HaN4RaNg
Dec 24 2004, 08:38 AM
we must all admit, we get jealous.
i absolutely HATE feeling jealous and im so freakin good at it!!! it makes me react in a certain way that i end up regretting. but i cant get rid of it. i dont know how to. all i can do is avoid it by avoiding the person/situation which doesnt really do anything.
so when ur jealous of ppl, how do u normally react? do u get silent? get b1chy? how do u make the feeling go away?
Nicolatofu
Dec 24 2004, 08:47 AM
i can get jealous easy too. i usually try to ignore it, but it's hard. I haven't really found a way to deal with it, i just kinda get over it, i guess. or do something that takes your mind away?
instantmusic
Dec 24 2004, 09:02 AM
i get silent. and then later i jokenly tell her that im supe jealous. hopefully, she'll get it.
if someone keeps making you jealous over and over again, that person really isnt worth it, if they dont realize that who they speak to and how they speak to them hurts you.
DaTru KataLYST
Dec 24 2004, 12:38 PM
i get very quiet and isolated from the other people. =/
[edit] i do believe its my unconscious mechanism to get more attention from ppl that will feel guilty for me. but. mehh.
runforfun529
Dec 24 2004, 12:45 PM
When I get jealous I just get silent and bitchy at the same time. I don't say anything bitchy but I sure do think it
inthemudhole
Dec 24 2004, 12:47 PM
Yeah, I get quiet.. maybe a bit bitchy. It depends on the situation, though. I then just kind of don't talk to anyone else.
MrElsewhere
Dec 24 2004, 01:03 PM
Workout. A good workout usually gets out stress and everything. So go out there..and SWEAT. x]
xj_liana_tx
Dec 24 2004, 01:21 PM
i get jealouse really easy, and i get silent on the outside and bitchy on the inside
misoka
Dec 24 2004, 01:31 PM
I don't get jealous until a guy comes into the picture. I guess I somewhat follow my aries nature.
Usually I get silent and end up brewing these feelings deep inside until one day I just explode. ehhhhhhhhhhhhhh that's probably one my biggest flaws.
basick
Dec 24 2004, 02:00 PM
QUOTE(Jay-Z @ Heart of the City, The Blueprint 2.0)
Guys shouldn't be jealous that's a female trait
I'm rarely jealous.
sammi rules you
Dec 24 2004, 02:03 PM
i get jealous really easily.
i deal with it different ways, depending on the person.
iheartsimba
Dec 24 2004, 02:41 PM
yah it happens, but i just ignore t and move on
stephinika
Dec 24 2004, 03:19 PM
i do every once in awhile, but i just ignore it and get over it.
Shattered_Hope
Dec 24 2004, 05:02 PM
Just think about the things that you are thankful for and just take deep silent breaths and just walk away. It should disappear.
HaN4RaNg
Dec 24 2004, 05:46 PM
the thing that bothers me the most is that its not him doing it intentionally, but thats just the way he is. hes a flirt. while hes sweet talking them, i feel like ripping their heads off. this is how he is and its just my way of responding that creates a gap between our friendship. i told him to leave me alone for a bit for me to figure myself out [see, this would all b so much easier if i could understand my feelings for him].
if i could only understand where this jealousy is coming from
angel-roh
Dec 24 2004, 05:49 PM
Well I get jealous very easily.... I only get jealous if someone has sooo much pretty fashion clothes, for instance---the Korean/Japanese singer, BoA. Also if my crush likes this girl, I get jealous of her. I won't get bitchy or anything, but I would just keep it to myself and just ignore it. I don't go up to her and say stuff like "You stealin' my crush?" lol... I just leave it alone.
ANG33ZY
Dec 24 2004, 06:56 PM
I get silent . Then let it all out later..
saruhroo
Dec 24 2004, 07:06 PM
QUOTE(anqie @ Dec 24 2004, 6:56 PM)
I get silent . Then let it all out later..
yeah me too. and i get jealous real easy too..
krisssssy13
Dec 24 2004, 07:26 PM
i used to get jealous a lot and all that good stuff but i got better at it all you really have to do is confront the problem or sitch head on and tell yourself that you need to figure it out. the moment you get jealous think to yourself why am i getting jealous, whats my motive, how can i solve it. and never try to get back at the person. it only leads to more jealousy hope that works for you! buh byeeeeeeeee <3 krissy
iheartjohn
Dec 24 2004, 07:33 PM
I get all silent, I'll cross my arms and pay real close attention to the person who is making me jealous.
jennyjenny
Dec 24 2004, 08:17 PM
Ugh.
