Well there is this guy that i have liked for two years, almost three. and last year he got a girlfriend and i was crushed and all. but then i got a boyfriend(my first) but it didnt turn out too well cuz me and my bf NEVER talked.. anyway now this year the kid i like started talking to me soo much more and he said the sweetest things sometimes, which made me think he liked me. i was wrong. then all of a sudden he found out this girl liked him and he totally forgot about me. now theyrre together and it just hurts like hell to see him with her. anyway wat can i do to get him off my mind? i mean ive tried looking at other guys and becoming interested but it just doesnt work. i just CANT get over him..he means sooo much to me.

Aaaww, don't worry. *hugs* U'll get over him. do sumthing u lyke 2 do with ur friends, lyke watch a movie, shop , etc. And if u really do lyke him, u should be happy... if he is happy..even if he's with another girl. Hope u feel better!!!!

have an all girl's night out. yepps. it would make you feel better. =) time will heal all wounds. but hmm..why dont you try getting to know the guys your age..nd find their intersts..become friends first and then..start thinking about being more than friends?? well best of luck on getting over her..=)

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talk things out? thats all the advice i got. if it still doesn't work out just forget about him & move on. i hope you feel better

talk to him about it...but if he forgot about you...then....you should try to forget him...hope you feel better

You've obviously tried very hard to get over this but it's just not working... This is what you do and I swear it works it you do it correctly:
Each morning let out all your pain. Think about it and cry. Get it out of your system. Push it out of your mind each day. So as an example... I'm really upset so eachmorning I allow myself 10 minutes to cry nd be unhappy then the rest of the day I'm my normal self.

thanks for all the advice, i forgot to mention i see him each and every day and we are like best friends

just live and let live...u can tell him if u want, but it depends how much he likes the girl.... if ur feeling really down, get involved in clubs in school n stuff, or volunteer to take ur mind off things...the heart has its own ways of working, and u can't just make urself stop liking someone

^^holy crap ur right, i cant TELL my heart, "stop liking mike"
its so damn hard to get over him, hes sweet funny caring i mean theres nothing i dont like about him..

play halo game or any type of shooting games or wrestling games... and think the enemies is your crush lol.

You'll get over him eventually. To speed things up, find another hot guy.

i think the best thing is dont stress your self too much and get set up like that. just keep it low, and forget about having a bf and such. friends are even better!. so yeah.

Maybe you should hang out with your friends alot more and just forget about him.

aww don't worry sweetie!! I've been thru that, i just stuck around and made myself look good. Hung out with him and we really got to know each other as friends. we went thru bad relationships and realized the only really good one we have is with each other. so it worked out. Just keeping working at it, be there for him. Just be careful. some girls are vicious.

Picasso and Angel are right... combine those two ideas and you get what I've been doing for a month and a half or so trying to get over the girl I loved, and went out with for a year, best year of my life so far I might add... it works... just takes lots of time...

omg! same here.. i eventually got over him.. think of something better than him. tell him you like him.. if he dont like you, make a scene.. and have a fight.. then that will make you hate him.. thats with me.. then he apoligized and were friends.. nothing more

b happi for him.......n hez not the onli guy around rite? there'z probably some hotter guy who's waiting for you

Just be happy and accept that there's no certain in this world... try to move on and take everything gracefully... if you still feelin' low, try to recollect all the good memories you had before...just be happy for him...peace!:biggrin:

aw. just remember not to hold in things too long that other girls might be first to beat you to the guy.

what can i say? if it wasnt supposed to hurt, it wouldn't be called a crush.
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a heart is not a play thing, a heart is not a toy; but if u want it broken, give it to a boi...
if it wasnt supposed to heart ..it wouldnt b called a crush

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