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jeffx91
do u expect a kiss on ur first date? if u alreayd have, beginning or end.. and how long was it
jambaJUICE
Wow, you are one curious kid.
But, I do not expect one.
If i do kiss, I guess its like.. 5-8 secs maybe?
idk, ive never counted
Nicolatofu
umm i don't expect it on the first date, i'm not gonna MAKE him kiss me, but i wouldn't like totally suck his face off on the first date. Maybe i'm old fashioned or something.....but just a nice simple kiss i guess?
teenprincess
no. they'll have to wait until the 2nd date. But it wouldn't be a long kiss.
jeffx91
are u guyz serious? u wouldnt kiss ur date on first date? welps, well have to see, ive never gone on a date b4
Rachel
it depends on how the date went...

if it was good and i felt chemistry then yes id want to kiss him

if not then no
simplyannoy
biggrin.gif lol you havn't? Neither have I! tongue.gif but that's okkay to get curious about these things ^_~ but usually you don't expect a kiss... a kiss shouldn't be something "expected" more of like a feeling you'll have between you and your date. Probably a nice little peck on the cheek shall do. _smile.gif
tresa1992
If I had the opportunity to go on a first date, yes, I would accept a kiss. That would be lovely.
islandkiss
just a hug.
WhiteLotus*
No. Well, if I really like the guy I guess and we are comfortable enough.

It took my b/f two months to kiss me. Which was today. hehe!

Eh, mine lasted 6 seconds. I counted! So, anywhere between 5-15 seconds!
christiee_nax
if it went well and we made a connection, then sure maybe. but if there was no 'click' then. nope
kellyannie
QUOTE(christiee_nax @ Nov 29 2004, 8:56 PM)
if it went well and we made a connection, then sure maybe. but if there was no 'click' then. nope

i agree... no need to kiss someone you really aren't feeling _unsure.gif
carmi96
i dun expect one on ma first date. altho on my first date i made out w/ tha guy haha but i didnt necesarily wan2 tht soon...=P
angel-roh
i dont really expect my first kiss to be in my first date because i want my first kiss to be "THE ONE"... if he loves me the way i am and treats me for who i am, i'll give him a kiss... i dont just kiss like flirtatious kissing way... i wait until i found "THE ONE" heh... sigh i pretty much regret for kissing my 4th boyfriend...well he is now my ex-boyfriend, we broke up which im really glad that we did cause i almost lose my virginity with him...that's scary i know T__T; im only 16 too.. theres a lot of guys who go for sex more than love...sigh i should be more careful on guys this time T_T
tokyo-rose
It depends on how well the date has gone, but I usually wouldn't expect one.
showstopper!
Blah. MTV does that. I atleast expect one on the cheek.
_sarcastic_
maybe a kiss goodnight or a peck on the cheek
tropicalchic
It depends on how the date went and if there was any chemistry.
KissMe2408
=MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS=




hmm, in my opinion I really don't like kissing on the first date....
pickmeup
if the feeling is right, then i guess a kiss would be appropriate. unless i really like him, then id wanna continue this butterfly feeling :)
splitnightsky
a hug is enough.
I'd never kiss on a first date.

my first boyfriend waited 6 months to kiss me,
and it was a few short ones because I was inexperienced ;)

second waited one month,
and it was also a few short ones cuz he was inexperienced.

why be in any hurry?
the first kiss to a new someone is exciting to me :)
lollypop036
DIS AINT LOLLYPOP ITZ SIMONE IM ON HER SITE TING BUT U PEEPZ AINT SERIOUS I WOULD OBVIOUSLY KIS ON DA 1ST DATE BUN WAITING DATS LONG.
Infinite.
Well it matters how long you've been together and if your comfortable enough with each other to have a first kiss. Everyones different, but personally I probably wouldn't have one on the first date.
emokimo.co.nr
I only expect a first kiss when the connection is REALLY there.
x1227x
QUOTE(christiee_nax @ Nov 29 2004, 8:56 PM) *
if it went well and we made a connection, then sure maybe. but if there was no 'click' then. nope


agreed.

i wont kiss them unless i felt chemistry. =P
letsPlaydoctor.
MTV does what?

and i didnt get my first kiss on my first date.
i got it during a damn slow song at a school dance.
all of my friends and his, were like.
talking to each of us, saying, "go lower!" to him, and "kiss him!" to me.
i flipped them all off, and they walked away.

then, once...
i fell asleep while slow dancing with him.
cause i was tired.
he whispered in my ear, "i love you" and i woke up, and was like, wtf?! where am i?!

that relationship didnt last long.

hahahahah.
alysaphobia
it depends. it's not about whether it's the 1st, 2nd or 290432th date to me (i mean, you could have gone out with a guy for months and only been on 1 or 2 dates). it's all about chemistry and feeling. if i feel like i'm ready for it, i'll go ahead and do so or expect a kiss. if not, then no.
youlovejade
[font=Verdana][size=1]i've never been on a real date...with the "date" label. more like "hanging out," but then again all my relationships have been unconventional...haha, okay except maybe my first one...but that is a totally different story and no one wants to hear that...

sorry i'm off-topic. i'm distracted.

anyway
avoid the whole date thing.
i'm not sure how old you are but save it until you are around 20.

thats all i have to say.

and if its more of a "hanging out" type date, if you have a feeling that this person is interested in you, and you have taken more time to get to know them, it should just come naturally. don't be all freaked out :P
misoshiru
QUOTE(Nicolatofu @ Nov 30 2004, 11:16 AM) *
umm i don't expect it on the first date, i'm not gonna MAKE him kiss me, but i wouldn't like totally suck his face off on the first date. Maybe i'm old fashioned or something.....but just a nice simple kiss i guess?

I agree, I think anything more is just too much.
a painefull euphoria
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DIS AINT LOLLYPOP ITZ SIMONE IM ON HER SITE TING BUT U PEEPZ AINT SERIOUS I WOULD OBVIOUSLY KIS ON DA 1ST DATE BUN WAITING DATS LONG.



^woah i totaly dont know what the hell you just said

anywhoo.

no kissy on first date if it was the first time i met him or hung out with him
but usualy for me we have been dating a while so i do kiss him on the 1st date
misoshiru
^ If you've been dating him for a while, then you'd kiss him on the first date? That makes absolutely no sense.
foreverNalways
I don't really know. My boyfriend and I waited 6 months to kiss.. I think it made it more special by waiting until we got to know each other on a different level. I don't see the point of rushing a relationship..
We've been going out for almost a year now, I love him and I'm glad we waited.
My friends agree that waiting worked for us.. but most of my friends did a heck of a lot more in their first 6 months... ekk.

:)
lollypop036
lol.
sorry about that other post.
it was my friend simone she came on and cuz my passwwords like permaanetly stored n all
but um, idk cuz like ive never been on a date but i think i probably would expect a kisss i dont see why not lol
me1issaaaa
Absolutely, it was just so natural since we had such a strong connection. It was really sweet, just a kiss goodnight.
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