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bad_girl
like when u get asked out.. and totally do not like the guy. how can u let him down easy? just wondering..
Euphoria Rose
You can say "You're a nice guy. But I don't like you. Sorry. I know there is someone out there for you, but it isn't me."

Or you can say "You're joking, right? Haha! That's funny."

Or you can also say "Ummmmm...NO! EW!!"

Or you can also say "Sorry, but I'm not interested in dating right now."
sweetdreamsx3
Or you can say "I really like this other guy, but I'll love to be friends."
o0h*s0o//d0rKaBlE
"Awww, that's soo sweet, but see I consider you as a close friend and nothing more"

I don't know
pympgangsta4real
personnally i cant say ur words but i can tell u what not to say
these are famous women lines that kill men
1 Dont say can we still be friends
2 Dont say its not u its me
3 Dont send ur friend to do it 4 u
4 Dont act as if he/she joking
5 Dont run away
6 Give a straight answer and dont wait a long time
ya well thats all i can think of right now but those are donts on the subject
Good Luck biggrin.gif tongue.gif
bad_girl
how about saying "i'll sleep on it" and never reply? lol.
laur3nw
^^ That sounds so mean. Haha. Don't say that. =P
LiLaZnGirL122
jus break up wit him b like umm thinks arnt working out and ur not my type sry.. i hope we stay frds tho
Just_Dream
"Let's just be friends..."

"I'm not interested in a relationship right now"

"My parents won't let me date."
-for this line, if you've dated someone before, then say "My parents won't let me date anymore."

"I'm interested in someone else right now... sorry."

"You're a sweet guy/girl, but I just don't have any feelings for you. I'm really sorry. You deserve a girl/guy who will make you happy and will like you back." And give him/her a sweet smile happy.gif
miss barnes
i have this problem...but the boy just wont give up...and to make it worse me homegirl keeps messing w/ his head & telling him to keep asking until he wears me down and all this...he asked me to the crystal ball...its in FEBUARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Shattered_Hope
say that you're sry adn you're already interested in someone else..and then tell him what a nice guy he is...
jennyjenny
If you say that you don't want a boyfriend at the moment,
and he catches you with another guy the next day,
you're officially screwed.

So just say you're not interested.

Or say what you say when you're refusing drugs wink.gif
mouse_3k
QUOTE
like when u get asked out.. and totally do not like the guy. how can u let him down easy? just wondering..


i would either tell him this

"I think of u like a brother..sorry"
"im not really looking"
"I like you and all but not like tht"

yah..
KRicoBoriqua
Just tell the truth becuz alot of times even though u may feel a lil bad its better than if u use the whole "my parents wont let me" or "im not interested in a bf right now"....u might find someone else u really like and go out with and they will realize it was just a line u were giving them.
toodlepops.
iono..i think its sorta spontaneous.
ANG33ZY
I'd just tell the truth.
blah1234567
tell the truth eventhough it will hurt the guys feelings..alot. i did that once and it sucked mad.gif
stephinika
yeah just tell them you don't feel the same way but nicely.
christiee_nax
no easy way to reject a guy
audory
"We have too good of a friendship to lose to a relationship."
lilJdawg
just tell him that he's a nice guy but you just want to be friends.
jambaJUICE
lol, i always think of ways to let a guy down easy.. but when it came down to it, a few times.

i always just ended up laughing and saying No.

o.o
Kathleen
"GROSS! As if I would ever go out with you. FREAKING IDIOT!" <- That's letting him down pretty easily. Oh, and afterwards, throwing a pie in his face is nice.
bad_girl
QUOTE
"GROSS! As if I would ever go out with you. FREAKING IDIOT!" <- That's letting him down pretty easily. Oh, and afterwards, throwing a pie in his face is nice.


hahaa.. ok.
DittotoAnne18
Just be like..
"Your cool, but im not right for you"
Thats what i said when my guy friend asked me out, an we are still really good friends.
mirage
tell him that you are sorry and hope we could still be friends?
rOckThISshYt
If I were you, I'd tell them that you like them, but not in that way and they're really sweet for asking and you're really greatful, but you wouldn't feel comfortable as their girlfriend.
dfly112
juss b nice bout it... it horrible if ure crz honest wit the kid... hes got feelins afta all rite?
kyuubi319
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Dec 21 2004, 12:52 AM)
Or you can say "I really like this other guy, but I'll love to be friends."
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Well, that did NOT work for me. I did that to this one guy who asked me out.. He didn't talk to me for like, a month.
lilphoenix
QUOTE(Euphoria Rose @ Dec 20 2004, 11:50 PM)
Or you can also say "Sorry, but I'm not interested in dating right now."
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I used that one.

Just be completely honest about it. Don't lie, just hurts more.
topsyturvy
QUOTE(lilphoenix @ Mar 1 2005, 9:03 AM)
Just be completely honest about it. Don't lie, just hurts more.
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Actually, at first they won't realize you're lying.. but when you're busted, prepare to wear a gas mask for the rest of your life. ermm.gif
EmmalieV
I told this 8th grader today " get over me i dont like you " hehe but hey he was trying to kiss me X_X
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