ok, well this is wat happend. i was like chillin with my frinds and stuff and at one point of the convo, we started to talk about guys (i dont mean to exclude all the guys here) and everything, and like i was like "well i ve never had a bf so i wouldn't no.." and then ther s a period of silence, and they were like shocked like i shrunk into the size of n ant or something, and they kept askin me questions, and i was like no i haven't kissed a guy, and stuff. and they were just.. shocked.

i mean, yeah i m a complete virgin, so wat?? wtf s wrong about it, i mean i m not perfect and i dont wna be a slut and go out n make out with everyone i no (i dont wna get mono).. its like they just regarded me differently after that.

i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am?

yeah, if you think youre discluding the guys it should go in girls locker

but yeah, i am too but most of my friends are too (or were until this year) so its not that bad yet.

uh...the chances of gettin mono is actualy very small i think. im not sure.

ur not weird. but. i dont know anyboyd whos never made out/kiss or wahtever. maybe u shuld have kepy ur mouth shut about the whoole 'no boyfreind thing'

theres nothing wrong for never doing any of those =] your friends shouldnt react this way, i mean like if they're really your true friends, they would know you well enough and wouldnt mind about who you are. if you dont wanna go outs yet or make out or anything yet, then dont. its your choice, no theirs. whatever they believe in shouldnt affect you at all. you're not a loser and you're not weird.

don't listen to em. If you don't want to you don't have to. And if you want to stay a virgin til your married thats fine too. (I know I do!) The guy for you will come along someday. Just hold in there. And yeah, people will make fun of you, but pay no attention to them. Kinda like Jessica Simpson. But theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you find one that does tell you why its wrong, let me know. Cause I'd like to know too.

the chances of getting mono arent that slim. my friend go mono from her fist boyfriend last year. she tried to cover it up and say that she had a fever, but even her older brother admitted the truth

you could get..sexual diseases through kissing.....

there's nothing wrong with it =) everyone's different and hopefully your friends will respect that. you should do what you want and not what everyone else thinks you should do.

Tell them, "At least, I won't end up being pregnant with a man who'll leave me and end up not going to college and living in some beat up trailer because my moma disowned me and won't let me back in the house."

theres nothing wrong with it...youll find yur guy someday, why rush?

There's nothing wrong with it. I'm a complete virgin and some wish they were too. It's not bad... keep doing what you're doing... cause its right

there's nothing wrong with that at all. go you for not being a total slut.

i think kids these gae are going wayyyy to fast. this girl is 13 and we were talking she goes "i'm not a vrigin. i lost it to fred" (i forgot the guy's name). i was like whoa there. then all these girls are sittin on the boys lap and talkin about making out. we're only in middle skool. i agree with you. there's nothing wrong with it.

geez they should understand that its your own descision to do what you want. what kinda friends do that to you!

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yah. i wouldnt wanna be pregnant at my age.

Even though, I'm not a virgin, I can say I'm perfectly happy with who i lost it to and when I did it(a Childhood best/f). It's great you can hold your head up high and admit that you've never done anything. My scardy ass would of been lying. Well, back then anyways,not now. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Do what you feel is right, and I'm sure ten years from now they'll be going 'Oh..i wish I waited..ect ect.' It's cool to have that kind of restraint it just shows how much smarter you are than people who make out with everyone other guy.

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Evrae

ehh society makes you think that you should have a boyfriend and etc...but you know what, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it

Nothing wrong with it. That's me, sort of... It's a good thing though. My dad would kill me if he found out I even gave my friend a peck.

Nothings wrong with being a virgin.
Maybe they`re just surprised that since you`re pretty, and a cheerleader, they figured that you shud have had a boyfriend and done stuff*shrugs*.

But there is a lot of stuff wrong with being female.

don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you.