I've been jealous numerous of times.
That's partly.. actually, mainly, the reason why I lost all my good friends.
Cause I got jealous.
And then got mad.
And well, you know the rest.
But I don't know what to do anymore when I'm jealous..
I can't stop my rage, but I'm not gonna sit and watch.
But a lot of people don't admit that they're jealous, though. I know I don't.
1--GIRL
Dec 24 2004, 08:33 PM
I get all silent and bitchy and yeh
Counting
Dec 24 2004, 11:28 PM
Punch something. Something close.
sweetxsimplicity
Dec 25 2004, 12:15 AM
I haven't got jealous in a long time.
I don't really *deal* with it in any particular way, I just...deal with it. xD
xsweetxcandyx
Dec 25 2004, 01:02 AM
first i get pisted and bitchy.. than get over it.. but i would still get a little bitterness
lilaznpeter
Dec 25 2004, 02:03 AM
I get bitchy, and i start yelling. then i try to do it. but then again, i keep bitching until the next day
aznhunnie6o1
Dec 25 2004, 06:05 AM
QUOTE
the thing that bothers me the most is that its not him doing it intentionally, but thats just the way he is. hes a flirt. while hes sweet talking them, i feel like ripping their heads off. this is how he is and its just my way of responding that creates a gap between our friendship. i told him to leave me alone for a bit for me to figure myself out [see, this would all b so much easier if i could understand my feelings for him].
I know how you feel!!! I have that same problem now but I know I like him. It makes me get all b!tchy and stuff so I tend to isolate myself from people till I get noticed by him. [attention whore is me!

] Or I bring up that problem with the guy.
Looow
Dec 25 2004, 06:23 AM
i get silent. keep it in..or i try to.
jr0h
Dec 25 2004, 08:23 AM
i get jealous but not mean evil cruel bitch jealous. i'd just be happy for whoever im jealous of and always look on the bright side. you have something that they dont have too that theyre probably jealous of.
Ataryu
Dec 25 2004, 11:37 AM
I don't get jealous to easily, as long as she comes back to me then im usually al right. But if it gets to far I stick my foot in and take my baby some where secret and show her she doesn't have to go anywhere else to get what she wants. I'd give her the world if she asked for it.
That is if I had a baby. But I find highschool relationships quite pointless and stupid, they always end with a lot of drama. If I found the right chick though, I'd treat her like a queen. For now I'll stick to takin my pick on the weekends and havin my fun.
Gypsy Eyes
Dec 25 2004, 12:06 PM
I get jealous really easily. Most with my ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend. I get pissy and b*tchy.
loveylovely
Dec 25 2004, 12:14 PM
I can get jealous really easy.. only around guys mostly. I love all my friends so I would never be jealous of them. (:
I just stay quiet.. and i get real mean-looking faces..
HaN4RaNg
Dec 25 2004, 10:20 PM
QUOTE(Ataryu @ Dec 25 2004, 11:37 AM)
I don't get jealous to easily, as long as she comes back to me then im usually al right. But if it gets to far I stick my foot in and take my baby some where secret and show her she doesn't have to go anywhere else to get what she wants. I'd give her the world if she asked for it.
That is if I had a baby. But I find highschool relationships quite pointless and stupid, they always end with a lot of drama. If I found the right chick though, I'd treat her like a queen. For now I'll stick to takin my pick on the weekends and havin my fun.
i wonder.. are most guys like that with their girls? if i decided to get with this dude, would he do the same for me?
i've decided that i have nothing to b jealous about. i only feel a bit awkward [tell me i spelled that wrong] seeing him flirt with other girls because im so used to getting all the attention from him [aznhunnie6o1 and i are attention whores

]. i realize that he does to me , what i do to him. its not right for me to baby about all this.
thank u all for helping me on this. happy holidays and merry christmas!!!!!!! <333
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