as if you would date someone just so you could break up with them!!

thats silly, childish behaviour!

to make someone jealous

lots of reasons though...

Someone to understand me.

I agree with lost [child].

For someone to understand me :)

Because we're all a little complicated.

someone who will understand you..i think you have friends for that.
i dont necesarily get a bf to fufill a certain need, i dont think.
if i happen to like someone, then i would naturally want to be with them. and im not the go after type either..it just comes i guess =S
And once you get into a relationship you can enjoy the benefits:
have fun
feeling of belonging or having a bf/gf
have a serious relationship
have someone understand you
even to fufill your horny needs
but like i said, those things are benefits you enjoy by being in a relationship. and for me not necesarily using a certain reason to find one.

i think that made sense

I do it for fun.

Is it for fun? For marriage? Tell me.

Good question.
















I haven't dated yet.. so I really don't know. I only have a feeling that if I do start dating someone, my feelings for them will be lost. So, I don't know why.

To feel wanted and loved and worthy of affection and attention

hahahahahaha thats so true.

For fun. I think people are often much too worried about an eventual goal, such as marriage. It's not the goal that matters; it's the path along the way.

Yep, I agree with that. But now, in my current relationship, we hope to last a long time, and hopefully get married too.

umm...if i were to date it would because i felt something for this guy...i mean i wouldnt just date guys for fun...i would have to have an emotional attraction to him

i date because i'm looking forward to getting married. that was always my goal...date, get married, have a nice house, have a couple of kids, bake cookies, etc

to have fun, being loved and appreciated.. its a lot about confidence, really xDDD but for fun too =)

I haven't dated yet.
But I can tell you why I would want to.

To cuddle, to make out.
To feel that someone else cares about you as much as you care about them.
To feel loved.
To feel that people actually like you.
To feel attractive.
To feel protected.

I've dated a fairly decent amount... and it is fun VERY fun. It usually just starts off as fun but when you date someone you really care about it can turn into dating them for possibly marriage. And dating really is there for you to find the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with.

to feel loved, secure, wanted, have someone there no matter what, eventually get married

so true

well i can tell u exactly why i started dating my current boyfriend....

i felt bad for the guy cuz he had asked me so darn much

but 3 years later....

i'm STILL dating this guy

but for a TOTALLY different reason

I Love him....I really do!

^same here
tho i haven't dated yet...

Pretty much, but also i want to be with the person.

And when i find someone i can be serious about, mos def. marriage

tryin to see if I could marry them. I want someone in which i dated for a long time before i marry them as if from highschool to the mide 20s long.

But if you DO date for fun, you do KNOW that you will break up eventually and you'll go into depression blahblahblah??

^ Well arent you just a little ball of sunshine ? Lol Jk.

Well, if you do go into depression shouldnt we all look as it as just an experience that will make you stronger later on in your life ? Thats what i do after im done moping.

to get hurt at the end.
or during it
whichever you prefer

nah just kidding.
its gotta be something good or else why would everyone want it.
well most people

Hmmmm every relationship that my friends have been in (both male and female) they're all very serious about relationships and don't date for fun.

And as of yet they're all engaged and ready to be married and have very stable lives.

I'm the only that has yet to be engaged but only having a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and preparing for my baseball career has me tongue tied at the moment but I do agree with you based on my experience. My friends that have tried dating for just fun or going on a blind date for the hell of it have all ended in disaster.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)--------

You date to get to know someone better... so you can find just the riiight one. :o}

I haven't found mine yet, I'm still looking. [Haven't actually dated before, that might help though.]

to b like everyone else..

I date because I am looking for mr. right. I enjoy being with a guy who is nice and if it does not work out I pull myself together and look some more, right now I am not dating, taking a rest.

that's stupid.

do you guys believe that high school relationships go on to be marriages? it's hard. i haven't met anyone who has dated for 10 years.

I've never really been on an official date with a girl.

I hang out with them, and if we have chemistry we end up "going out", but that's just more hanging out more often and sex.

Dating is a waste of time at any age less than 25. Girls have no f**king clue what they want. Even the most solidly stable girl will dump you at pretty close to the 1 year mark.

Sadly I speak from experience. If you don't want to be like me, don't even think about relationships as a serious thing until you're 30.

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i date for fun

....I hope that's not your overall look on life. O_O.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)------

thank you for the compliment. since you sound like such a delightful person, you can't be blamed for anything that has to do with your break ups. it's not like it takes two to tango or anything right?

truthfully...i date to be married...what's the point of those 1 month relationships? it's useless...

So I can have an ego infiltrator

Thank you, I knew there was a topic on this but I could find it.

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I think "Want a serious realationship" and "Want someone who will understand you" is sort of the same thing

exactly my point.
i don't get it either.

Well...because...it's fun.

What's the point of anything in life? one could ask.

i want someone to understand me but no one really does. im kinds weird.

just want someone to talk to, express my feelings, hang out with, have fun

i date so how can get ready for a marriage. you'll learn through past relationships whats right and wrong what to except and what to learn from. Some relationships don't last some do for a long period of time.
Also it gets to your taste in what you like. My context in describing isnt good...mybad.

I date because I like the person that I'm dating.
And I have fun with them.

i date because i'd like that person, and he'd like me back. and i'd just be attracted to that person

If i did have dates...theyd probably only be for fun!

For a serious relationship

I date because I like to go on dates, because I'm attracted to the guy, and I know I have him to myself. I can kiss him and tell him I love him without feeling totally weird and knowing he would do the same. sigh..