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ichiban
Ahh .. right now I don't really have a best friend ..

Hopefully you do!

So tell us what they're like!
CEP
Nope, not me.
I never really got into the " You're my bestfriend, so I'll tell you all my secrets and then later on, when we get into a huge fight, you'll tell everyone. " thingy..
I like to keep things for myself.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
aj637
my very first best friend was veronica and i met her when i was in 3rd grade. we did everything together! she was the most unique chick i ever meant and i loved that girl as my own sister but when we went to middle school. i betrayed/lost our friendship over some drama that happened between us and a couple of friends. i guess we couldnt stuck it through thin or thick....i still miss her...now that we're in high school i see her around with other friends i know but its kinda weird because even though we're not the worst of enemies we just dont talk to each other. i guess our lives pretty much changed over the years that if we do talked it would already be too late...

now i pretty much just have good friends thats always there when the worst comes to shove...i like it that way because putting too much faith and trust to one person holds alot of responsibity and you may know what will ever happen in the future. plus i am more aware of who i tell my "secrets" too since i like to keep private my personal life from friends....
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
my best friend is my sister .. she's always been there for me from day 1 .. no matter how many friends i've ever lost along the way as i grew up .. she stayed by my side .. i can trust her with my life and she gives me unconditional love .. one that can't be matched by anyone else in the world .. i wouldn't be me if she weren't who she was .. and i wouldn't have gotten this far if it weren't for a lot of her help and support ..

christie .. thank you so much for always having my back no matter what .. right or wrong you still stayed by my side .. i love you more than anything .. you are my faith and soul .. without you i wouldn't be me :D .. you're the best sister ever .. i'm so thankful that i've got you!!
melface
hah... best friends... pshhh i had two best friends... and they both moved one moved 8 hours away the other moved on the other side of the country... they're both super great... but they moved cry.gif and then i had this one 'best friend' vanessa, and she sucked at it.... and yeah... then she stopped talking to me after the second day of school and then she has a stupid boyfriend and she just forgot about me.... she isn't a very good friend and now i don't even consider her my friend... she's just a girl i see at school... oh and then i have a friend, michael... he's a homosexual and we're sort of close but he's really shallow and makes me feel like sh*t.... cry.gif best friends don't come so easily for me....
Fe_LL
I've known my best friend forever. We see each other sometimes up to 3 times a week. (we both are homeschooled) We do multiple sleep overs, spend tons of time talking to each other on the phone or IM. I got her addicted to xanga. :D We've never had many arguments or grudges against each other. We both have totally opposite personalities. She's an outgoing person while I'm more of an invert. Some people are surprised how I can be her best friend when she's annoying. I just love her for that though.
xquizit
my best friend is most def my boyfriend. we've been friends for 3 years, and been dating for 2. he's great, i can tell him anything and i can be myself around him.
CloudUnionX
Ya, I dont have a best friend. I dont have trust in too many people anymore, ive been betrayed waaay too many times. But I still have friends that I consider better friends than others. Did that make sense? laugh.gif
krnxswat
yeah, i have a couple.
tkproduce
I read that according to a survey, most people only meet who they call their "best friend" about once a month... strange huh?

I don't think I have someone who I can really call "my best friend" as I have friends over here in England as well as in Japan. I've probably known my friends in Japan for longer, but now I can only meet them about once in 2 months.

It's good to have many friends, but it's also nice if you can have a few who you can trust as much as members of your own family.
Madelein
my best friend is my boyfriend >> Laurence<< :)

if i'm not by myself, i'm with my best friend/boyfriend. we go to different schools and different schedules.

he has schools on tuesdays and thursdats, and mine's on MWF.
so he picks me up when i'm done with my classes at my school, and i pick him up when he's done with his classes.

he's the only person i hang out or chill with now, and rarely with any of my other friends.

i tell him anything and everything. i can confide in him and he supports me and doesn't make fun of me, but still tells me the truth and gives me his opinions. and vice versa.

when i need help, he's just a phone call away. and he's always there for me. and vice versa.

my problems are his problems.........and his problems are my problems. and i love to help him and be there for him, cuz he's always been there for me. his pain my pain and my pain is his pain.

he stands up for me and talks for me when i can't.

he cusses out people who are disrespectful to me. hehehehehe


we hate the same things and like the same things, but we don't really have the much in common....... that's y he's so interesting to talk to or be with. he's very unique, and there's so much that separates him from any other people out there.

he sacrifices many things for my sake and i'd be happy to do the same for him.

i'm so glad i have him as my best friend.


but u know what,..... my sister's are also my best friends... but they're my sisters..... so that's something else. we've fought like hell, but that doesn't change the fact that we are sisters. even though we get mad at each other, or pisses each other off, we will always be there for each other.

