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this is long, but i need help cry.gif

recently a friend and i stopped talking for some reason that i cant even understand. we've been friends since march and been talking almost every single day since. he's liked me since june but it never effected our relationship [i didnt look at him differently]. he always reminded me of how much he liked me and how close our relationship was and it really made me happy. like he knows more about me than any other person, i've told him so many personal things, we've been through some rough times, and he was always one of [out of like 2] the closest ppl i had to me. so one day he left on a trip for a few days and came back, i greeted him with a friendly welcome and he starts getting some shitty attitude with me. i say something like "ur obviously in a bad mood, im not mad at u, but please dont talk to me until ur feeling better". then he starts going off on me saying "u neglect me so much.. u take friendships for granted.. F u... i dont need crap from u..". and im just... wthek r u talking about. what did i do? he left from there and havent talked to me since. this was like 2 weeks ago and just yesterday i was on AIM and saw his profile. it said "i wasted my time on you". i know he was refering to me. if it was any other friend, i wouldnt give a care in the world, but that really hurt me. maybe cus i treasured the friendship so much and he played a pretty big part as a friend to me, i felt like he was throwing dirt on our friendship. like it meant absolutely nothing to him. i wrote something like that in an away message and im hoping that he read it. but im sure that if he did, he would have messaged me and said something [which he didnt]. a friend of mine said it was probly cus i didnt like him back, but i dont think so. he said some stuff about me being a friend in general, not just how i am towards him. and i have no idea what to say to him. i miss him so much but i have no clue how to approach him cry.gif. i have no real question to go with this problem, but feedback on opinions would b greatly appreciated _unsure.gif
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i know how you feel, this happened to me once too with this guy friend, he liked me but never told me, till i got a bf. then he started ignoring me.

i think you should go talk to him about it, hopefully he listens. maybe send him an email or ask a friend to tell him how much you miss him and stuff like that.
but he's gonna realize soon, that he made a big mistake not talking to you.
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