Me and my girlfriend had an unprotected sex the other day, then the next day, we did it again. At this moment, she's either pregnant or not and we're really worried. That was the first time we did it by the way. So what's the chance of her being pregnant, and also the chance while ovulation is taking place?(she said she might be)
Assuming she is pregnant, what do we do?
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well first of all the chance of her being pregnant is pretty high, considering the fact that you guys had unprotected sex why did you anyways.
ok fine, assuming she's pregnant, i think the best thing to do is to make sure she is, and tell your parents and her parents.
ok fine, assuming she's pregnant, i think the best thing to do is to make sure she is, and tell your parents and her parents.
1. assuming she is, don't be a coward and run and hide from it all. ur going to have to face the truth, so tell ur parents and her parents.
2. how stupid are u to have unprotected sex if u don't want her to get protected?
3. how stupid are u to have done it, AGAIN? and like, THE NEXT DAY??
2. how stupid are u to have unprotected sex if u don't want her to get protected?
3. how stupid are u to have done it, AGAIN? and like, THE NEXT DAY??
she can't be pregnant already.
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well, if she does get pregnant, be a man. don't run away from her. and you'll have to tell both yours and her parents.
The chance that she got pregnant is pretty high, but since this was your first time, the chance that she will have a natural miscarriage in the first week or so is also very high. 90% chance, you won't have anything to worry about.
You see, unless sex with THAT PARTNER occurs fairly constantly, the mother's immune system won't recognize the growing fetus's DNA, and it will attack the placentea, assuming that it is cancer. That's why it's very rare for someone to get pregnant and keep the fetus the first time they have sex. It's possible, though...
You see, unless sex with THAT PARTNER occurs fairly constantly, the mother's immune system won't recognize the growing fetus's DNA, and it will attack the placentea, assuming that it is cancer. That's why it's very rare for someone to get pregnant and keep the fetus the first time they have sex. It's possible, though...
get a pregnancy test and see if she is... then go from there... no need to make your parents mad for nothing right?
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 10 2004, 6:41 AM)
well first of all the chance of her being pregnant is pretty high, considering the fact that you guys had unprotected sex why did you anyways.
Well, from back when I was alot more immature than I am now, which was a few years ago, I read on askjeeves that, in fact, even at the EXACT right moment, the chance of the egg fertilizing is no higher than 25%. That's 25% at the right moment to get it fertillized. Not to mention the miscarriages. I think you're fine.
Assuming you are pregnant..
You have to consider how old you are, and the money you have.
Or you can do an abortion, but I don't suggest it cause it's like, killing the baby.
Or you can give it up for adoption
But if she is pregnant, tell your parents first.
If she's not, get some protection if there's a next time, buddy.
You have to consider how old you are, and the money you have.
Or you can do an abortion, but I don't suggest it cause it's like, killing the baby.
Or you can give it up for adoption
But if she is pregnant, tell your parents first.
If she's not, get some protection if there's a next time, buddy.
been there, but anyways...
If you have "control" then she probably won't be but theres that chance. Either take a test or wait till shes supposed to have her period.
If you have "control" then she probably won't be but theres that chance. Either take a test or wait till shes supposed to have her period.
Whoops, forgot to say. If she IS pregnant, go for an abortion. It's technically not living, and besides, think of it this way. How would you like to grow up, then one day your parents tell you you were adopted, your parents didn't want you, and you were an accident? I think you owe the potential baby that much.
QUOTE(Demosthenes @ Dec 10 2004, 8:08 PM)
Whoops, forgot to say. If she IS pregnant, go for an abortion. It's technically not living, and besides, think of it this way. How would you like to grow up, then one day your parents tell you you were adopted, your parents didn't want you, and you were an accident? I think you owe the potential baby that much.
It technically is living, when most abortions take place there is a primitave nervous system.
Please don't get an abortion, my friend did and she can't stop wondering and regretting.
Go to a planned parenthood agency asap, and get the EC pill straight away before its took late to take it. If it is too late, and she is pregnant, step up to your responsibilities
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Dec 10 2004, 8:49 PM)
It technically is living, when most abortions take place there is a primitave nervous system.
Please don't get an abortion, my friend did and she can't stop wondering and regretting.
Go to a planned parenthood agency asap, and get the EC pill straight away before its took late to take it. If it is too late, and she is pregnant, step up to your responsibilities
Please don't get an abortion, my friend did and she can't stop wondering and regretting.
