What can I do to impress a skater/goth/punk boy that I have liked for a long time..? Any tips?
~Melanie

umm well, you can't really make him like you.....maybe ask him if he'll teach you how to skate? that way you could get to know each other, and get closer...but if you already know how, impress him with your skills!

-- i love skater boys -- <3 lol..sorry..just had to get that out.

what do u mean "how do u impress skater boys"? if ur saying that, then u must be a prep or something...

idk just be urself?

well, talk to him more. u can ask him to teach u how to skate and all, but don't all of a sudden turn goth/punk cause then u might look like a poser to him.

learn how to skate

^^ I was going to say that.

omgosh?? I j/ went through that..lol.. but I found a better guy than him.. but yeah.. j/ .. try to learn to skate.. w/ him.. etc.. etc.. you know flirt and act like you don't know how to skate, maybe he'll show ya.. and if you do.. impress him w/ what you know =)

If your a prep or somting then just get to know him better Goth and Punk is a hard thing to master and you will look like a total poser if you go off of sterotypes. Just ease into him say hi once in a wile then talk to him a little more eventually you will get to know him better and you will feel comfertable around him.

give him head, he's hardxcore like that,

haha...you can do that too...LOL...

you can do a shove-it to boneless.......if he didn't knoe how teach him...if he knoes how tell him to teach you...it worked for me...

DAMN THEY"RE HOT!!!!....well the ones that live aound here....which is probably the whole neighborhood...ok sorry off topic.....

so yeah to what the other girls suggest you to do...and give him head...jk

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You shouldn't be out to IMPRESS the guy that you like.
You should be out to get to know the guy that you like.
Don't be something that you're not.
Really. Don't.

u dnt wanna change urself to make him like u... u hav to get him to like u the way u are...

anyways, its cool if u wear skate brand clothes... independent/element sells girls clothing too... and same taste in music is always good

but really... just stay the way you are. if he doesnt like you the way you are... he's not meant for u

Don't change yourself to make him like you. For all you know maybe he already does like you and he hasn't told you. You could always learn about some of interests and talk to him about them so that way he knows you are interested ;]

Hope that makes sense.

Be real.

Thanks you guys I am going to try these. Keep them coming!!

learn how to skate and wear clothes from hot topic, act like you dont care about the government lol..this should work.

dont impress...express

You shouldn't try and impress a guy, or change yourself for him. So you're a 'prep' and he's a 'skater' opposites attract. If you two are into each other, it's cause you like each other how you are.

eeh, I learned to skate to impress the guy that I like, however, if you're aything like me, you'll be nursing bruises for a while. But, I do recommend learning how to skate, plus, it's christmas break, so if you live nearby, you could ask him to hang out/teach you how to skate. Also, try doing stuff you both like together...

And you don't have to be a prep to not know how to impress a skater/punk/goth. You could jut be new to this. Like Me!

dont change yourself just for him. thats just wrong.

get to know each other. just talk to him. if he likes you, then yay. if not, then owell. life goes on

Do NOT ask to "see" his skateboard.
Do NOT ask to ride his skateboard.
Do NOT ask to him to teach you how to skate.

stop with the labels already people!!

well, you can't really make him like you. just talk to him, get to know him, tell your feelings to him so that maybe his feelings would change towards you. just be yourself.

if you have to act like something you're not, or try to impress more than you need to, then he's not worth it.

It helps to be yourself...he's just like any other guy...

Except that he skates.

umm.. that's a bit of a mix. most of my friends are skaters so i might be able to help u with that. omg *drools* punks are hott =]. how about skateboarding in front of him?? or better yet.. if u want him to notice u then tell him u cant skateboard. if it were one of my "guy" friends.. they would come and "teach" u how.

dont make it happen. wait for it to happen. like try to expect the worst..thats what i do but yeah what are you then, prep?

if youre seriously desperate, learn to skateboard. it'll turn him on im sure.

