So it's a bit funny. I actually fell for my best friend and actually told himm about this and he told me that it can't happen right now (his dad is in iraq + they might be moving). It wasn't that i wasn't attractive or i didn't have a "AMAZING" personality because i am and i do. Also he never pictured us that way. See, i took it as him just wanting to stay friends but lately he's gotten alot closer. Like we don't really hang out just the two of us and he called me there the other night because he was leaving for Oklahoma for Thanksgiving. Usually when that happens, like we'd talk online, but i wouldn't come over or anything. Then theres the getting closer part (physically) now it's like, he's resting his head on my shoulder and just getting closer. I mean does he still want to be jjust friends or did he change his mind?!

i think he changed his mind! does he usually get that close anyways? you should ask him about that... juss to make sure, so you wont be lead on or anything.

Sounds like a complicated situation, was he just using the "moving" comment as an excuse? I think You should talk to him about, and try to be as honest with eachother as possible. It's really romantic really, falling for your best friend? good luck with it.

No, like me and him don't do the whole flirting thing. It's hard enough to talk about the opposite sex to eachother. And like lately it's him being close or him wanting to hang out just the two of us. I was actually at his house last Friday (which i am all the time) and he trapped me under the covers and when he finally let go i hit my head on the dresser....yeah i got a bruise, but thats not the point. Like he was all "I'm gonna bring you back something" and "i'm gonna call u while i'm there" but so far theres no call......i don't know.

Wow. You seem pretty confident there, although I do not find you very attractive. Well, high self-esteem is always good.
Well, talk to him about it. You don't want him leading you on and eventually finding out at the end he had no feelings for you, do you? You'd be even more devastated; however, on the other hand, his feelings might've changed. Maybe he does have something for you.
That, I do not know.

I think he changed his mind!!

i think he changed his mind! does he usually get that close anyways? you should ask him about that... juss to make sure, so you wont be lead on or anything.


yup yup I agree

Oh no! He really is moving and like in the past, when he moved, and he was still with the girl, it ended really bad....

whoa kimosabi. i'm just quoting what he said. Thanks for shooting me down

I think you should puruse it anyway, it sounds like it may work, and plus you do look pretty.

thanks. Looks like me and him are gonna talk when he gets back

aww thas so sweet
I hope things work out between you guys

I fell for my best friend once.. lasted for 3 years So anything can happen

So i got to talking to him today (he was online for a short time) and i was showing him pics of my new dress (senior ball dress) i had gotten in the mail. Anywho some new comments that would never come out of his mouth "It looks really good on you" and so forth. Makes me think..

Hang in there.
It may work.
But I wouldn't want to mess with best friend relationships.. it could get ugly when/if you break up.

yeah, it sounds like he changed his mind- that was the same way with me and my friend, but the opposite. he liked me at first, and i didn't. but after a while, i changed my mind- so definitely go for it.

Yeah thats the one thing i'm scared of but we got throught the akwardness of me liking him and that went by smoothly.

I think he didnt lik get "closer" b4 was tat he doesant noe if u would mind, but now he noe tat u lik him so he do tat now, and he say no is probably because well he was gonna move, and dun wanna have a short relationship, second is maybe he was playing hard to get? I think.

it could be becuz its a touching situation where he needs someone who hecan talk to and will lend him a shoulder...hmm ask the source...and you shall have yur answer. be it a good one or a bad one.