i was replying to you, but if you want to you can find
new people. It'll take time, but it'll happen. Some indiviuals
who run over you or just act like idiots are not good for you.
cut them loose. {in my opinion}

The thing is that most people meet all of their friends in high school and then meet people through them and so on. I don't have any friends from high school. When you have no or few friends it is very hard to meet new friends.

this^ its crazy... i was thinking about my situation when i typed in "creatblog", and then i see this topic lol.


ill probably go more in depth later but if there is a few words to describe our relationship they would be...."competitive"..."superiority complex"...."false endeerment"....and "using" (of me specifically) im more aware of these things going on with my friends then they are so i try to make SURE i don't fall into it myself. but im literally at the point where i feel the need to distance myself...seriously. matter of fact i know i have to.

You put that in a more succinct and eloquent way than I ever could and it sums up exactly the way I feel. Thanks