LivinInTheShadows
Nov 14 2004, 12:17 PM
i'm planning on hugging my boyfriend soon, but when should i? just randomly run up to him and hug him? please help me!
SweetLilMemorys
Nov 14 2004, 12:20 PM
Just run up to him and hug him. and smile like this --->
teenprincess
Nov 14 2004, 12:24 PM
awww. that's so cute. lol. Just hug him. If he's your boyfriend he shouldn't mind, and I bet he'd like it
blowpops69
Nov 14 2004, 12:39 PM
... and how long have yal been going out...?
just hug him god damn it
grlzl0vemeeh
Nov 14 2004, 02:02 PM
give him a hug when ur saying good bye or good night he'll be surprised
pm3k
Nov 14 2004, 02:10 PM
maybe if he says something sweet, hug him... but DO NOT ask "Can i get a hug?" with puppy eyes.. and arms spread open. That is biggest mistake some girls make.. lol... so just go to him.. say u goin somewhere, bahbyes and miss you loveydovey stuff.. then hug him.. maybe a kiss in the cheek? you'd hella surprise him... good stuff =)
MeanBastard
Nov 14 2004, 02:24 PM
HAAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHHHAAHAHAHAHAAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHHHAH
AHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAAAAAHHAHAHA. Hopeless.
ghjgfkgfk
Nov 14 2004, 02:26 PM
^^woah. and people think i'm rude.
jooleeah
Nov 14 2004, 02:44 PM
QUOTE
pm3k Posted on Nov 14 2004, 3:10 PM
maybe if he says something sweet, hug him... but DO NOT ask "Can i get a hug?" with puppy eyes.. and arms spread open. That is biggest mistake some girls make.. lol... so just go to him.. say u goin somewhere, bahbyes and miss you loveydovey stuff.. then hug him.. maybe a kiss in the cheek? you'd hella surprise him... good stuff =)
haha. that's funny.
but yeah, if he just says something sweet, then just hug him. i don't see the big deal, really.
inthemudhole
Nov 14 2004, 03:16 PM
Just hug him for christ's sake.
If he's your boyfriend, then it shouldn't be a problem.
I've hugged guys that I haven't gone out with, and it's fine.
I hugged my boyfriend[ex] before he was my boyfriend.
smthngcrprategrl34
Nov 14 2004, 04:18 PM
QUOTE(SweetLilMemorys @ Nov 14 2004, 11:20 AM)
Just run up to him and hug him. and smile like this --->

yeah you should. i mean he's your boyfriend. why shouldn't you?
I.Luff.Emo.Boys.
Nov 14 2004, 04:31 PM
QUOTE(LivinInTheShadows @ Nov 14 2004, 12:17 PM)
i'm planning on hugging my boyfriend soon, but when should i? just randomly run up to him and hug him? please help me!
wow... um... is it that big of a deal? I kind of hug everyone...
LiLaZnGirL122
Nov 14 2004, 04:42 PM
^ same here hahah well wen i got a b/f i would jus like hung him like good bye and wen i go to skool.... dont go running up to him thats stupid... jus like hug him lol i duno i hug every 1
lol
mai_z
Nov 14 2004, 04:55 PM
just do it when it comes naturally.... i think that if you have to plan it, iyou're probably not ready...when it feels rite, just hug him
eli5e
Nov 14 2004, 04:59 PM
hahahha ...awwwwww ... watever goes w/ the flow ;D
Rachel
Nov 14 2004, 05:25 PM
hahha sorry that sounds really....pathetic
but how old are you???
anyways if you want a hug, just go up and be like suprise and hug him!
mizz_mithy
Nov 14 2004, 09:54 PM
when your leaving or saying goodbye just give him a hug.
silver-rain
Nov 14 2004, 10:15 PM
how old are you? just go up to him and hug him, its not that hard, especially if he's your boyfriend.
tresa1992
Nov 14 2004, 11:45 PM
Yea, when you first see him hug him, just go up to him and hug him.

Or you can do it before you leave.
s0emotionalx3
Nov 15 2004, 01:01 AM
It's just a hug.. goodness gracious. If you don't even know how to HUG your boyfriend, sorry sweetie, you're better off single
aznhunnie6o1
Nov 15 2004, 01:06 AM
lolz i hug like all my friends.. no biggie..
just like hug him when ur leaving to go to class or sumthin..
gigiopolis
Nov 15 2004, 01:09 AM
Whoa. I had no idea hugging your boyfriend was something you "plan". First kiss, maybe. Even first...you know what...but I had no idea people were out there planning HUGS.
I hug everyone. I'd hug guys that I only like as friends...so I wouldn't have any problems hugging my BOYFRIEND. Is it just me, or do you have seriously demented people-skills?
Just_Dream
Nov 15 2004, 01:09 AM
You want to surprise him! But not surprise him that you accidentally punch out his eye or something lol when you have your arms flailling after him lol. Juts make a surprise one, but smile (be happy) before, while, and afte ryou hug him. It shows that you want to hug him and that you appreciate your first hug with him.
Sorta like this

<-- see, it's surprising but it's sweet and caring.

