im just wonderin... if anyone knows the difference.... cause one time i had a crush on a guy and then i found out he's gay.

just ask him he he thinks the guy across the class room is cute... it always works for me

i really like it when i ask a guy that and he goes "oh so those are the kind of guys you like"

cuase then you get thinking oh wow so has he been wondering about thwat guys i like


oh and if it is any conselation, im in love with my best friend who happens to be gay, im dead serious too

oh. that must hurt. i wish you good luck on that.

i don't really know how to explain but i sometimes you can get hints on the way he acts towards people and stuff.

haha...watch out! some guys are clever...lol some guys at my brother's highschool [my future one ] act gay just to hang out with all the girls lol xD

guys who are gay have like a certain way of walking and talking. yeah my friend kinda taught me how to tell if a guy is gay.

oh there was this guy at an rotc competition we had, and i thought he was hot. but like some of my friends think he gay. i think hes hot. yup. i miss him

yikes. well....i guess u could just monitor the way he is when he's around other guys...*shrugs*

Not necessarily true. Some guys can just be metro, and that's the reason to why they talk/walk like that.

i don't think you can really tell unless well, you ask them and they tell you the truth... sometimes, guys who are gay don't even know that are gay

I don't know if anyone's noticed but gay people (especially the lesbians) have this weird look in their eyes. The easiest way to tell is their voice, and sometimes style. but sometimes they just act like a normal guy, and there's no distinct thing he does that gives you a clue he's gay.

Exactly. Just like the Karamo on Real World: Philadelphia. I had no idea he was gay until I saw that one episode where he was on the phone with someone and said that he was gay. I was shocked because he really didn't look or act gay.

watch that movie legally blonde and youll know

erm gay?
hmm..
well define the meaning gay..
and u'll get ur answer.

you can't always tell from their actions and how they speak if they're gay or straight. some are very quiet about it and never tell anybody or let them know. they're just like the average person and you'd never even think they were gay. so there's no way to tell.

Gay guys are hot.

well... u can always ask him... most gay guys are really opened

my brother told me, that anybody who wears rainbow on their shirts or whatever, they're showing everybody they're gay. another way, when guys wear just right ear earring, they also showing they're gay.

i would just ask haha~

i once thought a guy at this place i was volunteering was hot and then i was wondering if he has a gf or not. and then i saw his necklace so im like:
me: that's a nice necklace, your gf bought it for you?
him: no my boyfriend did
me: your gay?
him: yea
me: koo!

lol~ and then after i found out he was gay he did act gay just by the way he talks about things and walks and acts

on the other hand...queer guys are really hot...i would ask him straight out....or the "Do you think he is hot?" technique....well if he says yes...hes my new best friends lol..not really but yea.... or i guess you can be a stalker and follow every move he makes....and thats one way.

Bring a hot guy/girl near him and make them flirt with him, then see if his pants starts bulging up. Then you'll know the answer.

Who caresz?! All gay guys should look like Kuramo from THA REAL WORLD *droolsz*

gawd who knows with all the metros around.... i suspect ALL of my guys friends to be gay... mostly the ones with pink highlighters

well, a gay guy has a way of walking, talking, & dressing. i remember one time, my friend liked this guy. he looked hella gay but when she asked him he said no. well, try to ask some of your guy friends or try looking on how the way he dresses, talks, & walks. i'm not saying become a stalker. puwahahah. good luck on that.

[/QUOTE][QUOTE] probally the way he talks n the way he moves n walks if differnet from the way a straight guy does the motion . . i dunno . . i have no gay frds or lesbian frds . =)

me too. i was shocked

i agree! lol. thats one way u can find out if a guy's gay or not.