i have this boyfriend and he's starting to really get on my nerves.
i've talked to him to stop following me around school but he just says okay and still follows me.
anyway, what i want to ask is how do i break up with a guy... and like... not hurt his feelings that's not possible but what's the closest way?
because he's getting on my nerves and i cant stand him =\ people make fun of us and he's becoming my personal stalker.

whoa... juss say that you dont see things really working out and that to give you some space for awhile.

^ Yeah, tell him you don't like him always right behind you. I mean you want a boyfriend not a lost puppy, right?

You could tell him:

"I'm sorry, but I just have to break up with you. I don't mean to hurt your feelings, and I'm really, terribly sorry."

And yes, tell him that you need some space and just some alone time with yourself.

Something like that.

Hope it works out.

hmmm ... be lyk ' its not u, its me ' LOL no thats corny ...

just tell him how u feel and if he doesnt understand then screw him.

yeah... i know he really really cares about me... but i just dont have the heart to tell him...
omigawd :S there's no other way to tell him than to not tell him... soo... i'll try that.. thanks

lol that is corny.
that's like the line i hate when people use.
because truly they know it IS them and not... me. O_O and eww i wont screw him after i break up. that's just wrong,

i used that. it worked but he stil kidna follows me

How about...

"IM sorry, this just can't work out. I DO lyke u. just not in THAT way. WE need a little time apart. "

oh goosness gracious. just say its over. things aren't working out.

Say you're creeped out. O_o

Just.. say you don't things are working out on BOTH sides.

Tell him that you need to be alone sometimes. If he's really bugging you that much, tell him things aren't going to work out if he keeps following you.

i don't think there is a possible way of breaking up with someone without hurting them. but good luck

I feel yah girl, I had the same situation a few years ago, but the thing was I was soo afraid of hurting him and plus i got really close to his friends and family. But I finally got up the courage and said, "you know what, you're such a sweet guy and you really deserve someone that can give you all that you're looking for, but i don't think i'm her." And after i broke up with him i felt sooo relieved So, basically just tell him the truth, he'll understand if he's a good guy, and it's highly unlikely when you go out with someone that when breaking up comes along that no ones going to get hurt. I mean everyone gets hurt in relationships, its ineviable. But if you feel this way, you better brake it off now, better sooner then later. and trust me you'll feel soo relieved after it

If you're worried about losing friends over it too, don't worry. Because after i broke up with the guy, his friends understood, n' they were cool. and if they don't understand then you really don't need to be hanging with those ppl. lol hope i helped ~K

[QUOTE] guys r just so weird , just say , give me time .. . n lets talk things out before u do anything . . [QUOTE]

im a guy. and i think u should just crush his hearts.ahahhaha. since he's a jerk like u said lol.

do it if you are now hapi

ahhaha agreed. good luck with that

breaking up with guy is easy.
guy on;y have tempory feeling
they get over it fast unlike girl.
just tell him in the nice manner as possible.

I would say "Right now, I'm not in a mood to have a relationship. So I need a big space. So I want to break up with you. It's not like I hate you or I found another guy. It's just that I want to have my own freedom for awhile."

Heh... I hope that helps?

be direct. he'll get over it.

tell him straight to his face.

yeah i had that problem with my bf a few weeks ago...but i'm not sure if what i do will work for you
i just told him what bothered me and like, how hes not giving me enough "room" ...heh, but it worked :]

man, love him SOO MUCH!

something similar is happening to me...except the person isnt talking to me...
anyways, tell him that u need space...

just tell him this is not suposed to be offensive n tell him what your supposeed to do...

just tell him (nicely) that you think it'd be best not for you guys to go out anymore and give him the reasons. its better to do it than to prolong it.

//edit// augh stupid computer...

sorry for the double post.

Just tell him straight to his face. "things aren't working out between us. i think it's best we remained friends." Why did you go out with him in the first place if you knew he was like this?

Well whatever you do, dont say I just want to be friends. That pushed my last boyfriend over the edge..

Wait, aren't you 11?

Guys can't love that much when they are 11.

Be strong; and get it over with.
Break it to him gentle- but hit him with the truth.
It's what he needs to hear.

say i really dont feel the way i did when we first started to date and i dont think its best for us to be together anymore. im sorry i dont want to hurt your feelings

i would just tell him to back off..and give u some space..but not like scream that at him..just in a nice way

this is hard....

-Moves to Relationships-

errm you can always warn him about 3 more times. if it still dont work, tell him off and leave. cant be tht hard now..

try to tell him again to stop following you, if he dont listen... u gotta break up. tell him that u kno he cares bout u but u dont think u shud go out anymore bc u dont lyke the way ur relationship is going.

just tell him. no one wants to have someone drag out the fact they the other wants to break up. just tell him in the nicest way possible. tell him that y'all will still be friends. (if you want...) and if he gets all mad and hates you after that, that is his loss.

juat say "you don't wnat to be in a relationship anymore"

don't be too harsh on him but try do it when you feel it is rite. you don't want to be in a relationship full of pity...

If you can't break up with him, then have a stalker for the rest of your life. Have fun with that.

use the oh so famous line
"i need some time"

just tell him get the f^!k away!!!!