=)
LuShuZxLaNa
QUOTE(ichiban @ Mar 13 2004, 12:35 AM)
Ahh .. right now I don't really have a best friend ..

Hopefully you do!

So tell us what they're like!

i dont have one =(
silver-rain
nope, i've never had a best friend- theres no one i can really trust or talk to about anything. I can get friends easily, but i lose them easily as well. i guess my mom or my sister is the closest i have to a best friend, but thats not too close anyway.
LoST SouL
hes perfect... always there 4 me... shoulder to cry on... i kan tell him nethin.... he makes me feel so much betta... i love bein round him.... he makes me feel in a way tat ive neva relly felt b4... he makes me simle sumtimes.... great to tlk 2.. always has good advice... always willin to listen... hes kind... karing.. sweet.. nice.. funnie...always lookin out 4 me... stoped me from doin a lotta stupid sht... will stand up 4 me wen he has to n wen he kan... respects me hes like my human diary... he understands me... idk wat id do witout him....
Madelein
sounds like he's your bf or could become your bf
LoST SouL
ive considered tat 2 but i relly like him as a friend
xjjajeengx
my best frends are Julia and Kellyn <3<3
we've been hanging around for like... 3 years now? and its awesome to be with them. ALso, i have two other best frends name Cathy and Lizzi, but i ono, we're all 5 of us= hyper team _smile.gif but i mean, i knew kellyn and Julia longer so i consider them "closer" if there is such thing. ahhaha ^^
iloveyou07
ive got a couple best friends and they are the best!!
ichiban
I got some best friends now biggrin.gif

I got Angel, Chris, Jessica, Candace, and Leslie

You guyz r0ck
Just_Dream
My best friend is my bf. Cause I tell him almost everything. But I still keep those secrets that people tell me not to tell. I don't want to be a blabbermouth, even if it's to one person. My bf's often good to talk to, but then again, he's a guy and is like whatever cause he's too much of a laidback bum. O_o" hahas

I used to have best friends, but it got really hard to hang out with them becuase iether way, they'll get tired of and stuff. I can't handle that anymore.

My bf's my BF, BFF, and my future Hubby happy.gif
ichiban
Aww how sweet Just_Dream! I WISH I had a boyfriend .. cry.gif ..
AznDoll
My best friend.. i met her in 1st grade, she was in kindergarten, she skipped 3rd grade so we could be in the same classes & such.. awwwww :-) heh.. plus, she's also azn, so my parents totally get along w/ her parents... which calls for millions of azn get-together parties! haha lol.. so i get to be w/ her a whole tons!!! :-D we have NEVER gotten into a fight.. & i'm serious.. we might 'bicker' about stuff.. but we've never started yelling @ each other... & it's always solved by the end of the day when we go home :-)
likethestardust
my best friend was my boyfriend.... we dated all of last year and now we're just friends.... but hes the only one who knows all my deepest secrets and i know his... i love him to death! (and i still do like him if you were wondering)
conster
i have a best girlfriend her names nancy happy.gif my best (guy) friend is david.. lol we had a really really close relationship.. just like brother/sister.. he was like a few months younger tahn me but i call him ah gor cuz he takes care of me and looks after me... lol soon we liked each other but never got together mellow.gif cuz i cherish the friendship wayyyy moree wink.gif
xjjajeengx
i've realized that if you ahve a really close bf, you cant have best frends w/o them feeling ditched or so. you can have bestest frends if ur not that close with ur bf. i hate this unbalance. im so sick and tired of it... i think thass why i cant sleep and i get all these headaches all the time. sad.gif i ahte being in the center of all this bullsh!t.

i dont get how other people can do it... sad.gif u people so lucky...
jooleeah
You guys are so lucky. I don't really have a best friend, but i do have a couple of good friends. the one closest to me is kristin. i <3 you =]
it's hard to find a best friend. there are so many people who betray you....it's sad. but i thikn i'm just fine without a best friend. feels good to know that i have several good friends then just one best friend. i dunno, that's just me.
whomps
i dont have a bestfriend.. i have lots of em =) the two most important to me is the one that listens and understands and the one where i can tell em ANYTHING =) ohhh.. and usually if you have a best friend from the opposite gender.. you usually find yourself falling for them or they fall for you.. that's what i'm in right now =\ *sigh*

but overall, best friends are forreeeeeever !
Ju_CHaN
woah, I had realized not so long ago, that I don't really have a best friend anymore. But my most recent best friends were Jessica, Brittany, and Christina. Brittany now goes to a different school, so I would just consider us good friends now. Jessica cares too much about school, and grades and stuff to have a BEST friend, and Christina and I are just kinda drifting apart... Dang, look what growing up can do to people! Oh well...they're still my good friends, which is good enough for me.
dani41790
well i gotz a bunch of bestfrenz but mai bestest fren ish kira. shes been mai best fren for a litto ova two years now, shes always been there for meeh wen i needed her n vice versa.
instantmusic
I AM ALL ABOUT BEST FRIENDS. No best friends, no life. I have 2.

