ok one of my good frind kris.. omg.. were do i even begin.. we live in different states now sincei moved...we talk on the fone to give eachother updates on our life about once a week rite?? well mostly i call her since her lazyass just "dont wna move and pick up something that weighs 50g" and since i dont have a cell phone it costs for me to call her. almost everytime i call her, she was like "hey i can't talk, i have hw... i have ppl over... i m sleepy.." and all these excuses, i m like ok.. and well.. samething when she gets online when i wna talk to her. and ok.. her xanga, since she is new at it, i am the one who does her xanga and spent my precious hours on it, and she ends up bein so picky and everything and blame me for this and blame for that and just never appreciates anything i do for her. and she goes to other ppl's xanga and prop them and she like never comes to mine. once i told her that there is this entry in my xanga thats really interestin and it ll give her some updates on my life, and ok.. she keeps on sayin that she ll read it, and i tried to keep the entry for really long so she can read it, and gues what?? 2 month has passed and i go "so have u read it?" and she went "oopes i forgot." and now she s been doin her xanga by herself now, just copy off skin and sayin that she made it, and well now she wrote on her entry "jay were r u?? help me with my xanga, where is she when i need her??" i got so fukin pissed cuz i was like.wtf?? were am i when u need me?? were r U when i need U??? huh??? and this weekend i accidentally got someone elses cell phone home and so the first thing i did was to call her, and guess wat, she NEVER returned my call, and now since the cell phone's owner is pissed at me for makin long distance cal even tho it doesn't cost a thing, he is demandin for the monthly bill.... and whenever i do get a hold of her, so like im there talkin for about 30 min, and after a while she goes "wat did u say?? sry i was readin novels..../sry i fell asleep.." And i donno how long ive stood up to ppl for her and helped her thro everything, and i just feel so used...

seriously.. wats wrong with me? wat did i ever do to her.. the sad thing is no matter how she is neglectin me, i still like her and i really wish that we can go back to how we were before i moved.

There's nothing wrong with you, i mean you're just being a nice, good friend. who wouldn't want a friend like you? She's the one neglecting you, she isn't someone you can really call a good friend.

there's nothing wrong with you. she's just using you for her xanga. that's not a true friend..forget about her

Since you're only one party of the situation, I can't really make a desicion. =/ sorry. But I can give you advice. You need to talk to her. You need to tell her, either in an e-mail, or on the phone, or even on her xanga (which sounds like you are working really hard on it, I'm sorrie). If she don't have a problem with this at all then just ignore her. If you feel that you're pushing so much to last the friendship relationship and you're not being appreciated for it AND she's not putting in her part to keep it together, then you don't need to contact her anymore because she's not being the 'friend' that you need. If she continues to act immature, referring to what you're describing, then don't waste your time, your money, or your breath to talk to someone who will only end up making you feel bad. Personally, if I wanted this to be resolved quickly, I would write a HUGE comment on her xanga telling her why I was mad at her, what she did wrong, and if she continues behaving that way, what I would do. That way, people who read her xanga would know what kind of a person she really is, and she would be embarrassed and angry enough to contact you so the both of you can have a long and thoughtful conversation about your relationship as friends. =] I hope I helped. Payce. =D

^^ Wow, that's some good advice =]


Just stop calling her. She's not the kind of friend you deserve (if she even is one, that is).

there is NOTHING wrong with ya! That girl has some nerve! I know how it feels... or at least relate to it a little. Try emailing or talking to her, explain how you feel about the things that has happened between you guys. she'll just keep continuing to do this if she doesn't know how you feel. after you told her and she still continues then you need to look back at this friendship and see if she's really worth a good friend, because if she was. she should have stop.

There's nothing wrong with you at all from reading that.

Talk to her.

i`m in this situation too. she invited 15 grls..frm ppl who is close w/ us to random ppl on earth. EVERYONE except ME

and the rest of my best friends all went..except jensine, who stayed with me..we end up having a good tym. i`ll never forgive her. never.

even if i do, i will never have her as a best friend anymore

wow. u are a good friend. i mean. whoa..i wouldve cussed her a** out. damn. u are sweet. you dont want the friendship to end becuz yur putting up the effort and u know that it could still work out only if she'd try. and becuz u see this..u dont want it to end and yur still trying.

thats exactly wat i did, i left A LOT of comments in her xanga but ppl would just be like "whoa man calm down.."
and omg i dono how many times i ve tried it on email or on the phone, and its like i m talkin to a wall

Ouch... That's got to be tough... She doesn't deserve to be your friend. If you moved you should be able to start over and make some new friends. She can be an ignorant jackarse all she wants. She's obviously not going to put much into your friendship with her by the looks of it. If she's gonna be that way you can just get a new friend. It sounds harsh, and is. I know it's not easy losing a friend. You'll be able to find someone else.

i ve known her for pretty long and well our parents r good frinds (the whole asian connection thing).. and well ironically she is one of the few ppl that i can tell a lot of stuff to, and well i guess its not easy to find another person like that... i dono, i no that u guys r urging me to ditch her and stuff, but its really hard. i mean, i tried to ignore her but then she doesn't even no i m ignorin her (if u no wat imean).
and yeah i dont do her xanga n e more, but she got someone else to do it.

eh. i would..ignore her. she seems really...self centered

I'd get really pissed and bust a cap in her ass.
But that's me. If you do that, parental advisory is sugested


but seriously, talk to her and if things work out than YAY and if they don't well then, she can just go screw herself. She isnt worthy of having a friend like you. good luck