I was just wondering which option us men would like. Would rather come up and open to to a girl? Or would you rather the girl be the first to make the move?

well, as a girl, i find myself completely incapable of making my first move,so i hope all of you guys dont expect us to...

I agree, but i think some guys would rather have the girl make the first move

If the guy is the quiet type, then shouldn't the girls be the first?

i totally agree.. as a girl id much rather the guy make the first move

I'm old fashioned. I think guys should make the first move, but most of the time I end up doing it.

its whoever does it firs... this aint the 17th century....

She`s right. And no guy has responded to this thread. Hehe

i like it if girls do it first.. =|

Dang dude.. It's no wonder are so hard to please. Just tell us guys what you want. Don't beat around the bush. We're not smart enough to understand girls' subtleties.

Too shy. Think awkward. Mite go too fast. Make feel like "Uh-oh, idk what i do"
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Ehh.. That's reasonable. I'm guessin most guys feel that way too. I do.

Most girls feel that way.

I guess we both see the same things. Lets hook up and make beautiful babies. Pass on our smart genes.

Today's lesson: Stop letting your feelings punk you. You'll find out it's nothing but a P**sy cat.

i usually make the fist move..but yea id appreciate it if a guy made the first move on me for once! haha

In my case, since I am super shy that girl should open up first, but I don't know about anyone else...

i would like the boy to first :P

i think that the boy should make the first move... a girl making the first move seems a little desperate.

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Well being a girl, obviously the guy should make the first move. But if I'm pretty sure the guy likes me back and isn't giving a whole bunch of mixed signals then I would make the first move, that's just me.

well I prefer it if the guy does it first but I usually end up telling the dude I like first since neither one of us makes a move first! xD 21st century ppl! LOL

it's alot cuter when they both know they like eachother bit by bit. then i don't care who makes the first move.

Does it really matter who makes the first move...as long as the person makes it!