Okay-I have a crush on one of my guy friends. But he made this joke once about having a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he was just kidding. How do I find out if he has a girlfriend without seeming jealous or anything? Or should I leave it alone.

Helpy

Just ask, "Seriously, or are you kidding? What's her name?" in a curious tone. *Shrugs* I mean, just by asking that, you're not jealous.

well if you ARE friends, then it's okay to ask him.

I know-I make a big deal outta these things ya know.

Yeah. Like Kathleen said, just keep a curious tone, and just simply......ask.
If he says yes, don't get all disappointed-looking, then he might figure it out that you like him.. and if he says no, don't get all grinny, just say "Ohh, okay. Thanks for clearing that up."

[shrug]

you can ask your friend to ask him.

well, just like what Despise and Kathleen said [= just don't act like you like him!! haha and of, course, like LEDO_DORKETTE said,you can ALWAYS ask a friend to ask him