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iloveyourname
I think that same sex marriages should be allowed.. or what ever, Civil Unions.. Whatever their called.. I do because i think everyone should get the same benefits and things as 'normal' couples. wink.gif Make Sense?
*ilalaloveyou<3*
i don't.....don't ask for my reasons...ok?


peace out

~
the one who doesn't like same sex marriages
miss barnes
there are plenty of topics on this, dear.

i'm against it...but if you do it, then i'm not going to all hate you & discriminate because of your homosexuality
Shattered_Hope
I don't exactly support it...screw it..I Just Don't. I feel that marriages should be sacred...but if there's gonna be like a homosexual marriage..I'm not gonna discriminate against it..people..everyone has a right to love who they want to love..no one has a right to stop them.
_sarcastic_
i don't exactly support it, but i'm not against it. if ppl want to do it so be it, it's their choice their life
sevenup007
It's not that i'm against gays or homosexuals or whatever, but the concept of being married is being bound into a "Holy Matrimony". Seeing as tho homosexuality is scriptured as a sin, it seems wrong to help someone do it. If it were up to me, i'd have a diff. type of marriage, if it gathered as much media attention as it has. If it's love two people are looking for, or already have, they don't need a bunch of papers and documents to support them.
Anyway, i'm not against it, but I don't support it, and if I had to choose sides, it'd be a no...
Not a gay-basher!
Just_Dream
... I don't know. I'm sort of iffy about the issue. I don't know enough about politics and the world to judge whether it should be legalized or not. But I think it's somewhat unfair for a ban to be put on homosexual marriages.
bad_girl
personally, i think it's kinda sick. but it's their lives and they can do whatever they want with it. so leave them be. sometimes, i dont think they chose to be homosexual. just leave them alone, we're not the ones who should be telling them what they should be doing with their lives.
ghjgfkgfk
QUOTE(*ilalaloveyou<3* @ Dec 21 2004, 10:26 PM)
i don't.....don't ask for my reasons...ok?

i'm asking.
jnukes
i think it should be legal. that's like making OPINIONS illegal. why don't people just let people do what they want to do?!
sunissed14127
i think its fine. they are human just like us, and they should have the right to be married and have the same freedom as other people. and yes, there have been a million topics on this.
runforfun529
I really don't have an opinion, let them do what they want. I'm in between choice 1 and choice 2, I'm not all for it like some people are, but I don't think people should be against it.

Wow I just confused myself
ArtificialBlonde
i'm against it..now don't go all crazy on me about it..i'm not against gays or lesbians..i just don't support the marriage factor and such..
audory
i'm not against it and i don't support it. it's none of my business if people want to get married. people should be able to do what they want, and not have the government to deal with.
tooeffingcrazy
There is nothing wrong with gay marriage. You can love whomever you want to love, just don't prowl into other people's buisness. If you don't, than you won't know if they are married or whatever. wink.gif
i ami_am
i dont see why not, its not their fault the like a certain sex, their born like that(i think)

and yes i am straight

-ryAn
xj_liana_tx
i support it, people should have their rights.
puppygeek
meh, i dont see what the point of same sex marriages are, but i support those who do get same sex marriages
EXPLO5ION
I dont see anything wrong with same sex marriages. Everyone has a right to live a normal and happy life, even if it means that you are attracted to the same gender. People are born gay/lesbian, so they dont have a choice if they are gay/les.
mishyerr

Though I am Christian, I believe that there should be same sex marriages. We are put in this world to make our own decisions. We are to live for what is the ascendancy that we believe in. May it be our culture, religion, government, etc. I thought that personal beliefs were to have no effect on the way this country is to be ruled, but apparently not. Though I understand that it might be 'wrong' for a woman to love a woman, a man a man... I think that if they really believe that they can love each other, they can. Love is not defined as a man and a woman, it is defined as something deeper within the heart.. and all humans, whether man to man or man to woman, have hearts that are capable of loving.

