okayy so im 14..in 9th grade..freshman in h.s .. but this topic isnt about me..its about my friend..same age same grade etc..but recently i found out shes been talkin to this guy that she meet online in a checkers chat room..at first i was like i guess its okay.. i mean that cant be to bad.but then i found out hes in 11th grade lives in cali..and has been talkin on the fone with her for a while..she gave him her fone number..ive talked to him..he sounds alot older.. and im scared he mite try to hurt her.. i tried talkin to her but she says he wont hurt her..cuz hes realli easy to talk to..i told her guys like that can just be leading u on..err help!!

slap the f*ck out of her...she'll understand...no wait don't listen to me
try to tell her about the things that 'might' or most likely will happen *ahem* ...and show her the worst case scnerio too

I've been in a situation liekn this before. had met this guy on an RPG site. We got to talkin, and hey he was great. The thing was he was 4 years older than me. He wanted my phone number so I gave it to him. He turned out to be a real d*ck in the end when I wouldn't give him what he wanted (sexual attention). He also lived all the way on the west coast when I lived in the mid west. Also, he called my house at 2am in the morning, my mom was very ..well...POed when she found out he was someone from the internet. My advice to you is, try to talk to her a bit more. Tell her some people aren't like they seem. Especially at first. Make sure she gets evidence this guy is real (many pictures, and address maybe) Something of the sort. Well good luck. <333
Evrae

leave her alone,let her make her mistakes...

maybe you can try finding some articles on the internet/magazines about online stalkers and stuff.
that might help.
or maybe you should tell a councelor or something.

ummmm......internet relationships

hmmm......

well some guys hav a low voice n can sound older...
newayz try talkin to her again..n try makin her see why ur worried bout her

the best lessons you learn in life are the ones that result from yur mistakes...

Well....
Are they going to meet or anything...?

if ur optimistic then u mite wna think of it as just.. like phone chattin club, u no when u dial like.. 1800-lets-chat... at least she hasn't given him her address yet..
i gave a dude in the chatroom my phone number when i was 8, he called me, and well he mostly cautioned me bout stuff cuz he found out that i was really 8 (and he didn't believe me)...

omg plz tell me this isnt the same fren who wants to lose her virginity. but yea n e wayz u should slap her in the head and get some common sense into her. has she ever heard the term pedofile?

Show her all those magazines that talk about online stalkers ><