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krazie_fuzzybuddy
Blahh me and this guy are like yeah... but is it really ok to date him? He's 2 years older than me but like yeah.. sad.gif
Dark Saga
Age is nothing but a number..

And my girlfriend is 2 years older than me.. =)
Tung
numbers dont sAy anything
kaka1204
y should you care about his age?......jsut as long as your not older than him...( my thinking is that gurls should never be dating younger boys)<--my opinion
ya..shoudn't care for age...u still love him..i think... whistling.gif
kaka1204
just go out wib him
pympgangsta4real
YES!!! It is! I was in love with someone two years older than me for a year... then things really went bad I guess you can say... but honestly it was my best relationship so far. *sigh* If only it worked out... cry.gif
Azarel
Age is nothing but a number, and love knows no bounds.

Of course it's alright to date someone two years older than you.
inthemudhole
Two years is nothing....
Well.... how old are you..? Just wondering.
teeners4
i think it's okay. 2 years isn't much.

even if the girl is older, but i think it is wierd when the girl is 12 and shes dating a 10 year old boy. or when she's 14 and dating a 12 year old boy.i think 15 and 13 is okay
ArtificialBlonde
okay 2 years isnt a lot..im 15 and my bf is 17..it doesnt really make a difference..it shouldnt matter to you
pympgangsta4real
Hah hah, my girlfriend was 17 and I was (and still am) 15 as well lol.
lhuvhurts
age means nuthing.. _smile.gif
ShadowPixie
Go for it, 2 years is hardly anytime at all. happy.gif
teeners4
QUOTE(aRtIfIcIaLbLoNdE @ Dec 12 2004, 12:56 AM)
okay 2 years isnt a lot..im 15 and my bf is 17..it doesnt really make a difference..it shouldnt matter to you

you dont look 15 ohmy.gif
The 1 and only JJ
yeah it's perfectly fine. i've dated people 2 years older then me.
jr0h
of course its ok? at least hes not in his 50's?
_sarcastic_
age doesn't matter, its fine.
sammi rules you
heh..heh..heh..
if it isn't i'm in a lot of trouble.. ermm.gif
pympgangsta4real
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Dec 12 2004, 1:51 AM)
you dont look 15 ohmy.gif

I think she looks 15, and I see 15 year olds day in day out lol.
ArtificialBlonde
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Dec 12 2004, 1:51 AM)
you dont look 15 ohmy.gif

ha ha..yah im 15 ill be 16 in april..thats a little while away..lol
Just_Dream
Age shouldn't matter... But if you're like 16 and he's 18, u might want to be careful. IDK.

My friend is dating a guy who is 19 right now... She's only 16. So I mean, I think it's okay. It just really depends. If two people really care for one another enough, then nothing should get in the way. But if he was maybe 10 years older, and you're still a minor, then maybe you should wait until you're older...
tyedyefroggy
Just like everyone has been saying, age does not matter, if you both like each other then go for it! xD
xj_liana_tx
like everyone said...
just be aware, i mean what if he turns out to be a very evil persona and... abuse u.
ComradeRed
Follow the 15% rule.

If you are 13 1/3 years old, then 2 years should be fine.
to-devastate
Age is just a number.
It doesn't matter. Just only if your love for eachother is real. =]
sunissed14127
i think its fine. i would date a guy that was 2 years older than me.
MusicalAngel
Two is a good number... i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. biggrin.gif You'll be fine. happy.gif
miss barnes
it just depends on the two ages.
MrElsewhere
I'm guessing your in like high school or middle school? It's fine. My gf has dated this guy that's two year's older than her. She was in 7th grade and he was a freshman, i believe. My dad is 10 years older than my mom. So it's nothing.
domsweetie
It's perfectly alright :) ^ they're right. Age is just a number.
dreamerOi
go for it. i actually like them older. plus its just a number.
nockey
yea..im dating some1 3 years older than me... happy.gif so i guess its ok..just not tooo old like about 6 or 7 years older.... huh.gif
XPLICITxDORK
age is just a stupid number,if u really love eachother go for it. biggrin.gif
Kathleen
NO! IT'S CERTAINLY NOT OKAY! Sheesh. Your boyfriend must be a pedophile. Damn you all to hell! Of course it's okay. Who's to say it isn't? mellow.gif I'd be afraid if he has a gray beard or bald spot. Those are usually things you look for. thumbsup.gif
ComradeRed
I have a bald spot...

Geez you make me feel old kathleen.
silver-rain
yeah its ok age is just a number, i'm dating someone thats older than me too.
audory
two years isn't that much. go for it, but be cautious.
khawaja
age is nothing but a number
lyin_in_wait
yea just be careful cuz once he turns 18 ( unless he already is, and considering that your younger) and you guys get "closer" it can be considered rape and yea so just be careful but for the most part age aint nuthin but a number....unless its more that like 5 then thats bound to raise some eyebrows....
alone in the world
i went out with a guy 4 years older than me (im thirteen, hes 17) but i dumped him .. thats kinda embarassing just think, he got dumped by a thirteen yr old. it kinda disgusted me cos he was rushing & after 2 days he said "i love you" .. how cliche. eh well i moved on whistling.gif rolleyes.gif
my world
definetly.. it is totally fine.. people are willing to go out with people like double their age. this guy was 21 and i was 12.. he wanted to go out with me.. but i said no because what if he wanted to have sex.. im only 12.. thats not right.. so its definetly fine.. go for it!
mouse_3k
pssh I like a guy thats 4 yrs older then me >_< real bad...dont think imma actually go out w/ him cause of that but I guess 2 yrs is acceptable...depends cause its like ur 14 and ur goin out with a 20 (6 yrs difference) but when its like 27 goin out with a 33, it dont sound that bad compared to 14-20 but I guess 2 yr difference aint tht bad..
misoshiru
age is just a number...unless he was like 20 years older than you
dani41790
um yea. two years aint a big difference
rockmyx
its not bad to date a guy 2 yrs. older than you. it will only be bad if his old enough to be your father.
blah1234567
its fine if you ask me happy.gif
xxslithr0atxx
omgosh YESSSSSSSSS duuuude ashton kutcher & demi moore are together. she's freaking like twice his freaking age!!! pinch.gif buttt anyways, a 2 years age difference is nothing. If it's more, than you have to think about it.. like if he has a different view on relationships than you.. ya know?
bad_girl
numbers dont mean anything. OMG WHY ARE THERE SO MANY TOPICS ON THIS?
blah1234567
yea...just dont make sure they take advantage of you
cutandbleeding4you
date who you wanna date
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