Keith and Humberto. Then men I'm proud to say that I love.

We've schooled together since elementary school. We are the trinity. The tripod (The Girl Next Door). THE TRIFORCE. Keith is Pimp Daddy Smurf, Humberto is Ghetto Beto, and I am Dr. Pepper. Together we are invincible. Its always been us. No matter what. We don't get into these cheap arguments over stupid stuff. Theres nothing that can break us! Just NOTHING!!

Our best year was the 6th grade. It was Keith and I vs Mrs. Lambert. DUN DUN DUN. Oh man, till today I think she still has nightmares about us. We ruled her class. Humberto ruled LUNCH. We feared him. He would always grab ketchup packets and threaten everyone hed explode them on everyone. He was the ultimate ketcup al qaida lunch room terrorist.

Keith is the Pimp of the group. That use to be me. Its like, the era has changed.
Humberto is the big LAZY bamma of the group. Playing Final Fantasy every day!
I went from pimp to Wise man of the group. I keep the group clean. We don't smoke, drink. whatever it is, our records are clean. I'd say I'm the parent. yet theyre the ones making money, so they provide the bread, lol.

Dude, I can't, just cant, describe enough our trinity. we are... the SHIZNIT. shiznito. shizniTAO. shizniTAO of the dragon. CAPTAIN SHIZNIT. WERE THE FRIGGEN SHIZNIT.

Yeah so all of us join the military. theyre going to army, I'm going to marines. Oh, psh, we're not loosing touch, hell no. NO. im have a captain planet watch that lets me communicate with them whenever i want.
phatty
i have many best friends and i love each and every one of them
Kathleen
My best friend...I knew her since sixth grade, but didn't become close to her until eighth grade, which was last year. Wow...we go everywhere together. Sometimes people would get mad at us for sticking together too much, though. We've learn to avoid those people. We've been asked if we were sisters so many times! Hehe. By the way, She's Sarah, aka IBathedInAcid. wink.gif
DesperateXMeasures
I don't have a "best friend" perse.
I am really really close to Mercedes.
I am really close with Anthony.
I am close with Charley.

That's it basically.
bluecrystals
no, i don't have any best friends. i have some good friends though.
mznina
QUOTE(i_am_shoe @ Mar 28 2004, 3:22 PM)
You guys are so lucky. I don't really have a best friend, but i do have a couple of good friends. the one closest to me is kristin. i <3 you =]
it's hard to find a best friend. there are so many people who betray you....it's sad. but i thikn i'm just fine without a best friend. feels good to know that i have several good friends then just one best friend. i dunno, that's just me.

that is why its hard for me to have a best friend, i used to back in middle school..but they just cause drama, i need one that doesnt start trouble/drama. and i def need one i could trust its hard to trust people nowadays...
xquizit
QUOTE(mznina @ Apr 19 2004, 8:19 PM)
that is why its hard for me to have a best friend, i used to back in middle school..but they just cause drama, i need one that doesnt start trouble/drama. and i def need one i could trust its hard to trust people nowadays...

yeah, i feel you girl. up there i said my man was my best friend but i'm taking it back cuz i can't talk to him like i used to. cry.gif

but yes, i can't trust anyone except for my immediate family members. now ain't that a damn shame.
DesperateXMeasures
QUOTE(mznina @ Apr 19 2004, 6:19 PM)
that is why its hard for me to have a best friend, i used to back in middle school..but they just cause drama, i need one that doesnt start trouble/drama. and i def need one i could trust its hard to trust people nowadays...

Middle school sucks. Waaay too much drama with the girls.
That's why I only have one friend that's a girl. All the rest are guys. xD
Winter
I wouldn't say best friends... But I got a couple of close friends.

