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lovescream
Uh.. yeah.. I felt bored so I felt like posting this.

My best advice, and I think, the best advice is to not go out with someone you don't really know.

First I read a book about this girl, wanting to go out with this oh-so popular, handsome jock, and when the chance finally came, she got raped.

Second of all, you may think someone is cute, hotttttt, sexyyyy, whatever you people call those guys these days, but their personality may be... bad.
A girl has a boyfriend... she met the boyfriend at school. It was puppy love.. young puppy love. The girl had a crush.. thought he was her world. She thought that if she was married to this man, her life was absolute complete.

WRONG!
It turns out the guy likes her back so they go out.
and all of a sudden this guy is annoying. He's stalking her, trying to impress her in the wrong ways, trying to be like her. annoying. he may be cute, but he's not who he may be.
Or she. rolleyes.gif

And my last story is that I know this really cute guy in my class and he dates a girl like every school year. He never asks them out, the girls asks him out.
He always says yes, and I can tell he gets annoyed by the girlfriend. He's my male friend, so. . .
but anyhoo... my friend asked him out and they never spent any time with eachother.
Unpredictable.
He may be cute but he's not boyfriend material.
or girlfriend.. in a guy's case. rolleyes.gif

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-->Concluding sentence<--
Dont date someone you don't fully know. _smile.gif

^ that was extremely random.
some mod or whatever can close it or whatever if it's not allowed.
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//Edit: I also posted this in hopes of getting it pinned.
*Crosses fingers*
pympgangsta4real
Hah hah, propz to you on this. Cheers! I agree wholeheartedly. Love at first sight is usually just a stirring in pants to us guys hah hah hah, at least that's the nicest way to put it. Get to know someone first. It's like picking a car... you don't usually just buy one without test driving it. Be a friend with a person, get to know them, then ask them out or what not. It makes sense. Hah hah, again, good job.
ShadowPixie
AMEN! Just goes to show that looks arent the most important thing in the world. Howver, it's sad becuase so many people still dont care how much someone's personality sucks, as long as thier still good looking. sad.gif really makes me sad. But at least I know I'm not alone. happy.gif
KELLYYY
Wow. Just wow. <3

Some girls at my school just dig for hot boys. They dont care whether or not the guys have a bad personality. blink.gif
krnxswat
Thank you Cpt. Obvious!
_sarcastic_
what you said is true, most ppl just go for the looks, not really caring about the personality, which is pretty wrong.
177emories
well thats why theres trail and erroe if you don' give the relationship a try you would have never known...
Chii
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 10 2005, 6:53 PM)
what you said is true, most ppl just go for the looks, not really caring about the personality, which is pretty wrong.
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i don't think it's true, i have never seen any of those cases, people will care in the long run if their significant other is a real b*tch or a pain in the ass, no one will want to deal with that

first story
that was a book...those things rarely happen and if it does, he would get a reputation for doing that

second story
so what if he tries too hard? he can't show that he really loves her?

third story
he'll learn someday, it gets boring when you have a relationship just to have it and it's all fake...since he's your friend shouldn't you have tried to fix his habits for your fellow females?

concluding sentence
i don't think so...you should take a chance, if people do listen to this what are they going to do? date their friends and ruin the friendship when they break up? huh.gif half (or more) of the fun of starting a relationship is getting to know the other person, what fun is it if you know everything about him, what's there to talk about? how are you going to stay up for hours on the phone comparing stupid stories with your boy/girlfriend?
lilJdawg
Yeah, what you wrote up there is so true. Thanks for posting it up.
bad_girl
dating someone u fully know would be fkin boring, wouldnt it??
burnoveride
wow thats so true, ok i'm to go get a lie detector test done on my g/f. or is that to much to soon ? lol
xTINAA
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 10 2005, 4:48 PM)
Thank you Cpt. Obvious!
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haha yes i was thinking the same thing...
mouse_3k
lol thts like saying Dont Do Drugs. We all know tht buddy but thx for the extra info!
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