I rest my case.
iloveyourname
Well.. I dont only mean it as marriages.. I mean unions. It's the same thing. Some people said 'NO' because MARRIAGE is between man and woman. Then unions.. can be between anyone. But, in the way I think about it, I dont think you choose who you love. You just do..

AND- Did ya know your soul mate is really the same sex as you? ^-^ biggrin.gif
heyyfrankie
i think it should. marriage is about love, not about gender or sexuality.
Skyline Drive
Nope. I'm alright with gay relationships but marriage is a whole other level. Marriage is meant for a man and women.

I don't know. It iffy.
KissMe2408
No, never. Imagine if they adopted a kid or somethan, and the kid had to grow up in that kinda family. geez, talking about screwin up a kids life
Xprezsion
I think Same sex marriage should be legal, because homosexuals are people too, why can't they have marriage benefits. If one of them were to go to the hospital and was dying, if they are not married they wouldnt be able to get the same benefits as a married couple. They should get the same rights.
DoOdOox3
i support it...
get real... who r u to stop the love btw 2 people??
regardless if they r homo or hetero OR f**kIN ALIENS....

everyone can have their own opinions, that's right. but put a law to ban it??? wow... retards.

-btty.
ShadowPixie
I'm all for it. I think it's great, personally. Also, it's ethical. If this was truely a country of EQUAL RIGHTS then same sex marriges would be allowed, no question. BEcuase everyone has the right to Marry. Plus, I believe that its all about love, which no one (straight or gay) seems to marry for anymore. sad.gif
iloveyourname
my dad said that those of us who said yes, are thinking only in the moment, only the present. But what about the future he wonders. If It's legalized he thinks that it will show our country as weak.. and it'd be like Africa or something.. It still believe yes.. But he put up a hell of a good arguement,
x____duckii
I don't exactly support gay marriage or am not exactly against it. I mean, people don't choose to be homosexual. If they did, then wouldn't we be able to choose who we liked or not? So I don't really think it's fair to have gay marriage banned, especially to those who are gay.
dani41790
i find it wrong but i think they should do whatever they want. i dont really care
nockey
mm i dont support it or nor im not against it neither..i think its pretty harsh people dont like it i mean..comon they just normal peoples who go for the same sex i dont really care..i like support it more now haha..no1 can stop tru love yah no what i mean..mm just let them be biggrin.gif
shattered_glass
I don't support the marriage of the same sex. I just don't. I have nothing against homosexual people. But, I feel that marriage should be between a man and a woman. That's just my thoughts on it. Don't kill me.
LeSLiE
I think that it should be allowed.. I mean, it's their lives, they should be able to do wtf they want.
rAnd0m_strang3r
alrite. lets see. i'm completely for it. how will two people getting married affect you? seriously?!? think about it. they're in love, they should be able to be married. don't give me all this crap about marriage being only between a man and a woman, who defined that? someone who made it up while writing it. in greece most people were homosexual because guys felt that women were inferior and therefore preferred to sleep with other men. it's all about the society you're in. there is nothing wrong with homosexuality and people who are against it piss me off because they're so ignorant. it's an opinion. that's all.