Nothing.

thanx guys, these r really good advice and support. ok just to accentuate the point here, wat i mean by a complete virgin is not mainly about how i abstinent, but its sort of about how i um... (lowers head) never made out and never had a bf?? (runs away), but go on, sry to interrupt.

i anno. i thinks its kinda odd, but all my friends had there first b/f at the age of like, 10! i know...sad, but true (me included. ..actauly earlier, much, if you cont in prek hoe we would ger married, HAHA, good times good times... ) but thats just me. i think its cool you dont care about that stuff, your prolly really good in school unlike a bunch of my friend who dont focous on that at all any more... ... but i wouldnet be that PROUD of it... i mean like, dont be all, i have never had a bf and you have so , HA im better than you. and, i dont think you would .. just sayin.

and from the picks ive seen of you you seem pretty and nice, i dont see why you havent been asked out yet...or have you...

no... that doesnt make u a loser at all

*cough*media*cough*

nothing. im a virgin as well. half the people i know are& the other half arent. i think if your not a virgin at this age well it could have been a mistake most likely or youll feel as if he wasnt the right guy. depends. but always a reason. im a virgin because i want to have it with someone i may marry. or love trully.

i dont think theres nothing wrong with it...

haaha girlyyy
therez nothing wrong with you
i wish i could be as pure as you [not sayin im a slut pft]
itz really awesome that you are protecting yourself. you respect yourself... thatz really important.
dont worry about it. you are not a loser. no way =]]
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I don't think there's anytyhing wrong with that either. But I don't tell my guy friends that I've never had a BF (I'm a complete virgin too) except for one of my really close friends and he wasn't shocked or anything. I just know alot of people that would get shocked so i keep it to myself. xD.

its not bad but its wierd u know neva kissed a guy??...but its not bad

if you want a b'f then get one. if you want to kiss somone then do it. but don't feel bad that you havn't. in some cases you should even feel proud. look at people fighting with their significant other and go "ha! i never had to deal with that"

i never had a bf,too. there is nothing worng with being a virgin..that saves trouble of being pregnet

yes, you're a loser, go have sex with your brother, now!

it's like whatever, i don't see the big deal with being one or not being one

well i ve been asked out, i ve just never said "yes", cuz well, i dont like them and i dont see the reason y i should just go out with them and go "o look i have a bf." or just purely use them.

^yeah, that makes sence...=]

making out with boys or having a b/f isnt the greatest thing in the world. trust me, i know, ive been through it, and i regret it so much.

Well...in that case I think there's something terribly wrong about your friends. Because most of the people I know are complete, UTTER virgins who haven't gone out with a guy or received a peck on the cheek either.

your friends are real jerks... -___-"

theres nothing rong with being a complete virgin.. u just havent found the rite dood to be yours.. i havent kissed anybody befor either! -high five-

x3, cindy

Power to that.

Don't let them get to you. Kids these days are just rushing through life. Being shocked at you not being a slut is quite immature.

Power to you!

There is nothing wrong with it. I didn't have a bf until 2 years ago when most of my friends did like 4-5 years ago and were kissing/making out by the time I finally got a bf. And now I have done stuff but that only started about 2 months ago.

Most of the time people are jsut shocked because a lot of people are doing stuff young now.

I respect you.
Seriously, I do.
<--Virgin.

Are you taking kissing/cuddling/holding hands/having a boyfriend as part of the virginity?

Then I guess I'm not a "complete" virgin if you take that into consideration.. but I haven't really even gotten to first base.. just a peck or two.
Anyway, I'm rambling.

ive had a few bfs... never made out or anything like that thou... so dont worry about wut other people think cuz u should talk ur own time.. in the end ull be glad u did.

i think it's great that you are still. in a society that pressures girls more and more to have sex earlier, i comend you for holding off.

Haha, there's nothing wrong with being a complete virgin. your friends are just being jerks. also, just because you kiss someone or makeout with someone doesn't mean youre a slut.
um. anyway, it's good that you don't go around making out with random kids. it shows you have respect for yourself.

what's wrong with 'being a complete virgin?'


you control your own life and make your own decisions. so what if you feel like you aren't ready to take on 'bigger' things? << my point is, is that you aren't the only person who hasn't experienced these things, like I am, and there isn't anything wrong with that.

Just because all of your friends are not complete virgins, it doesn't make you a loser because you are one. It's your choice what you want to do or not so don't feel pressured to do things just because your friends have. Have a bf/make out with someone only when YOU are ready.

personally i think that being a complete virgin is a GOOD thing.
but then again, i'm only one person.
so to answer your question.. no, there is nothing wrong with u =)

there is absolutly nothing wrong with being a virgin

no way. if your friends cant take you for who you are; then thats just too bad for them.