Aww, I remember hugging my bf =)
oregoncalistew
Nov 15 2004, 02:55 AM
on the walk home, just stop him for a while, give him a big hug, and smile.
my girlfriend did that and it was wonderful.
don't do it in the middle of the day because it won't be such a memorable moment.
dani41790
Nov 15 2004, 03:25 AM
O_o its just hugging. umm just hug him wen u say goodbye
vivien
Nov 15 2004, 05:19 AM
just go ahead
u can do it anytime anywhere
SarahxJoy
Nov 15 2004, 05:46 AM
Run up behind him and kind of jump on him, while hugging.
But don't overdo it and make him crash down on the ground. 
Or you can just do it when you two are talking, even with your friends around.
It's sweet.
imadorkabledxd
Nov 15 2004, 05:50 PM
QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Nov 14 2004, 12:39 PM)
... and how long have yal been going out...?
just hug him god damn it
hahahah...yea just hug him. it doesn't matter..dont think too much =P
MusicalAngel
Nov 15 2004, 08:08 PM
lilJdawg
Dec 14 2004, 10:54 PM
when you see him, just hug him.
xSqueekyMexicanx
Dec 14 2004, 11:08 PM
just hug him .. its no big deal ... i hug guys that im not going out with all the time
xTINAA
Dec 15 2004, 01:18 AM
is this your first time hugging a guy or your boyfriend for that matter??... i hug everyone. anyways, just do it. if you plan it out, well that seems kind of lame. just do is spontaneously. if he is your boyfriend it should come naturally anyways.. i mean if when to hug him is a difficult question then i can`t imagine about when you want to kiss him.
_One_Slit_Away_
Dec 15 2004, 01:29 AM
lol is hugging a big deal
xTINAA
Dec 15 2004, 04:08 AM
QUOTE(_One_Slit_Away_ @ Dec 14 2004, 11:29 PM)
lol is hugging a big deal

if hugging is such a big deal, then what would kissing/making out/holding hands or any of those things be considered??... hugging shouldn`t be THAT big of a deal. it should be one of the "first steps" it would be weird if you were cool with making out and not with hugging you know? it kind of should come first because it`s one the simplest easiest things... i mean don`t you hug your friends both girls & guys?not that big of a deal..
kellyannie
Dec 15 2004, 06:06 AM
just do it.
StanleyThePanda
Dec 15 2004, 12:04 PM
QUOTE(M1SSxCHR1SSY @ Dec 15 2004, 4:08 AM)
it should be one of the "first steps" it would be weird if you were cool with making out and not with hugging you know?
its not a "first step" for me.....I hug everyone! and I litterally mean everyone.
me and my best friend go around asking people if they want hugs.
hugging isnt a big deal.
trailertrash
Dec 15 2004, 04:11 PM
come running up from behind and hug him from behind... then most likely he will turn around and hug you again. EVERYONE hugs EVERYONE in my school.. its the kissing part you should worry about more
xj_liana_tx
Dec 15 2004, 04:27 PM
go "hey! ___(name here)" hug
miss_asian
Dec 15 2004, 05:43 PM
surprise hugging will be nice...juss pop out of no where and juss hug him...lol
my world
Dec 15 2004, 05:46 PM
strike up a convo with him.. and then hug him when your done.. im a big huggert.. i hug guys and girls.. for the fun of it.. but i do it so often they dont take it seriously
KissMe2408
Dec 16 2004, 05:40 AM
haha. lol GO FOR IT!! HUG HIM!!! GO, RIGHT NOW! just RUN to him and hug him! and 100% chance he'll hug you back

unless you accidently hug the wrong guy, but i'm sure that dude wouldn't mind either
xTINAA
Dec 16 2004, 10:46 PM
QUOTE(StanleyThePanda @ Dec 15 2004, 10:04 AM)
its not a "first step" for me.....I hug everyone! and I litterally mean everyone.
me and my best friend go around asking people if they want hugs.
hugging isnt a big deal.
yeah that`s what i mean. i mean it should have already happened..if not with him, then with someone else.
kutiepiebabi
Dec 16 2004, 11:27 PM
well.. my advice.. just hug ur boyfriend as if u were hugging one of ur frds. naturally. like its no big deal. i was like u before. scared to hug the guy i liked. but i ended up huggin him one time.. even when i didnt even plan to. and luckily he hugged me back

and that wasnt the last time either. just hug him like he was one of ur friends. and also.. dont run up to him.. because some guys find that intimidating. trust me. i have a friend who runs up when she comes and hugs me. and i find it kinda weird. so yea. good luck! ^^
beachbabii259
Jan 22 2005, 11:00 AM
[FONT=Arial[SIZE=1]well..just hug the guy..its not that big of a deal..
gnawxela
Jan 22 2005, 02:17 PM
just hug him...hahaha i remember my first hug w/ my bf...lol, loved it =D
LiLrEbL365
Jan 22 2005, 03:21 PM
Wow, when I had my last boyfriend, he was like all over me. Well when like you show up at school or whatever, just see him and run up to him and hug him! Hugging will be the least of your problems.
tallaznkate
Jan 22 2005, 07:09 PM
WHENEVER.
ryter89
Jan 22 2005, 07:33 PM
man im sorry people are so rude saying oh man hugging ur sad for trying to plan it. different actions mean different things to people. i think hugging is a big deal especially because it is usually the first intimate thing you do w/ your boyfriend. i think that if you wait till goodbye or if he says or does something sweet that it is a perfect time. because if you think its weird (like he didnt want a hug) then your saying goodbye anyway it wont be awkward. if you two are going out, he is probably wanting a hug so it should be fine. im sure it will go well. and maybe hell hug you first!! good luck
JlIaTMK
Jan 22 2005, 07:36 PM
When the time is right of course. Don't just spontaneosly do it. That would most likely shock him. Just do it, when your in a one-to-one conversation. Just sitting there by yourselves.
FLIPxADDICTION
Jan 22 2005, 07:38 PM
you haven't hugged your boyfriend before?
well just put your arms out and move towards him. it's not that hard.. i hug random people all the time.
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