Okay so I'm almost sixteen (in less than a month) and I'm totally crushing my older brother's best friend who is going to be seventeen in June. So the age difference isn't that big. He is a junior and I'm a sophomore. So we do talk once in a while, like whenever he comes over or we give him rides places. We do flirt a little but I dont know if it's in a casual your my bud's sis i better be nice to you kind if way. At school he'll smile at me and say hi and stuff. I don't know if he is attracted to me at all but I want to find out. The problem is I'm really shy and don't want to go over and say "I like you" or have my brother tell him. If he doesn't like me I don't want it to be awkward afterward. So I'm wondering how I can find out if he has any feelings at all for me without making my intentions obvious.

Thanks so much

thats really tough if your brother knows you like his bestfriend ask him to try to find out if he likes you thats all that i can think of right now

I totally would but i definitely don't want my brother knowing, atleast not yet. He is way to protective and plus he tried setting his friend I like up with some girl but he didn't like her. Thank Goodness

seems like u dont talk with him much. try getting his sn or make convo with him. not just flirting, but get to know him. that way u get a better idea of what sorta person he really is and it wont sound too forward if u ever do just tell him u like him =]. good luck!

that sucks then instead of your brother is any of your friends...friends with your crush?

if you have a nice brother , maybe he'll help you out...however, if you dont...you are so in trouble..and you'd have to do it on yur own...ask yur bro to help...youd have a big advantage. =)