Yeah don't.


Also if he's interested in you then you guys would've most likely been dating by now. Just be yourself and never change who you are especially for a guy.


NOTE: If a guy is interested in you, he will go out of his way to impress you. If he's not then he really won't "care" about you. You cannot make anyone love you if they're not interested. You guys can be friends but that's probably it.

my friend who is a girl is a punk/skater person. I think first off...you actually have to have the same interests as him...cuz it would REALLy suck if u didn't. But yeah, learn how to skate a bit. and ask him if he would teach you a little bit of his moves. And if he agrees...maybe start getting to talk to him and know him better and then make ask him out?

yaah that's what i think if you do you'd be a poser... just get to know him and be yourself you don't have to be like him to impress him.

don't try to impress. He'll know your trying, which will turn him off to you. Talk to him! Be yourself, guys like that. If he's not interested, MAKE him interested. Find commonality and work off that...I promise it works

be cool, carefree and at the same time sweet and attractive

be yourself. and try talking to him.

If he doesn't like you for who you really are, then it's his loss. You shouldn't waste your time on him.

But you should go extreme. Wear weird clothes and crap, like....grab his attention. ^^ That's what I do. But then again, that's just me.

Well, here's a tip.....

I have this friend, and her name is Tiffany. Well she's liked me forever, and I've never liked her back, and I never will. But suddenly she starting buying all these volcom clothes, and her away messages say, "Skating, I'll be back later." And trust me, she can't even stand up on a board. So that's a major turn off, being a poser.

I have a girlfriend anyways, but that's just a tip.

just be yourself.

i say forget the skaters, go for the hot azn boiz yummy..

BUT, if you really want this skater kid..umm..u can try to skate urself and then ask if u two can go skating together?

go up to him, be like i like you a lot. i like you like i like lamps. dont ask me what that means, but i like you a lot. now show me how to ride these wheels, and maybe i'll show you some tricks of my own.

you can leave the lamp part out. my opinion is that it would be an icebreaker.

omg. DON"T try to impress that boy! lol i was in the same situation before. I like this aggressive skater once , so i learned all the skate terms and tricks and stuff...and i got into skating...and watched it on tv n' all..lol and he asked me what skates i had n all and i was like, "uh, solomons" and he was like yah so let's go to the skatepark. haha BIG mistake. def did not impress him. So just be yourself girl!!!!!

THANKS YOU GUYS YOU ARE ALL SO AWESOME! I LOVE YOU ALL!!!! BUT JUST SO YOU KNOW I HAVE KNOWN HIM SINCE PRESCHOOL AND BEEN HIS BEST FRIEND SINCE PRESCHOOL AND KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM.. WHAT SHOULD I DO now..???

omg, i had the same problem a few months ago. whatever u do.. dont try to skate.. yeah that dosnt work... ummm lets see.. basicly just be urself.. oh sh** i hate when people say that.. i didnt just say that.. ok.. just flirt with him and try to show him that ur intrested. that might work. hope that helps you out
<3 *marla*

If you've really known each other for w logn time liek that and you two are ebst friends, it would be much be better if you just casually bring up the subject of liking you or not. It's much easier than asking him if he could teach you to skate. That'll make you sound desperate.

if you have to impress him, he wont like you. i think that when you try to impress guys, they figure it out and think you are desperate.

just be yourself damnit.

^^yep, talk to him, leanr how to skate??

learn to skate like a pro.

Be yourself... -_- that's all there is to it, when it comes to love! No need to be what you are not!

DO NOT LEARN HOW TO SKATE!!

I have a ton of guyfriends and they say that any girl that tries to impress them by skating pissess them off. They say just be yourself... And that's true.

i'm sorry about this but by saying that is so stereotypical... some people don't like being 'labeled.'


if he doesn't like the way you are now...

go on!

shouldn't change[entirely or extremely] just for the one guy that you like.