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xj_liana_tx
i hope there isn't a topic like this already, but ok, if you're rejected by a person you like, how would you react? What would you say to him/her afterwards??

I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool." and try to keep it cool and be friends with him.
inthemudhole
I'd try to hold back tears.. yeup, I would.

I'd just be like, "Ohhh... well, okay. See you later....cry.gif"

That's basically how I'd act. >< That would, er, really suck.. that's probably why I never ask guys out, eh?
xj_liana_tx
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 24 2004, 2:38 PM)
That's basically how I'd act. >< That would, er, really suck.. that's probably why I never ask guys out, eh?[/font]

same here, i'd probably die
_sarcastic_
i would probably pretend to act but is really disappointed on the inside.
probably just stay friends with him. i think that's how i would act. well you wouldn't really know how it feels or how you would act unless youve been rejected before
jennyjenny
Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later.
And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. "
LiLaZnGirL122
aww i would b like well its okai i under stand u dont like me that way but i hope this doesnt change anythiogn and den walk away ... cry.gif
Saeglopur
Drink chocolate shake. It's yummy...!
aznplayaz
just poo and relax your self
simplyannoy
sry but u got to learn to move on~ >< even if it's painful... but soon there will be someone else better?
Skyline Drive
I think I would say:

Sucks for you because I just won the lottery and now I'm a millionaire, suckkka.

heh.. I really don't know. Probably with a simple I understand.. hope we can still chill as friends

happy.gif
kyootevi3tguh
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 24 2004, 7:50 PM)
Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later.
And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. "

hahaha i agree =]
The 1 and only JJ
i don't know how it feels to be rejected by some one. im really telling the truth. i've never been turned down in all my years.


but i would just say "yeah thats aight. i guess ill later or some thing?" and then walk away crying and running. biggrin.gif j/k
azn hunni xox
Mmm, I'd probably be ex[ecting it anyways, and be like "Oh... 'kay, well... nevermind this... just forget that it happened... and yeahh... hope we can still be friends?" Lol, well I've never asked anyone out or anything... so I dunno really.
ANG33ZY
I would just move on.
Shattered_Hope
I guess I would move on??
swe3ttemptasian
lol..that happened to me..for the first time.. a few weeks ago.. I guess I j/ can't take a no..lol.. But yeah.. it later got to me that he really didn't like me, b/c he would always flirt..mess around w/ me..fool around w/ me...etc.. I guess I j/ fell for that.. or his hair.. happy.gif but yeah.. be friends w/ him.. like what you said
lovescream
I'd be sad. But I wouldnt show it in front of him.

btw.. I'd never ask a guy out, the guys ask me out >_< but my crush NEVER asks somebody out unless he seriously likes her. =\ so i have no chance biggrin.gif
*ilalaloveyou<3*
ide be like." I was kidding u knoe...like i'de ever ask you out...!".....jm...ide move on...
i don't even guys out...WHY AM I ANSWERING THIS?!
mishyerr
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Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later.
And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. "



true that hon. add in a few cry.gif
wind&fire
kick him in the balls
bad_girl
if he's a guy at school, i'd skip it. suicide? die of embarassment?? oui.
misoka
I'd deal with it.


Either that or become depressed. Depends. mellow.gif
ichiban
I would say: Mm..Okay.
I couldnt think of anythin else to say .. yeah.
xj_liana_tx
a lot of you probably misunderstood, what i meant was that how would you react RIGHT AFTER the rejection, like right after the "no", this is not my personal experience since i can never get myself to ask a guy out, i am just setting up this scenario so i can be prepared for the rejection if i do ask some guys out.
MrElsewhere
well for me, being a guy, i would be like 'oh..ok..i understand..see ya later' try to keep cool and all. but if i really really really liked this girl and thought she felt the same i'd be really hurt inside.
tooeffingcrazy
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I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool." and try to keep it cool and be friends with him.

That is what i would do. I wouldn't cry though.
theycallmepond
just do ur best 2 b friends 4 then, n mayb u'll get back 2getha
lilJdawg
Keep your cool & say, ohhh, well .. i'll talk to you later.
HIMsHeartagram
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 24 2004, 2:03 PM)
i hope there isn't a topic like this already, but ok, if you're rejected by a person you like, how would you react?  What would you say to him/her afterwards??

I would've probably just went "ok, well that's cool."  and try to keep it cool and be friends with him.
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Yeah i keep my cool, but im too sensitive, so i end crying in front of him or sob throughout the day, then after i did that, i sliced myself, and told myself that im ugly.
Justingamemaster
...I would...break her legs or something.

nah i would probably...be like..."w-t-f? but i thought you liked me..."

then i would say bye, and avoid them for the rest of my life.

but like this other girl i just met rejected me i later found out she really did like me but she was "waiting" for someone else to like her. So i kinda don't like her anymore.
lulu424
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ComradeRed
Bury them.
sweetlyz
i guess it depends on how much i liked the person or HOW i was rejected. If i liked them a lot, yeh i`d be really disappointed but i know i`d just try to suck it up and get passed it. If i was rejected in an insulted way i would be PiSSED and hurt
HelloSunshine
hmmm..I'd probablly be all"Oh..that's fine..I understand" act like I didn't care [: hmm...yes..but if it was an insult..I'd tell him off laugh.gif
xx angelbabu xx
i'd just be like.. ok.. fine... and move on with my life..
christiee_nax
well ive never been rejected (happy.gif) but if that happened, it really all depends on howmuch i like that person.
sheepy
i'll be hhurt but i won't show it nd just moveee on cept i might just avoid them too ><
bright eyes
I'm too afraid of rejection.

I'm so afraid that my fear has held me back from ever liking anyone.

Yeah, I'm pathetic.
mouse_3k
I say "oh ok, thats cool"

then walk away and stay in the bathroom till i think the humilation is over
Claudia
i wouldn't give up that easily, i'd keep going at it until he says "f**k off! i've had enough.. i told you already! I DON'T WANT YOU!" then i'll go plunge into the nestea waters and make myself feel better.
177emories
i would never ask a guy out... if i like dhim, i get hom to like me so that he would ask me out and IF i like him and he liked me... why would i have to ask him out? and if he's not aksing me out then he probably doesn't wnat to be a relationship or is not ready... hwy push it.
lilgoldfish64
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 24 2004, 7:50 PM)
Go home, bitch to friends, get over it a month later.
And then in a couple of weeks, you'll be saying " Omg, why the hell did I even like him/her in the first place?! Ew. "
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haha...me too....
blah1234567
i would probally say: oh okay...thats okay with me
KELLYYY
I would do that same thing too.
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