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jnukes
you start liking someone. then after a few weeks, you just figure out that one of your good friends likes him/her too. but longer, like.. 2 months.

would you..

A] ask them out anyways

B] not like them anymore and let your friend take him/her

C] talk things out with your friend

D] just ignore and move on...


also, your friend and your crush doesn't know that you like your crush


what would you do... =|


[[i'm aware that's in th134513987's guide to relationships , but i'm just seeing other people's actions..]]
ShadowPixie
I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there.
ichiban
Tell your crush. If he likes you too, get with him and don't tell your friend. (:
tweeak
you cant make me
tooeffingcrazy
well. it depends on how much i like her. if it was js a crush. i'll move on, but i would still talk to my best friend about it. but it would most likly be a crush, cause its only a few weeks. so i would move on
lilxroxy
QUOTE(ShadowPixie @ Nov 19 2004, 12:36 AM)
I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there.

^ agreed
sheddingtears
C] talk things out with your friend

^ unless this friend was my best friend, i'd talk to my crush first. because if it was my best friend, i don't wanna lose our friendship over some guy.
lonelydevil426
QUOTE(ShadowPixie @ Nov 19 2004, 12:36 AM)
I would let them know. Tell your crush first, becasue if you tell your friend, it'll follow that pattern of your friend telling thier feelings first, and you losing your crush. Tell your crush first how you feel, and take it from there.

yeah, i agree w/ that person too...
tImOnE
iif yOoh relly like that grl then talk to her first...
xPartyGrlDx
A] ask them out anyways
its your good friend, he should understand, but if things don't work out, you should talk to him.
misoshiru
i'd talk things out w/ my friends only if i'm really close to them. if not, i'd probably tell the guy first. but then, i'd rather lose a guy than a true friend.
Knight
A or C. I can't decide which one.
inthemudhole
C.
I'd do C.
kiSHBall
i've seen this question before
and it happened to me too
i did C (talk with friend first)
it worked out fine happy.gif
Weird addiction
ill just ignore him and let my friend have him
xheavenzcentzx
I would talk to your friend first, especially if they happen to be your best friend because a friendship means more to me ermm.gif
mirage
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I would talk to your friend first, especially if they happen to be your best friend because a friendship means more to me 


yeah, same here.... a friendship usually lasts longer than a relationship.
Shattered_Hope
if the situation is better as friend then leave it that way..rather than losing the friendship.
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