Okay..My boyfriend that I have had for 6 months now cheated on me with my friend. He called me crying and said that he didn't even think about what he was doing, it just happened. He said he realy loved me and that he wished he had never done it and that he didn't want us to break up. I talked to his friend and he said that he was moping around all day and he just wasn't himself..I don't know what to do, none of my friends care, and I just need some advice. Can anyone help me?

well what exactly do you mean he cheated on you? they made out or did stuff??

personally i would probably dump him. if he was stupid enough to cheat on me once, theres a chance he'd do it again.

He felt her up..I don't realy know if that is worse than making out or not...but I am so confused...

YES!

I did break up with him but I don't know if I could keep it that way because..I cant live without him. I have this empty pit in my stomach, it's like he took my heart with him when he left..I don't know, it sounds cheesy..

I would say what they said, but you can't just react instantly. He could really mean that he's sorry, but then again.. has he ever lied to you anything before? I mean stephinika has a point. He could do it again.. it's always possible.

[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1]He caled me crying and was choking on his words....and he never lied to me before about anything..I....gosh, i don't know how I can go on without him ><

^ totally agreed.
if i found out MY boyfriend was cheating on be, i basically wouldn't care because i'm ready to dump him anyway.
if he cheats, it's his problem. i think he's totally lying about loving you. he's probably been using you the whole time.
breaking up, is giving HIM the consequences.. not you.

Okay..thanks..I think I am going to go call him and tell him it's finally off. Besides, there has to be more guys out there, right? Dear me..I sound old. Well, thanks guys..

rip his heart apart!!

That's the spirit! =P hehe.. Don't worry, you'll get over it soon, and it was his lost for doing that. ^_^

good decision..im not sure if i would be able to trust him cuz there is a major chance that he would prolly do it again

that's a little harsh.

But if some one cheated on you the you should seriosuly break up..but well you done it already.. let's hope he doesn't do any thing stupid

if mine cheated on me, i'd prolly dump him. i mean he cheated on you once he could do it again

dump the mother effer

rok on lol.. like she said

uhh
Theres always diffrent fish in the sea ^^

And different fishermen too.

lol XD

dump him. do it. now.

dump him pal~

dump him...if he did it once he could do it again.

i'd just like to say... EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!!~ and since he sorry and wa sthe one who confronted you! you should really give him a chnace... can u let him go just like that after everything?

trust him. if it didn't love u he wouldn't have TOLD u.

How old are you?

I think you should dump him. I mean he did CHEAT on you & what makes you think he won't do it again? WORDS don't count, it's the ACTION that does.

since he apologized, i think u suld stay with him. if u leave him, it will make him extremely depressed. who knows what happens to him after?

DONT DO IT. WHO SAID PPL DONT DO IT ON ACCIDENT OR SOMETHING? WERE'S THE FORGIVENESS? YOU GUYS ARE SO HARSH.

everyone deserves a second chance... i wouldn't dump him if i were you. i mean, if you really love him then don't dump him.

good luck

if you want to give him another chance.

boys are so horny and perverted though sometimes. they just don't understand the true meaning of love and purpose of a relationship. but if he is like mature and all, and you can't "live without him", then yeah go for it? just be careful and dont assume it will never ever happen again because it is possible for it to happen again.

i guess you should dump him.. but ierno he kinda seems so sincere ><

this happened to me like a few months ago too. but in my case it was sex he did.

well i think you should give him a chance. think about it. it took him a lot of guts to tell you that he actually cheated on you and i think he really was sorry and truly regreted doing so. if he didnt care for you, he wouldnt have told you.

but if he does it again, then dump him. once is forgivable but twice is never.

I think you should give him another chance. He sounds really sincere.. 'n if he didn't really like you..he prolly wouldn't have told you in the first place. If he cheats again, however, get rid of him. =]

I'm 13. I know I'm young but I am more "mature" than regular preppy snobby 7th grade junior high f**kers. Sorry, I hate them all.

tell him u need a break. then you are ready and when he seems date-able, date him. if you think he's changed and learned his lesson, keep him. he'll never cheat agian.

who told you....if he told you he is a real man....but if you had to find from someone else then

He called me crying. It took him about 30 minutes to actually tell me though. But yeah, he told me.

wow im sorry...well he cheated, and he feels bad about it...but if you feel like you can build a bridge and walk over it and are comfortable then i would say stay together...but none the less hes a creep for cheating reguardless of how bad he feels after wards... do what you want to and make sure your comfortable with it also

so what happen so far?

hahahaha minda.

i dunno, it was only feeling up...it's not like he had sex with her or something. if my bf did that i'd probably give him a second chance.

and wow, you're in 7th grade feeling eachother up? what's happening to you kids these days..

Har har har. He is in the 10th grade. I know you think I am little inmature junior high girl who doesn't know what love is and shouldn't be dating a tenth grader, but screw you. I know perfectly well what love is.

The boy obviously aint feeling you. He cheated on you, "he who does not feel me is not real to me" he obviously found that girl to be better than you at the time.... he's not into you... kill 'em off... better yet just kill him... no im just kidding that wouldn't be legal. Severely torture him in a sexual kind of way getting him excited then let him go... >=]

Thanks. That just made me feel so good about myself

EDIT// Why are you in the girls locker anyway?

well, my opinion doesnt matter because you already did but anywho- what i wanna know is, what your "Friend" has to say about the matter?

My "friend" didn't say anything. I called her and asked her, and she just hung up on me. Everytime I confronted her, she walked away. So I guess she has nothing to say.

And Loren (the guy) hates her guts. I don't know why he did it. His friends say its just a guy, his heart corrupted and his hormones took in. She was persuading him to do it anyway.

Im in here because... I am in here! Besides it's the girls locker room.. what ugy doesn't want to be in the girls locker room?

I'd say to give him a second chance...if he wasn't a good guy, he'd have hid the truth from you. But he told you the truth and apologized, and from what you're saying, he sounds sincerely sorry.

I think you should kick your "friend" where it hurts and curse her out in public. Seriously, I think you should do that.

Give your bf a second chance...but twice is not acceptable...if he does it again, dump him without hesitation.

Already been done. Got a weeks suspension for it, but oh well.

hahahahha ^^ rock on! did you dump him or are you still thinking about it? just out of curiousity

I dumped him...























But I just couldn't live without him.

great "friend"

hmm, i don't care what you say, but to you.. dating an older guy might sound like not such a big deal. but if you're a 10th grade girl and you know a guy in your grade dating a 7th grader, you're gonna think he's weird and you're gonna know that all he wants is booty. i know that because i'm a girl in 10th grade and i know a lot of guys my age that date younger girls because they're easier. but then again... sometimes that's not the case. i'm just saying... be careful.

but i guess if you've been going out a long time and he didnt try to screw you yet, you're safe...