..that might have been kind of mean but i've been having a crap ass day..^

that being said, i still stand by my beliefs.
cmgchica717
I have nothing against it at all. If you are in love, and you just happen to be in love with someone of the same sex than so be it. I will not look down upon you or judge you in any way. My best friend is a lesbian and I support her 100% she is so happy. this is the happiest I have yet to see her. There is nothing wrong with it at all. There should not be a law in place stating who you can and can not marry. If you are happy thats all that matters
inquisitive_
I support it and I think it's unfair that gay marriages are not legal. It shouldn't matter wether you're gay or not. If you're in love with someone of your same gender, it shouldn't change things. Everyone should have the same rights.
imm
Marriage is sacred. So, I don't think the government should just cut in like that, killing a homosexual couple's bond, just because they don't like people who are different. Grr...EQUAL RIGHTS YES!
punkymoke
i say nay. marraige was defined (in the beginning of America, which i love) as the union between a male and a female. therefore, it's really not possible. . they can say it's marraige. . but it's not. i, personally, think that people have a choice to either be homosexual or not. 'i'm born w/it'. . crap. you are born with a desire to rebel. you are born w/a desire to quench your thirstings. but you are not born w/homosexual tendancies. although there are the rare cases in which there are chemical imbalances and they are born w/half-and-half (genitalia wise), nobody's really born w/those 'urges.' i think that having same sex marraige legalized is just another way for the human race to rebel against the government. . like rosie o'donnel. she said that the only reason she was getting married was to show bush off. . is it right, no. is it how this world is, yes. i think that homosexuality is not right, and that marraige should remain a sacred thing. and i mean. . if marraige can be redefined. . whose to say that you can't go marry your dog. . or your orange in the fridge?

ps. you asked for my oppinion. . so don't yell at me for it.
KRicoBoriqua
I think they should be able to get married...no one should have the right to tell them not to, not even the government..if u dont like it then dont get married to someone of ur same sex but that shouldnt stop someone else.
177emories
i don't care but i notice that its most males that get the same sex marriage thing... and theres more women then men on this planet!!~ grrr
sammehmyst
I'm for it. Unlike most of you.
These are normal people.
Give them a chance to love too, you asses.
The person that you love right now, think about what it would be like if 2 genders were not allowed to get married.

How would you feel now, huh? You would love this person. And you're not allowed to.
sammehmyst
QUOTE(iloveyourname @ Dec 25 2004, 2:59 PM)
my dad said that those of us who said yes, are thinking only in the moment, only the present. But what about the future he wonders. If It's legalized he thinks that it will show our country as weak.. and it'd be like Africa or something.. It still believe yes.. But he put up a hell of a good arguement,
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well screw your dad then. who cares what others think? i certainly dont.
yukichan
i think same sex marriages should be allowed b/c its what the 2 ppl feel like..isnt america supposed to be free and ppl be allowed to do stuff as long as we arent breaking a law or hurting other ppl?i mean like if they homosexual is telling u to marry him then it matters but, if u arent a homosexual it doesnt really affect u..
sammi rules you
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Dec 23 2004, 6:15 PM)
No, never. Imagine if they adopted a kid or somethan, and the kid had to grow up in that kinda family. geez, talking about screwin up a kids life
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how does that screw up the kids life? it makes them less ignorant. stubborn.gif

i fully and completely support gay marraiges.
royalfreshness
I used to be for it but now i think that it shouldn't be legalized.

But also, this means all this is involving religion with government. marraige is a holy matromony between a man and a woman. so whatever, it shouldn't be up to the government to decided whether any marraiges should or should not take place.
blah1234567
yes, but it would be VERY GROSS!!
mouse_3k
I think it would be great. I have one gay friend and he is really caring and stuff. I wish the best for gays, even if it means marriage. I mean i dont get why people are so mean about it but i mean its the people getting married that matters, not what the other people think. Its their lives, they can do whatever they want.
you suck
its in the 14th amendment, equal protection clause. if they ban gay marriage and only allow *CERTAIN* ppl to marry, then thats not really equal, now is it?

and ppl r against it primarily cuz of religion, but religion SHOULD NOT HAVE ANY FACTOR IN THE GOVERNMENT. NOT EVEYONE IS RELIGIOUS, WHY SHOULD OUR LIVES BE AFFECTED BY SOMETHING WE DO NOT BELIEVE IN?????
alienchik
i think they should be allowed. Its two people no matter what. The only difference is that thier bodies have the same parts. I think we should let people marry who they want to marry
stephinika
i personally see nothing wrong with it. just let them get married.
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