ok theres dis girl I dun noe if I really lik her yet, but I have dis weird feeling about her, and want to get to noe her better, so Im kinda confuse. and sum of my friends they keep saying tat I lik her in public, and lik out loud but I think dey just joking around, but it kinda getting to me idk wat I shud tell dem, cus I dun really want dem to noe, but den if I say no, and wen I ask her out she might say no cus I didnt have the gut to admit it b4, but I just kinda wanna get to noe her better see if I really lik her, b4 letting any1 noe.

that took me like forever to read. but if you don't have the guts to admit you like her, then that's gonna be a big turn off for her. It kinda seems like you're embarrassed to like her. But if you really do want to get to know her better, and you really like her, then you wouldn't care what others think. Just talk to her, and take it from there.

Yeah, nobody likes a flip-flopper.

write normally ...huh? maybe u shld admit to the fact that u like her

i agree. if i knew someone liked me but was too embarrassed to let other know then i wouldn't want to be with them. why should i be with someone who is too embarrassed to walk next to me in public?

^^ took me a long time to understand.

yeah it kinda sounds like you're afraid of liking her, and is too embarrassed to admit it. its good that you want to get to know her better, don't listen to what your friends say. Just go for it

sry about tat I'll edit it. It's not tat im too embarrass to walk next to her, I would hang around her all the time if I can, is just tat if I let my friends noe den she will noe, and I dun want her to noe yet, atleast not until I find out if I really do lik her, I want to get to noe her better first.

i would still tell her...hey u like her without knowing her! u want to spend time with out knowing her.... so why not save all the trouble and stress and tell her...

cut the chase... u'll figure out soon enuf if u really like her...

or maybe she may never be into you... so if u tell her now and she says no... u saved urself from heartache

no not lik tat I dun noe her, we know each other since lik midle skoo maybe even elem, is just tat not lik know know, we neva really talk face to face, so yea wanna get to know her meaning being gud friend wit her first.

I know what ya mean, that's somethin' I'm goin' through right now too. It's fun though hah hah, just a lil nerve wracking, 'cause iono what she's thinkin', and that's never fun hah hah. Still though, I'd ask her to go somewhere with you, like maybe out to a movie, or dinner, or even shopping (if you're feeling daring) or even to the park just to hang out, and I'm sure you'll find out what you think about her for sure then. It's what I'm doin' hah hah.

PLEASE TYPE NORMAL!! it took me FOREVER to read..

anyways..get to know her a little better..keep it on the down low..figure out if you really like her..then go for it

whoa.. that took me a while to read.. >< please type in "proper" english next time. As for your problem. I say you go and get to know her better before you make any major decisions (telling her). Get to know her better so you will know whether or not you like her.

Yea.. that was wicked hard to read. But anyways...point is...who cares what your friends think... if you like her then ask her out. I kinda had the same problem but i worked it out and went out with the guy i liked for 5 months.. even tho some of my friends didnt like him. it was their problem. not mine. But on the basis of getting to know her better.. get some people together and go to the mall or bowling or something.. but not the movies.. movies is not a good place to get to know someone better personality-wise

Good point. But bowling is really great, now that I think about it. Can't believe I overlooked it lol. I think I'm going bowling this weekend instead =P. The movies is a really great place over in my city, 'cause after the movie there's a million restaraunts, shops, and just wherever you wanna go after. Starbucks works nice ^_~.

god seriously. this guy i like looks at me and all, but it should be obvious that looking at me won't get us nowhere because it has happened before, actually for a whole year two years ago. it just makes it seem that he's embarassed of liking someone like me since we're kind of opposites. maybe he is, but whatever. i'm actually gonna be brave and talk to him when sadies dance comes.


ANYWAYS,

don't make it seem like your embarassed of her. trust me. if you like her, talk to her.