Go to a planned parenthood agency asap, and get the EC pill straight away before its took late to take it. If it is too late, and she is pregnant, step up to your responsibilities
please don't tell her what you want her to do. not everyone is like your friend. they are people who don't regret abortions. ever read imnotsorry.net?
it's not living, it barly has it's organs formed. you can't kill something that hasn't even had the chance to live. i have lived. why? i have my organs, i have breathe in real air. i have been held and feed and i have other things a lot of babies have done to them. i have lived. a fetus, hasn't.
I was always a sucker for a good Abortion.
dude if u were gonna have unprotected sex u should of got her the day after pill. cause then at least there is a lesser chance of her being pregnant.
i she is pregnant, you should not leave her, you have to help all the way. this sorta is your fault if she is pregnant
well if she is pregnant i guess you would hafta tell your parents. umm i would suggest not getting an abortion since its wrong in my opinion.
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Well. You should tell your parents(like everyone says), but if she isn't pregnant...Make sure you use protection next time.
if you're gonna worry like this and regret having unprotected sex, why the hell would you have unprotected sex? i'm sorry... it just doesn't make sense to me.
well, if you're assuming she's pregnant, then she's pregnant. there's nothing much you can do about it. she can get an abortion, or she can keep it.
it's simple.
good luck.
well, if you're assuming she's pregnant, then she's pregnant. there's nothing much you can do about it. she can get an abortion, or she can keep it.
it's simple.
good luck.
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whatever you do, don't get an abortion. that baby deserves a chance to live and is a precious human being. you know that in the future it would haunt you if you had an abortion.
that is, if your girlfriend is pregnant.
if she is, stay with her, show that you care, through this whole situation. yeah you may be scared, but think. she is the one with the baby, not you.
also, like the others said, tell your parents and her parents. be trustworthy with them, so they won't completely freak that you're with [or were] their daughter.
follow what your heart tells you. if it tells you to leave your girlfriend, get an abortion and lie to everyone, you're lying. no one could do any of that with a clear conciense. [sp?]
that's all.
that is, if your girlfriend is pregnant.
if she is, stay with her, show that you care, through this whole situation. yeah you may be scared, but think. she is the one with the baby, not you.
also, like the others said, tell your parents and her parents. be trustworthy with them, so they won't completely freak that you're with [or were] their daughter.
follow what your heart tells you. if it tells you to leave your girlfriend, get an abortion and lie to everyone, you're lying. no one could do any of that with a clear conciense. [sp?]
that's all.
Morning after pill..
Use condoms next time..
Use condoms next time..
well if she's pregnant......then leave town and change your name so you won't be blamed for the 'accident' 
If she is, don't run away from realilty. And don't abort. It's not right.
Like many other have said- If she is, don't run away from her. Accept it and be willing to help. It takes two to do the deed. Remember that. Now what you do from here on out (if she is pregnant) is up to you. But be ready to deal with the consequences of whatever action you take.
assuming that she's pregnant, stay by her side and support her. it's your 'accident' so you've got to take responsiblity for it.
don't abort, the baby has a right to live.
depending on how old you guys are, you might want to give your child up for adoption, it's better for the child to grow up in a strong enviroment. besides, you still want to have some sort of a life, don't you? it'll probably be really hard, emotionally, to give it up for adoption, but consider it. there are plenty of loving families waiting for a family.
once again, this all depends on how old you are, and if she is actually pregnant.
don't abort, the baby has a right to live.
depending on how old you guys are, you might want to give your child up for adoption, it's better for the child to grow up in a strong enviroment. besides, you still want to have some sort of a life, don't you? it'll probably be really hard, emotionally, to give it up for adoption, but consider it. there are plenty of loving families waiting for a family.
once again, this all depends on how old you are, and if she is actually pregnant.
see, another example of think before you act, you can't really do anything now, just wait and see
QUOTE(BoogythatBe @ Dec 13 2004, 1:54 AM)
Like many other have said- If she is, don't run away from her. Accept it and be willing to help. It takes two to do the deed. Remember that. Now what you do from here on out (if she is pregnant) is up to you. But be ready to deal with the consequences of whatever action you take.
It takes two to do the deed, but only one to take the consequences.
Forget part of my second post. Forget what most of these people are telling you. It should be yours and your gf's choice whether you have an abortion or not, not theirs. Some say it's not fair to the baby, even though the baby is not living technically. I personally wouldn't want to grow up knowing I was an accident, a tear in a condom, and my mother is barely older than me. But hey, it's your choice, and your girlfriend's choice, and your two's only.
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