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lilJdawg
my friend told me that he had feelings for me & that i feel the same way. after he said, i have feelings for you, i said yeah, i have feelings for you too. my other friend was talking to him saying ohh, you two should go out & stuff. & my friend that likes me said "it depends on her ". what does it mean depends on her?
aznxdreamer
like like like...dont use too many likes its confusing. wacko.gif
HelloSunshine
he means it depends if you want to do that...he just wants to make sure you feel comfortable [=
lilJdawg
ohh. but how do i tell him that i want to go out with him? but not ask him out myself.
x____duckii
^^ Ask a friend to ask him out for you =]
kaka1204
it means that he wants to go out with you but he wants to know if you want to go out or not, and will go out if you wanna blink.gif
Tung
i dont see whats so scary about asking him out . just do it. if he both of you feels the same way, it shouldn't feel awakward.
pympgangsta4real
Just bring it up in conversation. If you don't want the social stigma of asking a guy out (and I know it happens), just bring it up, yet make it obvious that you want him, without just saying it flat out. I know I hate when a girl expects me to read the signs, because I'm not the best at it, but I try, and I still don't get it half the time hah hah, but honestly, I think guys appreciate straightforward girls.
MrElsewhere
say something to this effect

you "So when are you gonna get a girlfriend?"

him, something like "i dunno.."

you "well i have my eye on somebody special, he looks a lot like you"

him 'oh really.."

blah blah. try to give easy hints. wait a few days for him to work up the courage. wait no longer than a week. after that, just be straight forward, because he is not good at reading signs.
sheddingtears
he probably does like you. just tell your friend SURE.
lilxroxy
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Dec 14 2004, 9:59 PM)
ohh. but how do i tell him that i want to go out with him? but not ask him out myself.

jst say "sure"
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