chaoticchrissy
Nov 26 2004, 06:01 PM
im over cuttin my self dont do it anymore but my bf doesnt trust me anymore he always thinks i do it when i go to the washroom nd stuff =S its rele creappeee that he styll thinks that after like 2months of me stoppinnn wat to doo??
jennyjenny
Nov 26 2004, 06:04 PM
English, please.
And I don't know if this helps...but...
show him your wrists and that it's cut-free. Duh?
I don't know if I answered your question because I didn't understand it..
inthemudhole
Nov 26 2004, 06:18 PM
Wow.
Uhm.
Are you that illiterate offline, too?!
Okay, anyway.
Yeah. What Jenny said.
Just show him where you would normally cut.
Badabing, badaboom. <--Wow, I can't believe I just said that.
Shattered_Hope
Nov 26 2004, 06:54 PM
he doesnt trust you becuz he cares for you and are afraid you'll get hurt. in a way you should be glad??? but hmm...why dont you, for one..just tell him how you feel...tell him straight to his face..that if he keeps doing this..you'll leave them?? whoa..wait..thats kinda harsh..just tell him the situation.
Shattered_Hope
Nov 26 2004, 06:56 PM
[ edit ]
*him
[ /edit ]
pOOpii_h e a dxD
Nov 26 2004, 07:06 PM
there are many things to show him that you have changed. One as someone mentioned show him your wrists and two TALK TO HIM. If he loves you then he should trust you just have a down to earth conversation with him. Since you guys love eachother it wont be to hard for him to understand. Good Luck
HaN4RaNg
Nov 26 2004, 07:38 PM
hes only caring for u. look at it as a good thing. spend a lota time with him and dont try to xcuse urself away from him a lot, thats what gets guys thinking that ur doing something that they shouldnt b seeing. but anyway, its sweet of him to still care even if he does doubt u. hes only watching out for ur health
mouse_3k
Nov 26 2004, 07:42 PM
your a black cutter (were)??? ME TOO!!!! (i was) no worries, i had the same problems. Just be like *cant u trust me for once damn...see NE new wounds?? no so back off* or somethin. somethin straight out
pinaykizzes
Nov 27 2004, 12:15 AM
he jus kares bout u..i guess you hearin that alot, but just tel ya man that he gotta chill and trust you ..thaz why ya in a relationship rite?
xcaitlinx
Nov 27 2004, 12:33 AM
well if he doesnt believe u wen u tell him, then he isnt a true good boyfriend. u could always pull up ur sleeves and show him that there are no new scars.......yeah thats all i can think of at the moment
Winter
Nov 27 2004, 06:22 AM
I used to hurt myself too. I told my ex and we talked for a long time. After a while I quited. But there were still times when he's get scared when I cried and stuff. Coz that's when I tend to hurt myself. I noticed how worried he got so I talked with him and told him I wasn't going to do that anymore because i ddin't want others to get worried, the way he was then. so yeah, just talk to him about it.
Rachel
Nov 27 2004, 07:30 PM
way to be the 1000038528 person to make a topic like this =)
blowpops69
Nov 27 2004, 09:51 PM
show him ur wrist and say 'does it look like i cut?'
or maybe in a nicer way but neway
i cut myself today. not purposly. i ran up the the stairs and the little thing just cut me . ow
angel-roh
Nov 30 2004, 02:56 PM
uhh can you um correct what you have said up there... i had no clue what you were saying.. the only part i understand was that your boyfriend doesn't trust you that you stopped cutting...ehhh
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