My friend Kar Mern is the best. She's sarcastic, anti-love, anti-guys and loves violence. :D

My friend Adeline is a lesbo and she's so fun to be with. It's nice acting like lesbos in front of guys. :D

My recently ex-BF used to be a really good friend. He still is...
frozenstar
I have three best friends, but dey're basically tha only "real" friends i have but yeah tha rest r just ppl who i hv loadsa fun wid but i cant really tell dem my deepest darkest secrets
177emories
i have two best friends... though many friends are close too i guess these two are just closer...
ones a girl named lily, we'd been friends for +5 years...
and the other is a guy named Peter, haven't known him as lONG as lily of course, but we hit it off like from when we first met...

us 3 are like best friends we are able to talk about everything...

tho he always tell us two that we have too high of an expectation for a bf and we just didn't listen, and we actaully found our soulmates who are up to our super high standards and more lol, so we had to rub it in his face its funny cause we can joke about anything and everything.
mznina
QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 19 2004, 8:59 PM)
yeah, i feel you girl. up there i said my man was my best friend but i'm taking it back cuz i can't talk to him like i used to. cry.gif

but yes, i can't trust anyone except for my immediate family members. now ain't that a damn shame.

but i cant even trust family members..and u know why..
tinababy143
hMmM..well theres a person who i have known literally my entire life..and we always hung out with each other when we were younger..and we're always going to be best friends..although we dont talk as much now..and i consider my boyyfriend my best friend..and two other ppl who live in sd i consider my best friends because i know i can always turn to them no matter what and they are the onliee ones who kept in contact with me after they move..they pretty much know everything about me too hehe
sweetlyz
i had two .. but i haven`t meen in contact with one since she moved to WA and the other .. i don`t even know her anymore. she`s a liar and a slutty b***h .. i found out tOo much about her. am i allowed to say that? "s****y"?? sorry if i`m not allowed
Nikki_latina
Well my so called "best friends"...I hate them. They think they can tell me what to do, no one has that power over me. I thought everythin was gonna be so much better goin 2 a new skool, u know, make a brand new start. But now it's like, I wish I never met them or bcame so close 2 them the way I did. I hate them. They're not who I thought they were, that's y I changed my mind about them. So no, I don't really have a best friend or a true friend, bcuz all of my so called "best friends" just don't mind their own business or keep their mouth shut, so I can never really tell them anythin.
LiNHy POO
i have 3 great best friends in thw world!!!

lillee- i only known her for about 5 or 6 months... but when we started talking.. it was great.. we had alot in common and soon we started to hang out more... and we've been soooo close since! she's likes my sister! i lover her!

quynh- i have know her the longest!! 6-7 years! we went to kindergarden together! she's the kind of friend that i can be silly with... but we can talk like crazy! as we got older... we didnt get to see each other alot.. but we still keep in touch by phone... and once in a blue moon maybe we get to hang out... she is always there for me... and is a great listener! she's my gurl! i <3 her!!!

lanetta- we'ver been friends for about 4 years... we're pretty much juss like each other.. the thing i love about her the most is that she's a great advice giver.. i have alot of problems... and she can tell im stressed out about that... she's there when i need her.. i <3 her soo much!
Luster Soldier
I don't have a best friend...I have a lot of close friends that I hang out with.

- Enoch (Go to most places togther, really cool.)
- Ray (Computer Genius! My Pc broke the other day and he spent 4 hours, opening it up and fixing, trying all the stuff out. He has a heart of gold)
- Jeffrey (Comical Genius! The funniest guy I've ever meet)
- Joseph (A serious guy that gets pissed off easily...that's why he's so fun to be around :P)
- Winnie (A really nice person, I talk to her about my problems)
- Melody (She's so cute and awesome)
barbie
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southern4life
i have two really good friends.. by that i mean people i can actually trust. Rachel & Jonathan. me n rach met about a year 1/2 ago.. she rode my bus n we jus started talkin one day.. then about 2 weeks later i was at her house everyday n we've grown so close its almost insane. lately we've been thinkin & sayin the same things at the same time.. its kinna funny. & Jonathan.. we've known each other for.. goin on 3 years. we dated on n off for 2 years.. n just recently ((in March)) broke up for good. i talk to him about EVERYTHING. some people r just soulmates i guess =]
& i had one really good friend.. Morgan. he's like a big brother to me.. i met him earlier this past school year & we grew really close.. but a couple months ago he moved to Kansas.. we're tryin to work somethin out though.. n we still talk. last time i saw him is when he spent the night over here the weekend before he moved..
islandkiss
I have many. but my true best friend has to be judith. no offense..

she's always there for me and we've known each other since 4th grade.
punchbuggy
i have a bestfriend :P we're so different yet we click together in so many ways. shes the one i rely on when i have problems, somebody i can turn to.. one of the only people in this world i can trust.

alot of my bestfriends moved away, sadly she did too but we still keep in touch and still remaining bestfriends <3
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