I've been going out with this guy for 9 months now..every thing is rillie great.. i mean we're not the perfect couple but everything's just right..but i still cant settle down..his only my 3rd boyfriend n the first one that im really serious with.. i could really tell that he loves me and i just dont want to hurt him. I really do love him but i dont think as much as he loves me.. im starting to miss being single and i want to be SINGLE. i just dont know how to tell him nicely and how to tell him in a way that he'll understand me. his pretty tough and im scared that he'll have anger against me. . help..

wait.. you have.. 3 boyfriends?


is it just me or is your wording a bit unclear..

noo ^^^^^ she meant like... this is her 3rd boyfriend.. as in she has 2 X's.

n wel.. im in a sit. sorta simular to urs...my bf .. my frist bf ever... i dont reli like him.. it just "heppened"..but he still likes me alot... ALOT....n well.. hes soo nice to me.. wayy too nice to me.. i felt like i got myself a dog instead of a bf...

anyways... i just told him the truth.. how i missed being single..n even though i could tell he didn't want to at all.. we agreed to take a "break"...as we call it.. but to tell you the truth.. i dont want to go back.. so yea..

sorry if im not much of a help... but i think u should jus tell him... he shud be a man n have the balls to take it.

Just tell him gently that you can't be in a serious relationship now. That you want some time to have fun. Don't use that 'we can still be friends' line, it pisses guys off.

uh wait if u love him, he loves you, WHY ARE YOU WASTING IT AWAY. 9 effing months. are you rETARDED u wont find another guy like THIS.

..seriously though. dont do it. being single isnt that great