ok well first of all, im in this beautiful relationship, but now my guy is always giing me excuses about how he can't call me. he gives really lame excuses, he'll be like "ohh i can't call you cuz im going to do homework," or he'll say "ohh i need my nap." andhe doesn't hold my hand anymore when we walk dwn the hallways in school, and he never really gives me real hugs?! he gives me like friend taps. it's retarded. and now i don't know if he likes me cuz he tells me he loves me with all my heart! and i love him too! we've been friends for like 2 years and we started dating this year....and i just don't know that he's trying to say? and i want to talk to him about this problem, but i don't know what to say!? please help!!! [FONT=Impact][COLOR=purple]

talk to him about it, ask him what is wrong. tell him its affecting you, he might understand.

Yes, tell him, that would be best. Sometimes, they aren't even aware they're doing that. No, seriously.

Hmmm....this sounds tricky...try....

*walk up to him*
"What the fu*k are you trying to say to me?"
*wait for response*

Problem solved!

And yeah, it really is that easy.

How do you call that a beautiful relationship? I'd say talk to him about what's going on.

Confront him in a dark alley.

well it was a great relationship, until all this mess happened....

You seriously need to talk to him about it.. it sounds like he's.. I don't know? Avoiding/hiding something from you?

HAHA YOU'RE BACKKKKKK

talk to him about it; tell him you've noticed these things that have changed. Ask him what's changed with him.

Ever think that he needs to do Homework or Maybe he does need his nap! Okay...eff that this dude is a sap! I tell you what follow my instructions:

Walk up to him... Grab his balls and squeeze... Then be like "Look here hoe... You love me right... Then tell me whats wrong or Il rip your balls off" I think that might work...

talk to him about it, or end the relationship. i personally wouldn't call it a "beautiful relationship"



hahahh nice idea, that totally amused me.

tell him how u feel...

i like that! hehehe

but you definitely need to talk to him to find out what's going on. guessing won't help.

wow..thats kinda like the same thing that was happening to me..and i talked to him about it and he said "things hav changed" and..yea..then we broke up...

dont take that shit from him. i use those excuses too, btw. if he REALLY wanted to talk to u or w/e, he would. so u go up to him n b like

"bitch u better b straight wit me!!"

Yes, do what ComradeRed said: "Confront him in a dark alley."

You need to talk to him about this. He's pushing you away, for a reason. Maybe he doesn't want people to think you two are dating anymore? But "just friends?" That could be the issue. I'm not saying that it esactly is; his signs are confusing. Maybe he's secretly dating someone else and tries to avoid you, or tries to make it so that the person he's dating doesn't realize yoo two are still together? *shrugs* who knows. Anyway, He says that he "loves you???" WTH.. You two have only been recently dating "this year?" And you two have known each other for two years.. MAYBE.. JUST MAYBE.. he only truly wants a "just friends" type of relationship, but loves you "as a friend." Talk to him a bout it. What if he's ashamed of being known as to have been dating you? Who knows. But one thing's for sure: you two are not in love. Don't use the words love too loosely.




Seon Ho, you and your off-topicness and randomness.

he seems to me like he had a talk from someone and that talk made him realize something, and that effected your relationship

just tell him how you feel. remember to say "this is the way i feel" and not "you are doing this" because it keeps a lot of crap on the downlow.

just be honest with him, tell him all you want is an honest answer. tell him how he is confusing you and hurting you. but be kind about it, and accept whatever anser he gives you.

good luck, sweetie. the first time is always the hardest.

there's a reason why he's doing all of this friendly gestures. If you're hesitant to ask him why, try asking his friends about it. (they will most likely not spill a word, since they're on your bf's side). If this is going on for a week or two, I suggest, no, more likely, urge you greatly to have a serious talk with him, otherwise it could be a sad end to a once beautiful relationship.

Tell him you feel. Maybe he isn't aware of what's going on. Or maybe he has no interest in you.

Bingo!!