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lovescream
uhhh.. i have a friend who calls her my best friend.
we used to be as close as sisters can get.
but then one day she started to avoid me and hang out with some of the people we talk about. cierra broke her leg and my best friend is hanging out with her like she's her best friend and really hasn't talked to me on the phone/online since.

then i started hanging out with another friend and then the day i got detention and missed recess [elementry school me is in] my best friend started stealing my friend i was hanging out.
and they leave me out
so now i feel like i have no friends, no life, no nothing.

and just now i was talking to a male friend [i have more male friends than girl friends] and she all of a sudden wanted to talk to him and she used to hate him... now she's all over him like a dog. sad.gif i haet the fact that she's taking my friends when she has friends of her own i practilly cant talk to.

i'm one of those people who like stuff to myself.. i grew up as an only child so i'm very used to that... so what should i do?
cry.gif it seems like my life is falling apart. my best friend just talked to me today only because she needed help on the project and saying that oh i'm bored.
it's like i'm her replacement friend when she has no one to talk to.
mad.gif i hate it.
pOOpii_h e a dxD
awwwww it's okie. Theres only one thing you can do confront her about it and make sure you get everything out. You dont have to be NICE TO HER OR MEAN either just dont be scared she cannot hurt you .. you only need to be nice to your friends and although she mite have seemed like a true friend she is not. So stay strong and just talk to her. Good Luck and dont worry im your friend happy.gif
lovescream
QUOTE(pOOpii_h e a dxD @ Dec 3 2004, 8:10 PM)
awwwww it's okie. Theres only one thing you can do confront her about it and make sure you get everything out. You dont have to be NICE TO HER OR MEAN either just dont be scared she cannot hurt you .. you only need to be nice to your friends and although she mite have seemed like a true friend she is not. So stay strong and just talk to her. Good Luck and dont worry im your friend happy.gif

thanks/.. :) i feel a little better.
and i forgot to mention... i'm just afraid to do that.
i mean, the last time i told her something that was the truth and it was about her.
she got really pissed off... and now i know she's gonna disagree because we just a little fight about not putting our names in our pro.
i mean seriously, i've never seen my name in her pro... and i didnt put her name cuz she never on aim... and she says she is and i'm ALWAYS on aim.
^^; thanks again.. i'm not as mad and depressed as i was before throb.gif
HelloSunshine
hm...that doesn't sound like a friend to me mad.gif hm...just ask her about it....and ask her why she's doing that...tell her how you feel...i hope everything works out for you flowers.gif good luck! console.gif
KingdomHeartsFan
She sure has a mean way of the meaning "friend". Maybe sumthing is bothering her. Try asking, I hope everything works out between u guys! _unsure.gif
mirage
write a letter to her and tell her to get a life and stop trying to take your friends.
Ange1onCloud9
That happens all the time. I think a majority of friends do that, but there are a rare few that actually stick around.
SandRAWRz
you should go slap that bitch.....jk just talk to her and ask what the hell is she doing and why is she doing doing this
lovescream
^ LOL
thanks for all the advice.
wink.gif
I talked to her, she has another best friend... and I guess i only have her.
so i'll stick to my online friends.. i think they're better.
happy.gif
thanks, though.
lilJdawg
confront her about it. if she continues to steal your friends, steal her friends. Haha.
kellyannie
people like that suck stubborn.gif i've had many "friends" like that. if you already tried talking to her about it and she doesn't care just forget about her you don't need friends like that. console.gif
x____duckii
Awws, cheer up! That is not a true friend. Maybe try talking to her. Ask her what's wrong and tell her that she's hurting you. If she doesn't listen, then tell her ass off. Maybe you can try making new friends and move on? Wells, I hope you feel better console.gif
ComradeRed
Yeah... you can always buy new friends.
lilxroxy
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 3 2004, 8:05 PM)
cry.gif it seems like my life is falling apart.

she isn`t worth to let you cry..

(: cheer up. smile to show her how good you are w/o her. take this chance and try to make more friends with ppl yu don`t hang out with.

hang out with ppl who she hates and who hates her and you. hey! she`s hanging out with her "ex enemy" so why can`t you hang out with your "enemies"??
sheddingtears
i hate my best friends. i have no real best friends actually. find yourself new friends. i would.

i can relate. sometimes it feels like your life does fall apart if you feel like they don't want/need you anymore.

just don't cry about it. it's probably not worth it.
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