i have this new girl. she thinks am a virgin or at least she expects me to be. she doesnt know what happen in my last relationship in which i lost my virginity. should i lie or what?. i mean i know i wanna be honest but i dont want her to feel weird. she is a virgin.

you should lie. how will she know? it's not like you two will end up married

well you could lie, but the thing that usually causes a failed relationship is lying to each other. it won't make her feel weird, i guess she'll just have to accept the fact that your not, (if you tell her that is).

Just tell the truth.
I mean, what if she finds out?

just tell her if she brings it up.

Tell the truth. If she can't expect you to be honest with her, whether she knows the lie or not, then I honestly don't think that you deserve her. Just tell it how it is. Hah I remember being able to tell my girl everything, even when she pissed me off because of something we'd tell each other straight up and fix it. Don' try to beat around the bush, you just end up screwin' yourself.

didn't you post this before?
Or is it just me?
anywa..
dont lie.
a relationship lies within the truth and whatever is there.

I don't understand why you subject yourself to people who judge you for such trivial reasons. If she hates you for not being a virgin, then frankly, she's not worth having for a friend anyway.

Cheers! Good point man, propz on that.

being a virgin or not does not make you who you are, so its not that bad if ur not a virgin. She mite feel hessitant to do things with u because it may seem sex and shit mite not be as signifant/meaningful for you, but it really depends if she knows who u really are. You cant have a relationship based on lies, just tell her,it wont hurt.

don't lie to her, just tell her the truth... if she finds out later she'll probably be hella pissed

don't lie.
it's bad for you.

to lie or not to lie.... u shouldn't lie to her wat if she finds out that would be really realy bad..... >_< lieing in a realtionship is bad.... if u say it upfront she'll think ur werid but if she asks u u should tell her. well hope thiz helpz....

It wouldn't be smart to lie, especially if you really do like this girl.. I mean, why lie in the first place? She can't help what you did before her. =\

Absolutely Not. A relationship built on lies is DOOMED to collapse. Tell the truth, and go from there.