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Chreal
So, anyway, this girl i like.. i said the wrong thing and she got sorta mad at me.. and she's like ignoring me when i said i was sorry.. what could i do?
ApocalypseAelis
You say it like this:

You: I'm sorry.








Haha...seriously, just go up to her really solemnly and look as sorry as you are, then say something like "I was a moron, I'm really sorry for..." etc.
krnxswat
Give her some time.

Sheesh.
Santokie311
Yeah, jus go tell her that u made a mistake and ur sorry.
picaso_smile
Every good apology includes:

- the "I'm sorry"
- the reason you acted the way you did
- why you're never gonna do it again
- how you're going to make it up to them
ShadowPixie
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Dec 9 2004, 8:56 PM)
Every good apology includes:

- the "I'm sorry"
- the reason you acted the way you did
- why you're never gonna do it again
- how you're going to make it up to them

^^ That's flawless. Wow, haha

Anywho, depending on how much you offended her, depends on how much time it takes for you to be forgiven. If you didn't do anything horrible, then don't fret, becuase I'm sure she will forgive you soon. happy.gif
mouse_3k
grab her, then say "I.....AM....SORRY!!!"
moralsdecayaway
i dont know really.. whenevr ive had to say im sorry.. i just try to be as sincere as possible.. apologize for being a jerk.. and just try to look like i am really regretful for it.. seriousness backs everything dude
Just_Dream
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Dec 9 2004, 9:56 PM)
Every good apology includes:

- the "I'm sorry"
- the reason you acted the way you did
- why you're never gonna do it again
- how you're going to make it up to them

I agree. That is flawless.

But I mean, you never know; this girl might hold a grudge on you forever. Okay maybe not forever, but maybe for a long time! In my opinion, girls are very sensitive, or it seems so in my point of view. I, myself, am a girl and I am VERY sensitive. So even if you apologize to her, whatever you do might not totally erase the mistake you made.

I know that if a guy broke a girl's trust or a friend's trust, it will take a long time for the trust to be grow again.
_sarcastic_
say i'm sorry or just send her a 'sorry' card?
rockmyx
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Dec 9 2004, 10:07 PM)
But I mean, you never know; this girl might hold a grudge on you forever. Okay maybe not forever, but maybe for a long time! In my opinion, girls are very sensitive, or it seems so in my point of view. I, myself, am a girl and I am VERY sensitive. So even if you apologize to her, whatever you do might not totally erase the mistake you made.

I know that if a guy broke a girl's trust or a friend's trust, it will take a long time for the trust to be grow again.

right! Girls are very sensitive.

give her some time. she might still be mad at you untill now. Why dont you avoid her or move a little distance away from her so she wont feel uneasy if your around and when the right time comes, then say "l'm so sorry"
kaka1204
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Dec 9 2004, 8:56 PM)
Every good apology includes:

- the "I'm sorry"
- the reason you acted the way you did
- why you're never gonna do it again
- how you're going to make it up to them

rolleyes.gif yup that's like the best way to tell her
misoshiru
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Dec 10 2004, 9:56 AM)
Every good apology includes:

- the "I'm sorry"
- the reason you acted the way you did
- why you're never gonna do it again
- how you're going to make it up to them

i agree. that is just flawless. but you should also give her some time as well.
Azarel
If you've apologized and sincerely mean it, that's all you can really do. If this girl won't accept your apology, then maybe she doesn't deserve it.
jennyjenny
Just say Sorry.

But sometimes, sorry just isn't enough...
Flip-o-Matic
"actions speak louder than words."
lilxroxy
QUOTE(ApocalypseAelis @ Dec 8 2004, 10:58 PM)
You say it like this:

You: I'm sorry.

lmao. ahahha. i agree

but yu shud also say why yur sorry.. (: glucks
iheartjohn
What did you do, by the way? Because saying sorry just isn't enough, as AzNxJenny91 said.
mishyerr
QUOTE
"actions speak louder than words."


that is so true. people tell me sorry all the time for offending me.. it means less than dirt to me half the time. you gotta SHOW her how much you WANT her to forgive you. you have to step out of your comfort zone and humiliate yourself.

and it might be hard, considering you're a guy.
(are you a guy? lol)
DrEaMgUy2K1
give it time
Shattered_Hope
It's Christmas soon. Buy her a gift, a rose to say much, and just say, "I'm sorry, can you ever forgive me?" She won't say "No." well you'd better hope she doesnt but that should make her forget about what you said and just forgive you. =)
tyedyefroggy
Well maybe you should play "Sorry 2004" by Ruben Studdard
sheddingtears
write her a letter or just do it the old-fashion-come-up-to-her-and-say-i'm-sorry way.
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