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simplyannoy
So yea... I like a guy and we seem to be pretty good friends. He's like 1 year younger than me but I don't care ^_^ So I started to drop hints I like him (like it was obvlious<-sp? to our friends) but I don't know if he gets it. The other day my friend and I made a bet that I couldn't hold his hand for 2 mins but I did it anyway and he didn't pull away. Is that a good thing or bad thing? mellow.gif I'm even more confused because I found out that he likes a girl but that girl already has a bf so should I just continue being his friend or what? Thanks! biggrin.gif
inthemudhole
It's a good thing. [about the hand-holding thing]

Hmm..
Well.
The other girl's off-limits..
Maybe he likes you. [shrug]
Talk to him about it. tongue.gif
RIcEB0IAnTh
The best thing to do is always ask, but if he say no your friendship will kinda be messed up, so maybe try to get a friend to ask? But if the other girl is not available, u would probably have a chance.
Shattered_Hope
take a step for all the ladies who feel shy and awkward when asking a guy out or taking charge. go girl. hmm who knows..you my get what you deserve and want. good luck.
sunissed14127
hmm...just tell him how u feel
lovescream
jus tell him you like him
that did me kind of good.
that got my crush to hae me as his girlfriend.. maybe it'll do you that good.
but relationships are relationships... i think you should make the first move because you two have been good friends.
unless you tell him and ask him out and he says no because he likes it better if you two were just "friends"
Nicolatofu
umm yeah that means he's not grossed out by you! hehe laugh.gif
But did you mean obvious which means everyone knows it or oblivious which means well..it's not obvious. Because some guys don't get any hints, and for them to actually find out you have to tell them to their face. You should certainly still be his friend, even if he likes someone else, but try to talk to him about this, or at least let him know how you feel. Hope that helps!
lylbabyblooz
if you really like him, then yeah, go for it happy.gif
angelic_grl
Go 4 it girl! U can do it! It seems lyke he lykes u. Yup happy.gif i mean....my crush doesn't even hold my hand longer than 2 mins!!!!
misoshiru
my advice - just go for it. what do you have to lose?
_sarcastic_
that holding hand bit was a good sign. maybe he likes you.
you should go tell him how you feel about him
kyuubi319
You should deffinitely ask him. I think he likeeeees you. *makes the kindergarten WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoOOo sound*
heh, come on, be revolutionary and tell him how you feel
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